Charles Shyab

Charles Shyab was born on October 7, 1944, to George and Athena Shyab of Cleveland, Ohio. The son of Lebanese first-generation Americans, Charles grew up alongside his older sister, Yvonne. At the tender age of six, he experienced the loss of his father, George — a defining moment that shaped his life and his deep sense of resilience.

He attended Lakewood Academy for elementary school and later graduated from Mount Vernon Academy, where he formed lifelong friendships and treasured memories. He then relocated from Cleveland to Takoma Park, Maryland, to continue his education at Columbia Union College.

In the summer of 1967, Charles was drafted into the U.S. Army and trained as a medic at Fort Sam Houston, TX. As a conscientious objector, he served honorably as a field medic with the 4th Infantry Division Charlie Company 1-22 in the Central Highlands of Vietnam. He was deployed during the Tet Offensive and, on April 28, 1968, was wounded in heavy combat at Chu Moor Mountain. For his valor and sacrifice, Charles was awarded both the Purple Heart and the Bronze Star. Not a day passed that he did not reflect on the brave men who saved his life but never made it home. He honored their memory through visits to the Vietnam Veterans Memorial and by staying in touch with their families. His remarkable service was later chronicled in the book The Battle of Chu Moor Mountain.

Upon returning from the hardships of Vietnam, Charles was overwhelmed with gratitude and joy to find his redheaded British sweetheart, Jocelyn Blaxall, waiting for him. The two had met in 1966 in Dupont Circle. Her letters and care packages had been his lifeline through the darkest days, and their reunion marked the beginning of a love that would carry them through a lifetime. They married on October 20, 1968, beginning 57 beautiful years together.

After completing his military service at Fort Belvoir Hospital in Virginia, he resumed his studies at Columbia Union College, earning his B.A. in Education in 1970. This launched a 40-year career in education as a teacher and principal within the Seventh-day Adventist school system, serving across six states. In 1976, he furthered his commitment to education by earning a Master’s Degree in Elementary Education. Charles was a natural in the classroom — a gifted storyteller. He was known for his lighthearted spirit and his collection of funny ties, which never failed to bring a smile to those around him. Delighting students with his humor and warmth. He touched countless young lives through his dedication and joy in teaching. One of his most cherished annual traditions was accompanying his students to the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, where they had the solemn honor of laying a wreath in tribute.

Charles and Jocelyn welcomed three children: Amy, Alison, and as he would say “my boy” Charlie. They were the pride of his life. Charles reveled in fatherhood, sharing with them his love for nature, collectibles, traveling, and, of course, his famous Dad jokes. His constant refrain, “Who loves you?” became a cherished family saying.

Upon retiring in 2008, he dedicated himself to his veteran community, providing support through benefits counseling and peer groups. Among his many contributions, he was especially proud of organizing a memorial granite bench at Washington Adventist University, in honor of the fallen veterans who had once walked its halls, ensuring their sacrifice would never be forgotten. Retirement also afforded him and Jocelyn the opportunity to travel — both to long-dreamed-of destinations and to visit their five beloved grandchildren, who adored their Pop-Pop.

A Life Well Lived, A Legacy of Love

Charles leaves behind his devoted wife of 57 years, Jocelyn; his children, Amy, Alison, and Charlie; and his five treasured grandchildren, Adele, Austin, Alex, Emma and Laila. He is also survived by his extended family, along with countless former students, colleagues, fellow veterans, and dear friends whose lives were brightened by his kindness, humor, and faith.

His life was a testament to courage, compassion, and unwavering devotion to God. He met adversity with strength, found purpose in service, and filled each day with gratitude, laughter, and love. His legacy endures in the hearts of all who knew him.

Though we mourn his passing, we find comfort in the blessed assurance that he now rests at peace and in God’s perfect time, be reunited with beloved family members, friends and comrades who went before him.

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” — Matthew 25:23

Link to Charles' Book https://www.amazon.com/Battle-Chu-Moor-Mountain/dp/1941165435

Charles' NBC interview Maryland Veteran Reflects on Vietnam’s Tet Offensive 50 Years Later – NBC4 Washington https://www.nbcwashington.com/video/news/local/maryland-reflects-on-vietnams-tet-offensive-50-years-later_washington-dc/164080/