Thomas M. Barnett

1968 to 2025

We are heartbroken to announce the passing of Tom Barnett, a beloved father, grandfather, son, brother, uncle, and friend. Tom’s life was a testament to kindness, humor, and unwavering love—a legacy that will live on in the countless lives he touched.

Tom devoted over 30 years to serving his community as a dedicated police officer. His compassion, courage, and commitment left an indelible mark on all who had the privilege of knowing him. Whether through his service or in his personal relationships, Tom’s generous spirit and steady presence uplifted everyone around him.

He is survived by his three children—Ryan Stifanick, Leah & Dustin Musgrave, and Laura & Steven Millar—and his cherished grandchildren: Khi, Kalia, Ryli, Roka, and Darian (DJ). He also leaves behind his mother and stepfather, Charlene and Terry Ball; his father and stepmother, Merle and BJ Barnett; his siblings, Katina & Chris Aaronson and Robynn Jay; and his step-siblings, Kelly Ball, Cliff & Cindy Berdar, and Kelly Berdar. Tom was preceded in death by his brother, Mark Jay. He is also remembered with love by a large extended family of nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, and dear friends.

We invite all who knew Tom to join us in celebrating his life and legacy. The memorial gathering will be held at a welcoming indoor/outdoor venue and will include food, drinks, and activities for children—a reflection of the warmth and joy Tom brought to every gathering. We appreciate everyone allowing us the ability to prepare for all who wish to attend via the public Facebook event created, Celebrating Tom Barnett.

Saturday June 21st, 2025 at 11:00 AM

Hells Canyon Grand Hotel

621 21st Street, Lewiston, Idaho

Please come share in honoring a life well lived and a man deeply loved.