Justin was one of a kind. Ahsaun, myself, George, and the rest of all his friends will always miss him and we will never forget him. One day we will all be together again, one sweet day.

Whenever I think of a young life being extinguished, it pains me to think that so much potential of life and living remained unexplored.Of course one cannot think that way if one were to go on making sense of this life.I believe that Justin fulfilled his purpose no matter whatever time he was given, even if that lesson is to spend as much time with loved ones because one never knows... 
 It was a life that began with such promise and as a child his zest for living was infectious.Somewhere along the way he lost his path as do all of us at some point or the other but what is important is that he remained a good caring soul.When I met him last year, after ten years, I was shocked to see the perpectually energized, bright, angelically beautiful child had, over time, changed into a painfully shy and sad, none the less beautiful young man. 
 We would have, could have, should have- are all useless exercises in either trying to console oneself or in trying to make oneself feel guilt-in terms of one's attempts to try to help him.I know for a fact Mona aunty how hard you tried to help him and perhaps you would have succeded in changing his life around if only this tragic accident hadn't occured. But those again ar the what if's. But when one talks of certainties, one thing you can be sure of is that he knew how much you loved him and I am sure he loved you. 
 I cannot understand the pain you are going through as a mother, Mona aunty.But the thought of losing my only sibling is something that I do not want to fathom.No matter how much you fight with your siblings- you always know there is no other person in the world who can replace them. Adriana will feel his loss at some important and more often at some quieter moments in life.She is a very strong individual and will be all the more stronger knowing that she has him if not physically then in spirit looking out for her. 
 As I write this more than a week after his passing I still cannot believe that this tragedy has occurred.I believe and pray he has found the peace that he so desperately sought in life .May God bless you all-Mona aunty, Adriana, Prem aunty, Kartar uncle and the rest of the family as well as his friends he was close with at the end,with the strength to cope with his loss.

Dear Ms. Mona Gandy and Mr. Peter Ruberto, Please except my condolences for the loss of your son. 
 My name is Jane Reynolds and I worked with him at Culpepper Cleaner's. He was a delightful young man and was really sweet to me personally. He would make me smile by flirting with me and asking me out knowing that I couldn't go out with him for I am already spoken for. I just wanted to let you know that I truly feel sad for you and your family. Although I don't know what it's like to lose a child, I do know what it's like to lose a very close loved one. I lost my Mom Sept. 7, 2002 and just wanted you to know that I generally felt the loss of Justin. 
 I wasn't sure if i should say anything on is web site but, I wanted to let you know that although I did not know him that well, I like him and was sorry to hear of the tragic news. 
 He will be very much missed. Sincerely, 
 Jane Reynolds

To Mona, Adriana, Kartar, Prim, James and Hary 
I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Justin. My heart is deeply saddened. 
May god bless all of you at this time. 
As I always felt like a part of the Gandy family, I feel so much pain with you. I will always remember Justin with that wonderful, beautiful smile and his love for all of you, especially his cousins. 
Mona....I don't know what to say...... I am so sorry. You are in my prayers. God Bless all of you. 
With all of my sympathy, 
Gary Buck

Dear, dear Mona, 
I hardly know what to say except to say that my prayers are with you. What a useless tragedy and a great loss. I am sorry I was not able to come to the service on Saturday, but I will certainly make a contribution to the American Cancer Society unless there is somewhere else you would choose. My heart goes out to you. I know that God is by your side at this time and always will be. 
God bless you. 
Sally

My deepest condolence to you and your family. May the Good Lord comfort you in your time of mourning. Although we will never know or understand the Lord's plan we can take comfort in knowing that our loved ones are in a better place. God Bless!

Hi,I was a friend of Justin's for about a year and i just want to tell you sorry and i know it was a tragic accident.He will surely be remembered by me.He was a very special person and very respected by me,very loving and I will miss him dearly.I cared for him as a friend and may God Bless you and your family.Love Debbie

Mona, 
I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you find strength through faith and that you may begin the healing process. Judy Dunlap

Mona, my thoughts and prayers have been with you. I went by Porter Loring 
 this morning and during my time there,I received "The Indian Prayer" and was so touched by its thought that those that we love so much, yet lose,live on with us and are near us forever. I believe in that truth! 
If Jane and I can be of any help to you, it would be our pleasure to assist. See you soon. Dave

Dear Mona, My deepest sympathy goes out to you for the loss of your son. May you find comfort with your family & close friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you.If there is anything I can do for you please don't hesitate to ask. Sincerely, Robbie

I remember Justin as an affectionate boy,always ready for the next adventure. He loved fun,he loved being hugged,and he had a zeal for life that meant cramming every moment full of action.He loved running races with me on the beach,and I'll never forget the trumphiant look he brandished on his face the first time he beat me. 
He made me laugh a lot. 
Gary,Melissa,Sarah,Christina,Jennifer,Oma,Zaiga,Helmut,Heidi,Emily and myself send our deepest condolences to you Mona,Adriana,Peter and your Family. God Bless You, 
With Love, 
Sarma & Family

Mona: 
 I am so overwhelmed by your loss and want you to know that you are steadily in my thoughts and prayers. 
 You will make it through this with God's strength and love. 
 I hope that you may have some comfort knowing that Justin is safe, warm and joyful in God's arms, with no pain; only love and happiness. 
 You have so many people who are sending you loving and caring thoughts and prayers. 
 Know that you are loved. 
With my deepest compassion and sympathy, 
Kim Simpson

Mona, I wanted you to know that my thoughts are with you. I am sadden to find out about the loss of your son. I know that I did not know him, but I am sure that he was an inspiration to you and all who knew him. I know that there are not any words that can remove the pain, but just know there are many, many people who care about you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Steven Zunker

Mona- 
I am so very, very sorry about your beatutiful son. There could be no other pain as great as what you are enduring and my words are so difficult to find. Please know I am prayiing for you and thinking of you Mona. Hold onto your faith and know that God is your anchor. 
Love and prayers, 
Nancy Oberman 22 March, 2003

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

My thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless, 
Raqi

Pushpa and I join you in this hour of great and tragic loss of son/grand son and pray lord to give you the strength and courage to bear this unbearable loss.Please accept our heartfelt condolences. Our heart goes out for you Mona, Kartar and Prem.

Mona, 
I am sorry I cannot be at the service today. Please know that I am with you in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do for you, please do not hesitate to call me. 
Janet Heydenreich

Dearest Mona aunty I was deeply saddened to hear about Justin and I whole-heartedly pray that God gives us the strength to move on through this time of anguish. As kids,Justin and I spent alot of fun times together. I sincerely regret not seeing him these past ten years. As far as I remember, Justin was a cute curly- haired hyper-active ten year old. He was teeming with energy and confidence. Alhough I was chubbier,he would always knock me down in our 'wrestling matches'. I got my first lesson in baseball and girls from him. The times that we shared were few but memorable. Those jokes and laughters will resound in my head forever and I will always remember him by those cheerful moments that we spent together.

I wish there were the right words to say to give comfort at such a time of heartbreaking loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. 
Our deepest sympathy, 
Mary, Megan, and Stephanie

Mona my heart felt sympathy to you and your family during this very difficult time.

A short note to tell you how deeply saddened I was to learn about Justin. I have always considered myself to be a part of your family, and so for me it was like losing a family member. 
Justin and I had a lot in common in that we were both rather rebellious during our early adult years. I somehow got myself straightened out and I feel as though he could have done the same thing had he been given more time. 
My prayers go out to all of you. 
Your friend, Larry

Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Your friends from International Tours, San Antonio

I was deeply saddened to learn of the tragic news of your beloved son and brother. Though I knew Justin for a short while while working for a security company at the Carlyle, he was a good kid. My deepest sympathy to Ms. Mona and sister Adriana.

Kartar/Prem 
We know the enormity of Mona's and your grief. Whatever we say is not going to comfort you much. You are mourning firstly Justin's loss, because the gift of life was taken away from him so early. You are also mourning your unbearable loss. Both of you, Mona, and your family will have to be strong, because of the enormity of Justin's loss and your loss. 
May God give you the strength to learn to live with your grief. 
Champa and I join you in grieving. 
We are there for you anytime you need us. Dil

It is with a heavy heart that I write this to you, we were all shocked and saddened by the tragic news. Our deepest condolences to you all at this very sad time, our prayers are with you all. We all have the fondest memories of Justin as a cute curly head boy. Unfortunately we never had the chance to meet up in recent years. Regretfully we cannot express our sympathies in person. God bless you Justin and may your soul rest in peace. Love always Sonia, Auntie Rosie, Sanjay & Peter.

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Justin Ruberto

20 septembre 1982 – 18 mars 2003

Porter Loring Mortuary - McCullough

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