Betty Jo Glaros

A memorial service for Betty Jo will be held Sunday, October 10, 2021 from 11:00 AM to 12:00 PM at Lima Family Santa Clara Mortuary, 466 North Winchester Blvd, Santa Clara, CA 95050.

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.limafamilysantaclara.com for the Glaros family.

My Sweet Girl is resting peacefully, my heart is forever severed, no more pain, you are the strongest person ever! I know you are with me Sweetie… Always and forever my luv. I love you so much.

-Luke

I never imagined my life without you. You’ve been there from the very beginning, bringing me into this world. You've always been there for me, no matter what. I always hated to be separated from you. I remember one of my first days of preschool, I cried so violently from missing you that they had to call you to pick me up. You’ve always been there for me when I needed you throughout my life.

You were not only an amazing mother to me and my brothers, but also to mine and my brothers' friends. I can smile knowing that she was loved by many, and that she's no longer suffering. I can smile knowing you were embraced with the loving arms of your parents up there. And I can smile knowing you'll forever be watching over us. I’ll never forget the memories we shared as a family, and I will forever keep you in my heart. Give Lukie a big hug and a kiss for me. I love you Mom, always and forever.

-Zach

9/27/21 was the hardest day I've ever had to endure. I lost my mother, my best friend, my everything. You taught me to be kind, warmhearted, bold, brave, and most of all selfless. Everything I am today, I owe it all to you.

Now you are spreading your love, kindness, and warmth in Heaven among all the beautiful hummingbirds and butterflies.

You will forever be in my heart, and I promise to carry on your legacy.

I love you always and forever Mom.

-Brian

Monday September 27, 2021 was the hardest day of my life.

I lost my Mom and my best friend.

My Mom and I did everything together from impromptu weekend mall excursions to hiking to simply looking for the next good movie to watch together on Netflix.

I owe her a big part of my success with the principles she instilled in me early on. This is truly a testament to how well she raised me and how great of a Mom she was.

Those who knew my Mom knew how dedicated she was to her fitness and nutrition. I admired how consistent she was with getting up early every single morning to complete her weight training workout followed by her hour of cardio in the foothills. Every. Single. Day. No excuses, ever. I admired her work ethic and strict regimen and she is the reason I continue to pursue the fitness lifestyle today.

I really miss you Mom. This next chapter is going to be very hard. I still can't believe you're gone so soon, but I'm glad you're not suffering any more.

Rest peacefully Mom. I love you so very much.

-Michael

I’ve been trying to find the right words to say but there are none, so instead of just avoiding for the sake of trying to find the right words, I’m just going to try anyway.

Sweet sweet Betty Jo,

You were taken way too soon. I know you said you’ve been ready to go for a while, and I’m sure you’re resting peacefully and watching over all of us now. No more pain. Just comfort and solace hanging out, walking, and/or drinking Chardonnay with everyone else that has been lost to us here on earth.

My heart breaks for Michael, Brian, Zach, Luke, Sam, and really anyone who crossed paths with you. You meant the world to so many people. A world that will now never be the same.

You were and always will be so strong and inspiring to me. Even when you weren’t “feeling it,” you went on your walks and did your workouts. Every single day.

I’ll miss your smile, your laugh, your hugs, your stories. I’ll miss the Sunday family dinners. I’ll miss your compassion, your heart, your light. I’ll miss you.

I know it won’t be the same, but I know you will always be there with us no matter what. Weddings, grandpuppies, grandchildren, graduations, celebrations, holidays, every em effin gosh darn day.

Though it was by no means enough time, I am grateful for the time we had, grateful to have you in my life, grateful to know you’ll always be in our lives and our hearts.

I love you so much. Always will. Thank you for raising the love of my life. Rest easy.

-Alyx

My sweet sister was more like my first child since we were 11 years and one day apart. I never knew the influence I had on her growing up until just recently when she shared how she felt. I was more like a second mom and that wasnt always a good thing. We had our differences as there was a decade between us but our core values were always in sync. We didnt talk very often on the phone but when we did anytime between us melted away . I will miss those conversations and will always treasure our memories weve made through the years. Rest in Peace beautiful girl.

-Love you, Diane

On Monday your body was finally freed from its pain. Although we are so terribly sad that you are no longer here with us in person, we know you are around in spirit. I hope that Heaven is filled with endless walking trails and unlimited bottles of Chardonnay. I’m so thankful for the love you gave me the past 9 years. Thank you for raising such a wonderful man that I now get to call my husband. We promise to carry on your legacy

-Lena

Dearest Betty Jo, you meant the world to me. You were my step mom, but not a stereotype of one. You were loving and kind to me always. You welcomed me to the family with hugs and kisses and you never stopped doing that. I so wish for one more of your hugs. A little girl with two families - two daddies and two mommies, I never felt sad for this separation of families, only an over abundance of love. A deep feeling from a young age that my parents were with the right people. I feel so lucky we're family. You were just getting started on your new adventure as 'Gramma Jo'. I am so thankful for the time Joshy got to spend with you. I wish so much that there was more time. It's unfair you were taken so young. The last year has been so hard, knowing your time is cut short. The past few days have been awful. Just because you are prepared for it, doesn't mean you're ready. I know you are at peace now and not in pain. While that may be somewhat comforting, I know I am not alone wishing things were different. I will tell my children of their sweet Gramma Jo, of your big beautiful smile and all of the laughs and joy that came from being in your presence. I love you very much Betty Jo & I hope you are resting peacefully & getting ready to meet your new grandbabies from above.

-Samantha

As Breast Cancer Awareness Month begins, my family's hearts break for we lost a true treasure Monday, September 27th, 2021 to breast cancer.

I will never forget the first time I met Betty Jo Glaros She met me with a warm hug and the brightest smile, and she continued to welcome me just the same each time I saw her. She was a person you couldn't stand to be without. She was the person you went to when you were having a bad day and the person you raced to to share good news. She radiated with happiness and love each time anyone saw her. She was everything a mother and a best friend should be.

She raised three wonderful sons, one of which I get to spend the rest of my life with. The values she's instilled in these boys, I will be forever grateful. I see so much of her in each of the boys and hope they pass down these qualities for future generations so that Betty Jo will live on in her grandchildren and great grandchildren and so on.

Betty Jo, my heart breaks for another warm hug, or a really long talk. I will forever carry your love, strength, courage and warmth in my heart. I will carry on your traditions and tell our little girl all about her most wonderful Nana. I will reminder her of her guardian angle in heaven and let her know how loved she was even before she entered this world. I will teach her how to be strong, loving, caring, and brave just like her Nana.

I love you so very much. Rest Peacefully. I know you are watching over us. Until next time

-Tara