Mary Lois (Ryder) Studley

Mary Lois (Ryder) Studley died on June 19, 2024 at age 86. Born and raised in Yarmouth Port, she was the daughter of the late H. Stuart and Genevieve (Stever) Ryder and youngest sister to Leonard and Leslie.

She was lovingly married to Robert L. Studley for a wonderful 48 years who both were multi-generational Cape Codders with roots tracing back to the Mayflower. Along with Bob, she co-owned and operated Doane, Beal, and Ames and Nickerson Funeral Homes on Cape Cod. Mary also played a role as the interior decorator for the multiple locations of the funeral homes. Mary went through the Yarmouth school system and was a 1955 graduate.

Mary Lois was a board member of the Historical Society for 15 years and a life member of the First Congregational Church of Yarmouth. She and Bob also donated many hours to various charities throughout Cape Cod.

She is survived by her three children, Betsy of Yarmouth Port, Robert Jr. of Colrain, MA and Sarah of South Yarmouth. Lovingly known as “Mamie” she is also survived by her six grandchildren Brandon, Katherine and Jordan (Sweeney) and Emily, Elizabeth and Quentin (Antoine), five great-grandchildren and extended family.

Her family requests to please remember Mamie with a smile. She lived a wonderful life with a family who loved her and a host of friends. A special thank you to the First Congregational Church Pastor and committee members who dedicated time and support to her in recent years. Her family also thanks the nursing staff who has taken great efforts in ensuring her a comfortable time while in their care. They would also like to express their gratitude to the “old guard” at Doane, Beal, and Ames for their care and compassion during this time.

A private graveside service will be held at Woodside Cemetery. When in the area, please make sure to “toot and wave” as Mary requested. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Mary’s name to the First Congregational Church of Yarmouth “Carpet Fund” 329 Route 6A, Yarmouth Port, MA 02675.