AVIS DE DÉCÈS
Christopher Zafiris Vamvakias
18 janvier 1944 – 29 novembre 2017
Christopher Zafiris Vamvakias
Christopher Z. Vamvakias went to meet his loving creator and those who have preceded us in this life on November 29, 2017.
Chris was born on January 18, 1944, in Portland, Maine. In 1947, his family moved to Houston, Texas, and settled in Cloverleaf where Chris attended school, graduating from Galena Park High School in 1962. Chris attended college at Georgia Tech University and University of Houston and worked at Karm Repair Company, Maxey Road Lumber, Concept Woodwork Corporation, before opening his own general contracting company Construction Services Group with life-long friend and business partner Bob Welker. He was active in multiple professional associations including: NARI, GHBA and the Remodelers Council.
Chris enjoyed hunting, shooting, riding his four wheelers and especially spending time outdoors appreciating nature. Starting at an early age, he had a passion for helping others and bringing people together. His inclusionary love for all was evident in the way he always put others before himself and opened his home to those in need. Chris was a man of tremendous faith. He put his complete trust in God and knew in his heart that God has a plan for each of us.
He is preceded in passing by his father, Zafiris Vamvakias; mother, Malama Vamvakias; son, Kevin C. Vamvakias; brother, Nicholas Z. Vamvakias; sister-in-law, Tina A. Vamvakias; sister-in- law, Barbara A. Vamvakias; nephews, Jeffery N. Vamvakias, Paul N. Vamvakias, Jeffrey P. Vamvakias; and several other Nieces, Nephews and Cousins.
He is survived by his daughter, Nicole Vamvakias, and son-in-law, Damon Knox; wife of 7 years, Barbara E. Vamvakias; daughter, Claudia Sears, and son-in-law, Greg Sears; son, Daniel Lager, and daughter-in-law, Cheryl Lager; brother, Jim Z. Vamvakias; nephews, Jeffrey J. Vamvakias and Gregory J. Vamvakias; brother, Plutarch Z. Vamvakias; sister-in-Law Tina P. Vamvakias; and niece, Christine Waldron; nephews from Nicholas Z. Vamvakias: Gary N. Vamvakias, Mark N. Vamvakias, Brian N. Vamvakias and Byron N. Vamvakias; cousin, Nicholas P. Vamvakias, sister-in-law, Carol Vamvakias; niece, Mary Kate Moran; and nephew, P. Nicholas Vamvakias.
Chris’s request was that we not mourn his passing but instead celebrate his life and the wonderful family and friends we are blessed to have. He will be greatly missed by all of us whose lives he impacted. May his memory be eternal.
Visitation will be held at St. Anthony the Great Orthodox Christian Church (7202 FM 2920 Spring TX, 77379) on Monday, December 4, 2017 from 5:00 PM– 7:00PM with the Trisagion Service from 7-7:15pm. Light refreshments will follow in the church Fellowship Hall.
Funeral services will be held at 10:00AM on Tuesday, December 5, 2017 at St. Anthony the Great Orthodox Christian Church (7202 FM 2920 Spring TX, 77379) with burial to follow at Forest Park The Woodlands (18000 I-45, Conroe TX, 77384) at approximately 11:30 AM. A Mercy Meal and Celebration of Life will be held in St Anthony’s Fellowship Hall at approximately 12:30PM. Everyone is welcome and encouraged to attend the Mercy Meal, even if your schedule does not allow you to attend the Visitation or Funeral Services.
Flowers or Donations: If you would like to send flowers, please send them to Forest Park The Woodlands (18000 I-45, Conroe TX, 77384) by no later than 1pm, Monday, December 4th. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to: MD Anderson Cancer Center P.O. Box 4486 Houston, TX 77210-4486
Please include that the gift is in memory of Christopher Vamvakias. Website: www.mdanderson.org/gifts, when using the website please select the give in memory tab and under the billing information please select the checkbox that says I would like to choose where my donation goes. Once selected, please select the Fund designated by family option (Acute Palliative Care) from the dropdown box. If you need any assistance or would like for MD Anderson to process the donation on your behalf please call 713-792-3450 or 1-800-525-5841.
Services
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Visitation
lundi, 4 décembre , 2017
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Trisagion Prayers
lundi, 4 décembre , 2017
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Funeral Service
mardi, 5 décembre , 2017
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Trisagion Prayers
mardi, 5 décembre , 2017
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Meal of Mercy Following Interment
mardi, 5 décembre , 2017
Souvenirs
Christopher Zafiris Vamvakias
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ENVOYEZ CONDOLEANCESKay Meriam Vamvakias
22 janvier , 2018
December 05, 2017
Today was a celebration of like. Even though there were tears of sadness for ourselves I hope Chris was happy with the togetherness we had today. (Chris is Gary's uncle that I am coexecutor with on my father in laws estate.) His friends that he was in 7th grade with talked about their friendship, talk of love of family. This was a man that truly gave of himself, who looked for the good in every one, who honored his God, he was a person we should all strive to be like. So Chris, I will attempt as you put it to be nice when I really want to let the quick Italian temper go. You are missed by so many for so many reasons! Hug Mudder and Fudder for me and tell them Dotter sends her love. And I will hug Barb Vamvakias for you often!
Kay Meriam Vamvakias
Lori & Russ Walker
22 janvier , 2018
November, 2017
Good afternoon Chris. I don't know if you are comforted by scripture,,,this is from 2 Timothy 4:6. "For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day".
May God be with you always and forever. You are much loved here, but no one can love you as much as our Lord. Praying for you and aunt Barbara. We love you! Lori and Russ
Bob Welker
22 janvier , 2018
December 5, 2017
Celebration Dinner
I think it the year was 1956. The place was North Shore Jr. High. Kids from several blue collard neighborhoods made up the first 7th grade class. Chris, Fred Weston and I met and would become lifelong friends.
We were raised by parents that instilled the very values of work, responsibility, respect and many other things that are being discounted today.
Three years later we were bussed to Galena Park High School. Those were great years. Chris often said that we were so lucky to have grown up during this time. All of us made many friends that are still in our lives today. After high school we all moved in different directions but still kept in contact.
We raised our families together.
I share the memory with Nicole of watching her stand on a chair in our kitchen making a cake. She was around 5 or 6 at that time and she had more cake on her than she had in the bowl.
I have many wonderful memories of Kevin at the deer lease-we shared so many campfires.
Chris and I worked for a company called Concept Architectural Woodwork-several of those folks we worked with are here today. I have great memories of those days-many things that we learned while working there would help us when we opened our own company.
Fast forward several years and we opened up our own company called Construction Services Group, Inc.
Lots of long hours, lots of weekends-not much money! We used to dread Wednesday and Thursdays because we were always trying to collect money owed to us to secure Fridays payroll. We asked God to lead us and we trusted Him to help us. CSG had it's ups and downs! I remember many times we prayed together asking for God's help. At one point we had absolutely no jobs and decided it was time we closed our doors and cut our losses. We both were so discouraged. We went into the conference room, closed the door and started praying and we asked God what we should do. While we were praying the phone started to ring. Within the next couple of hours four new customers called accepting our proposals to do their projects. We were so excited but soon realized that we did not have the people or working capital to do the work. You might guess what we did-we got back on our knees and asked for help from God.
You can count yourself blessed if you have a friend like Chris. If you had a need Chris was the one you called. He would respond. We now live in times when people are so centered on themselves-but not Chris he was always the first on to respond to another person's need.
Chris took care of his mother-she lived in an apartment near the Greek Orthodox Church. Often when Chris checked on her it was my job to get her into another room so he could clean out her refrigerator. Like so many of her generation she was not going to waste food or throw any away even if it had been there to long.
Chris moved his cousin David into his home and cared for him for many months until he passed away from cancer.
Chris met a man named Ron. Ron could operate his phone and his computer by placing a small rod between his teeth. Chris and Barbara entered his life and became major care givers. They made several trips to his home on the West side of Houston to care for him and take care of his needs until be passed away.
When his brother Nick became ill and needed help-guess who was there to help him and his family. Chris invested his life into other people. He showed us how to live!
When Chris realized that his cancer would take his life he showed all of us how to finish our lives with dignity. Chris loved all of us. He gave us a great example of how to live and also how to die.
We will miss you Chris!
Jessica Sears
22 janvier , 2018
November 13, 2017
Dear Grandpa Chris,
Revelations 14:13
Then I heard a voice from heaven saying to me, "Write: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on" "Yes," says the Spirit "that they may rest from their labors, and their works follow them".
Grandpa,
You are so loved...I send all my love and happiness to you for I pray that you find peace on that long journey to heaven. Do not be afraid, for you will be with us in our hearts forever and always. I will cherish my memories of you, even through they not long they will last a lifetime. I love you from the bottom of my heart. All of us have been blessed to have you in our lives working for Crist and spreading his love. For your labors will be remembered by all. Thinking of you always and still praying for recovery. Your are so kind and gentle. The love you have put in all our lives will never be forgotten. I want you to know this came from my heart and will miss you always. With tears in my eyes this is not goodbye. This is a time to rejoice, for you will be reunited with our Lord and in his name Amen. I love you Grandpa.
Love Jessica and Stephen
Always praying for you.
Gene Lawson
22 janvier , 2018
December, 2017
Dear Chris:
As we talked several weeks ago, I told you that among all of my male friends, you were at the top along with my best friend Bob Latour as the nicest, always giving to others, family man to the utmost, hard working and honest men I have known. No BS, just spit it out.
I will miss our chats and our griping at world issues....with our own solutions.
Our handshakes were firm and we looked each other in the eye.
When you enter heaven, do not get into politics. ..unless you and Him can help out here.
We will be here for Barbara anytime she needs me or Kelli. God Bless your children.
Your friend
Gene
Greg Tsopelas
22 janvier , 2018
December, 2017
My dear Chris, there are few words that can express the sorrow that we all feel during this time, that hasn't already been share among us all. You're a rockstar of sorts...having composed music that will forever remain dear to us all. Your east coast family were all so grateful for this last family gathering here in Maine. I will always be thankful for our impromptu dinners when visiting Houston on business. You are loved. Greg
Blair Jordan
22 janvier , 2018
November, 2017
Pop pops-
I'm praying for you. I love you so much. Just like God our father in heaven has adopted us into His kingdom and loves us I have adopted you as my earthly father. I'm thankful and grateful for the many years we have had to talk, laugh, and fellowship as a friend and family. Thank you for adopting me and my family into your covey. I'm going to miss our weekly hour plus long talks about life, marriage, work, kids, politics, and everything else. Promise me you will be there along the way in spirit. You have helped me grow and learn so much, so much wisdom, patience, guidance, compassion. I love you sir. Hang on, I'm going to try to get there to see you today, maybe tomorrow.
God is Rock, our salvation, our hope, our eternity, He is the greater reward. I have no doubt your spirit will carry on in His kingdom. Tell Him you are His child and believe in Him and that you believe He has prepared a special place in His kingdom for you. You have deferred many treasures on earth to store many treasures in His kingdom! A good and faithful servant to our King you are.
I love you, my kids love you, Alicia and Edwin love you.
Blair
Greg Tsopelas
22 janvier , 2018
November, 2017
To a man that humbles us all with his spiritual strength, his love for God and passion of Family. Chris, you've shown me how to have faith where it's easy to cave. I feel so blessed to have become closer with you and this family over the years. May God be at your side.
Love you Brother -
Greg T
Jeff Vamvakias
22 janvier , 2018
This was in November, 2017
Dear Uncle Chris,
If there is one thing that jumps to the front of my thoughts about you, it is that every single person that I have ever known that knows you, everyone, has the highest respect for you. Not a single person has ever had anything but the best things to say about you. And there is a reason for that. You are respected and trusted, and listened to, because your actions and your words make it clear that you are an honest person, with integrity, and a good mind and solid common sense. And this what others look for in a friend, counselor, business partner, someone they want to be associated with.
In times of trouble, emergency, in any situation I've ever seen you encounter in my life, you are always calm, steady, you cut to the heart of the matter and to the truth of the matter without drama or biasyou don't shy away from the truth, you uncover it logically, and then you address the situation calmly, but honestly. That is what I've always admired most about you.
I've never heard you say one bad thing about another person, ever. You are a model for what we all aspire to be and fall short of.
My earliest and happiest memories are of you, Uncle Pluto, Yiayia, and the rest of our family at Yiayia's house in Cloverleaf. I remember your Jeep and your VW Bug parked at the end of the driveway by the big pile of sand. You and Uncle Pluto used to tape together baseball bat pieces and other things to make me guns or different kinds.
I remember all the times we played Marco Polo at the lake at Huntsville State Park, canoeing across the lake, swimming across it. I can remember you taking me driving in your Jeep and your Bug.
One memory I have that I never forgot was at our old house at 611 Regal Street. You were covered with a sheet pretending to be a monster and chasing me and I was terrified. I was running around the side of the house, where the gate was and suddenly I just turned and charged at you, until you took off the sheet and started laughing.
I can remember coming home from Marine Corps Boot Camp and hanging out with you in the garage of your house in the Woodlands. You had a deer you shot, and you'd used a scope on your rifle and told me how far away you'd hit it from, and we talked about how far I could hit a man' sized target with my M-16 using my sling.
I know we can never bring the past back, but I wish my children, Demetri and Sophie, could somehow grow up the way I didwith you, Pluto, Uncle Nick and all of his kids, Yiayia, Nounou, all of our extended friends and family. I remember all the holidays we spent together at Yiayia's and at Uncle Pluto's place when Jim Watt used to come over and show us slide shows from Europe and Sistine Chapel.
I want my kids to have what I hadthe best family in the world.
I am still counting on a miracle and seeing you visit us here soon so you can have some time to play with Sophie and Demetri and see our house.
I love you Uncle Chris, I am so happy I come from the Vamvakias family, and I so happy I grew up with you and all of our family.
your nephew,
Jeff
Roberte Vamvakias
21 janvier , 2018
Date: Mon, Nov 20, 2017
FAREWELL TO CHRISTOPHER
My dear cousin Chris,
The first time we met, in September 2009 in Cape Elizabeth, we walked along the shore, so beautifull place for a first meeting, and we talked.
Three years after, we discovered the Grand Canyon, together with Barbara and Michèle : amazing, isn'it? We talked.
In 2013, I spent nearly 2 months in Texas, at this occasion, you asked me if I wanted to take pictures of the pictures of the family : I learnt a lot of my father's family, thank you Chris. And we talked!
In 2014, Family Vamvakias Reunion. We tried to talk ...
September 2017 : one week with you, Barbara, PZ and Tina, Jim, Nicole and Damon, Greg and Jeana, Kay and Gary; so much love and mood, humor and laughs, emotions... We took time to talk!!!
And now Chris, one says you have to leave? And if you leave, with who I will talk and debate about politic, it's terrible???
One of the French President de la Republique said, a while before his death : " I believe in the strengh of the mind, I will not leave you". I am sure it will be the same with you.
Chris, you are not my cousin, you are the brother I have never had : I will miss you.
Bon voyage, Christopher, take care of you in the sky and take care of your wife, you daughter, the family and friends.
I love you, Chris.
Roberte
Barbara Vamvakias
21 janvier , 2018
Nov 29, 2017
When I first met Chris I noticed many things that make everyone love him. Probably first, the eyes, those beautiful brown eyes. The dimples that show when he is teasing or fibbing. His laugh that could be heard all over the office. So honest. We would all smile. His caring for everyone. He makes you feel like you are the most important person in the world. The way he never meets a stranger. His loving nature.
Chris said there are three kinds of love: the one you have for family, the one you have for your friends, and the one you have for your partner in life. Chris and I were co-workers and friends long before we became lovers (13 years), and I truly believe God put us together. He is my mate, my lover, my friend, and will always be my soul mate. My other half. He makes me complete. He showed me what love really is. What am I to do without my friend, my love, my partner? A wonderful father to his and my children, Grandpa, Pop Pop, and husband. I am not saying we didn't have or differences (Greek and Irish bound to happen).
He is a great father figure to those who lost or never really had a father figure. No one met Chris that didn't fall in love with him as a person. He is a true and honest friend in the good times, and more importantly in the bad times. He has had a lot of sorrow in his life. He lost Kevin in 2008, and here in 2017 he still can't talk about it without crying. We are married one month short of seven years. I was afraid to take the huge step. I was afraid I would lose my best friend, my confidant. He convinced me in the end, and we were married in a simple ceremony December 7, 2010. What a whirlwind those seven years have been.
We were diagnosed with Merkel Cell cancer on February 27, 2017. A very dangerous and fast growing cancer. He had surgery on March 20, and even talked them into fixing his hernia at the same time. While doing the testing they found a mass in his stomach. After tests he was diagnosed with Adenocarcinoma on April 7, 2017. He underwent chemo and with the first PET scan it appeared it was working. But Gad had other plans for him.
We went to Portland Maine to our family reunion in September. He was not feeling well but enjoyed every minute. After our return Hurricane Harvey came to visit making us miss our chemo. We were finally back on schedule. Now came the third PET scan. The second one showed more activity. The third showed a spread of the cancer. I have condensed the time from April til now. They were going to change the chemo to a stronger one, but before they could he started to feel bad and had a cough. They postponed.
Just a cough he said, over and over. My heart aches every time I hear him struggle to breath. Oh how I have loved this man. We have only had seven married years together and here we are, waiting for the evil to take him away from all of us who love him. I pray all the time for no pain. We have accepted what is to come. He loves his God, and has made peace with his passing (me not yet. Maybe later).
I know life will go one, but how will we without a wonderful Pop Pop, father, husband, uncle, and friend? I will wake in the middle of the night and he will be sleeping beside me forever.
Sylvia Kostopoulos
21 janvier , 2018
MY COUSIN CHRIS
There are so many things I could say about this guy..so many wonderful attributes I would share, but I will simplify it by saying Chris is just a GOOD MAN! Being a really GOOD guy seems to be natural to you Chris and your beautiful spirit and attitude even in the face of the most damning adversity, comforts all of us around you. Your love for your family & everyone simply embraces all who are in you presence! That is a GIFT you keep giving to everyone....I for one am humbled by your faith, by your ability to believe in the "good" and the reason why life happens as it does. I can only believe a beautiful positive outlook such as yours....comes from a GOOD guy who knows that there is NO END...only another beginning, a new awakening. And so my Darling Chris you not only have shown us how to live with a positive expectancy....but you are also teaching us how to die graciously. YOU ARE A GIFT TO ALL OF US.
LOVE ALWAYS SYLVIA
Date Received: November 15, 2017
Michele Flejou
20 janvier , 2018
Dearest Nicole,
It's with a lot of sadness that I received the new that our dear cousin is passed. Now has you say Nicole he is in peace, he knew perfectly what was going on. I know that there is no miracle when Chris had so much problems.
I am happy that he saw the priest twice that much had help him a lot.
When we are so near God like Chris, it help a lot, now he is in peace and doesn't suffer anymore.I will keep him in my heart and remember him when he was well. I am so happy I had him one house on the phone after family reunion.
I will be with all of you during the ceremony.
Barbara Vamvakias
24 décembre , 2017
Merry Christmas My Darling. You are truly missed!
Mark Vamvakias
10 décembre , 2017
Barbara,
My family and I send send our condolences to you. Chris is with God now and feeling no more pain.
Barbara Vamvakias
10 décembre , 2017
Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Ruby Howe
9 décembre , 2017
Chris you were so special I know God needed you in heaven or he would not have taken you at this time. We will always remember you. To the Vamvakias family so sorry for your loss. Chris was one in a million.
lisa (Vamvakias) malpass
8 décembre , 2017
Warm hugs for all. God bless.
Barbara Vamvakias
8 décembre , 2017
Thanks to all who have and will post in the Guest Book. I can not express my sorrow in losing my beloved husband. He brought light into any room and the darkness now is sometime over whelming. I will forever miss his beautiful brown eyes, sweet smile and honest laugh. Thank you again. (Chris" Wife)
Barbara Vamvakias
8 décembre , 2017
Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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Barbara Vamvakias
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kerrie Cabrera
8 décembre , 2017
Barbara. My heart is saddened for you greatly as for the rest if his family. He's in heaven now where is love and zest for life will be used in another beautiful way. His obituary describes the man I knew exactly. Jessse n I have been touched by his kindness several times. We love you n are praying for u all.
Renea Graves
7 décembre , 2017
All our love,
Mike Lyons and Renea Graves
Renea Graves
7 décembre , 2017
Our FATHER GOD now has a beautiful angel. Chris...you are already missed so deeply. I had unfortunately only a few years to have you as my dear friend...and I will treasure the memories forever. YOU are a true child of GOD. Everything that he created you to be...was fulfilled. I know through my Faith that you have already created a beautiful home now in Heaven. You're spreading the Chris love everywhere. That's YOU. So kind...so gentle...such a gentleman. True definition of a "gentleman" is Chris...a "gentle" "man". The many many stories that Mike (Lyons) has shared with me of your friendship will be tucked away in my heart till eternity...until I see "my friend Chris" once again. Barbara was so blessed the day she met you and became your bride. I truly admired your loving, close relationship. Real "LOVE" for one another. Once again...another beautiful thing that YOU Chris did while on GOD's beautiful Earth. I love you beautiful angel.
DIANE and JIM DEMAKIS
4 décembre , 2017
DEAR BARBARA AND FAMILY;
OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR THE LOSS OF DEAR CHRIS. HE WAS SUCH A WONDERFUL, THOUGHTFUL, AND CARING MAN. HOW SPECIAL IT WAS TO HAVE BEEN WITH HIM RECENTLY AT THE FAMILY REUNION IN MAINE.HE WILL TRULY BE MISSED. GOD BLESS HIM.
LOVE,
DIANE AND JIM DEMAKIS
Charles Hutchins
4 décembre , 2017
Chris and Plutarch have been our friends from back in the early 70's with fond memories. A & A Machine & Fabrication and Charles Hutchins give our condolences.
Wanda Nichols
3 décembre , 2017
I was so saddened to hear about the passing of Chris. He was one of the nicest people I have ever known. He showed such kindness, warmth, and friendship to my son, Ron, and to all in the Nichols family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
George B.
2 décembre , 2017
Only knew him in passing, in high school. Spoke with him a bit at his 40th high school reunion, where he assumed some of the speaker's role. Especially remembered and appreciated his calling for a period of silence then, in memory of those who did not come home from Vietnam. Godspeed, fella!
Becky
2 décembre , 2017
Chris was a good friend. He was always a gentleman and had a wonderful sense of humor. He will be missed. Becky Bush