They say you don't remember what people say , but you remember how they made you feel.With Hector I always felt like I was dealing with an authentic , honest person. He is a dear friend.Ive lost several in the last few years, Only kevin was closer to me. Sometimes it doesn't seem real. All those late nights, long talks. We had some scuffles, but within a minute I felt like crying for trying to hurt my brother.I did my best to stay connected when he was locked up. Letters, phone calls, a visit here and there.  I know it affected him. He still had the same laugh  but it wasn't as light as it had been. But he was laughing anyway. He definitely "had jokes. He was quick to unleash an impression of Bobcat or Tony Gwynn  or Prince without missing a beat. He loved his family, though he played it off, they were sacred to him.    Big Hec, Max, Eleena, J.J. , Ariana, Tina, Alyssa,  Yvonne and Hector  they are in his soul. I never saw him so happy as with his kids. He found himself , a charismatic, down to earth, resilient emotional, spiritual guy.  He would talk about Alyssa saying how beautiful, outgoing and caring she was. Yvonne he would say is intelligent reflective and a low tolerance for Bullcrap (Like her dad). Lil Hector was described to me many time as the next Bo Jackson / Michael Jordan / Tony Gwynn all in one but also as caring and smart.  Hec ws so smart he brought so many people together almost effortlessly, but I know that weighed on him, He was so wise  we would converse about different cultures and viewpoints, and how Einstien learned that energy  is never gone it just transforms (E=mc) Hector was on his on level for sure. He is sort of a paradox at times hard to describe-  though we saw some chaotic times and tears without them I wouldn't appreciate the laughter and the smiles. He would probably tell me to chill on the Hallmark BS- Lol.  But that's just me-  one thing for sure he respected people that be themselves. Maybe because  he was unapologetically Hec.

I remember this year and time. You were so happy to get your place. Alot of memories and times took place there. I remember hooking up your place to feel like home for you. Many good times and memories for sure that I'll never forget. I also remember nights where your sister and I would sneak up into your pad while you were gone lol. I'm going to miss you Hector! Alot of us are heartbroken! many! Of us are! I'll cherish all the times , memories, fun times, even the time where we almost fought. I'll cherish all! You'll always be in our hearts, thoughts and memories! Never forgotten! We and all miss you man! And love you Deeply! I love you Hector! 😢 

What the Heck Hec? I find myself reading our texts over and over again…I can’t believe you’re gone…we were supposed to grow old together…watch our kids grow old together…we’ve been friends for 46 years, we were inseparable…we’re brothers. I have so many words but can’t finish a sentence…I love you, always have always will…you took a piece of my heart with you. So many memories…I love you Hec…Rest Easy My Brother…

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Hector Joseph Redondo

29 août 1972 – 1 février 2023

El Camino Memorial - Sorrento Valley & Memorial Park

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