Dear Grammy,
It's me Rae we will always miss Pop-Pop and so will Jessie lol oh rember that you thought lol ment lots of love that one time, but mainly we will all love him and miss him.
Love,
     Rae

Dear Rae and family,
My sincere condolences....I knew you and Joe many many years ago at St. Cecelia's....He was always such a great guy....Prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Pat Grutta (Payton, from Rochelle Park, now Park Ridge)

Dear Rae and family,
We are very sorry to hear about your husband. Please accept our deepest sympathy and love. Suzanne, Michelle & Jack Kazanjians'

Dear Rae,you&your family are in out thoughts & prayers. May all your cherished memories sustain you Gladys & Henry Bartoli

I'm Joe's oldest son, Joe.  In addition to being my father, Dad was my hero and my friend.  He was an incredible role model for my sister Amy, my brother Mike and I and our spouses, as well as to his sister, his 9 grandchildren and to his nieces and nephews, to his cousins, to our in-laws and all of his family and his friends – all of whom he loved dearly.  He was a man of faith and relied on that in good times and in bad.  He was an outstanding firefighter for nearly 50 years and an accomplished leader both in the business and the communities he served.  I think two of his proudest accomplishments were his family and his service to Washington Township and to the larger Bergen County community.  The incredible turnout for these services have really helped support my family and I and I know my Dad is looking down extremely grateful and genuinely humbled to see how many lives he's touched.

Dad was a great family man, a trusted and loyal friend to many, a selfless person and a devoted and faithful husband to my Mom, his childhood sweetheart, his best friend and his wife of 45 years.  He was also a loving and caring brother to his sister Joanne and his brother John.  My father lost his dad when he was a teenager and despite that tragedy, he was able to establish a very high standard for raising, providing for and leading a family.

Dad taught us many things, including the importance of helping others, treating others how you wanted to be treated, conducting yourself as a gentleman or a lady at all times and to never give up.  I could go on and on about my father and what a great man he was, however in keeping in step with father Brian, I will try to keep this relatively brief.     

My father loved people and he would often open his home to friends, both old and new.  My sister, my brother and I would often have to compete for vacation weeks at his shore house with some of his new friends – such as the landscaper, the plumber and the pool guy to name a few.  He was a great judge of character and if he liked you, you had a new vacation destination on the water at the Jersey Shore.

Dad had multiple hobbies and interests and throughout his life he would relentlessly pursue new things that intrigued him.  The thing though was that when he developed a new interest, rather than dipping his toes in the water, he would immediately dive into the deep end...often with his clothes on:  

For instance, take the time that he decided that he would like to heat our house on his own, via natural resources.  Within a few weeks, he had a wood burning stove installed in our basement, a log splitter that could have been mistaken for a missile launcher parked in our driveway, a top of the line monstrosity of a chainsaw and 6 cords of firewood staged in our backyard and garage.  Now being that Dad was a firefighter, my brother, sister and I felt pretty comfortable the day that he invited us down the basement for the inaugural fire.  Things started out well enough but my father failed to clear the chimney of cold air and the situation quickly deteriorated.  Within minutes, heavy smoke was billowing out of the front and sides of the stove.  My father calmly began suggesting that my brother and sister get on the ground and cover our mouths while he franticly tried to resolve the situation.  His efforts were futile though and a few minutes later he sent us across the street our neighbors house and shortly after that the “all hands siren” sounded, triggering the KDR437 call and summoning Washington Township's bravest and finest to Calvin Street.  His fellow firemen and his children gave him a hard time about that one and rightfully so and Dad laughed about that after the fact.

When I was in college, I remember my mother telling me during a phone call that Dad was thinking about buying a boat.  The summer following the conversation with my mother, my Dad had a 30-foot power boat with twin 454 engines accompanied by a massive trailer and he had his truck outfitted with a heavy tow package.  The early days with that boat and my father at the helm brought my mom, my siblings and I plenty of upset stomachs.  We used to dread returning to the marina because parking this vessel was clearly outside of my dad's capabilities at that time and more often than not a nightmarish game of bumper boats would ensue.  Boat owners from neighboring slips would emerge to seemingly to provide helping hands and my dad would always say that everyone was so nice there, but in hindsight, they really were as scared as we were and looking to protect their investments!  He went on to become the Commissioner of a local power boating association and he organized a major event focused helping handicapped children.  That was my dad, constantly trying new things, meeting new friends and helping others in the process.
 
He loved giving of himself to the community. He did so as a volunteer firefighter, serving his early years in Saddle Brook, followed by 40+ years at the Washington Township fire department where he was also a two-time fire chief.  He also served as the Washington Township Fire Director, as the Washington Township Police and Office of Emergency Management Director, as a member of the Bergen County 200 Club and as an officer at the NJSPCA.  He loved coaching and teaching children about sports and he did so tapping into his prolific playing days at St. Cecelias HS in Englewood where he was an All State running back.  He volunteered at our schools, serving as a member of the Bergen Catholic Crusader Touchdown Club and on the Board of Directors at Immaculate Heart Academy.

My father was an extremely hard worker.  He worked his early years at Palisades Amusement Park with his brother John and his Dad and then he went on to have a great career in construction, starting as an electrician in Local 164 and ultimately overseeing and managing some of the most important projects as a vice president at Star-Lo Electric.  He also thoroughly enjoyed his involvement in the Catskill Pheasantry where he loved bringing his dog Jesse.  He considered both Star-Lo and the Pheasantry as well as the Washington Township fire house, homes away from home.  My father truly enjoyed his career and loved the people who he worked with so much so that he continued working there through the majority of his treatments and until just a few weeks ago.  

He met great people and established strong friendships in all of these roles.  Many of you are present here today.  

I know I speak for my mother, my brother, my sister and our entire family when I say that my father inspired each of us to do great things and he taught us the right way to go about conducting ourselves.  He will be missed greatly by all of us, but I take comfort in the fact that he is with God in Heaven now, looking down on us and smiling, proud of his family and friends and all that he accomplished. 

Mom, Dad loved you more than anything and while this loss is incredibly painful, please know that he is always with you and your children are with you as well.
 
I would like to close with a quote from Arab poet and philosopher, Khalil Gibran

"When you are sorrowful, look again in your heart and you shall see that in truth, you are weeping for that which has been your delight." 

Dad, I love you.  Thank you for everything.

Dear Rae,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.  The beautiful photos show how much love your family shared with your children and grandchildren.  This was the greatest legacy left behind by your beloved husband, father and grandfather.  May God continue to bless all of you.

Rae, we were very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. We have many fond memories of our times together especially at Halloween. You were a close family and Mike's tribute to his Dad is a true example. May God grant you the strength to get through this difficult period. We will remember Joe, you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Rae, 
Joe and I are so sorry  to hear of your Joe's passing. We would have been with you, but my Joe has a difficult time with the stairs and the icy conditions.
Remembering all the wonderful times we've spent together and what a nice man Joe was. We are truly saddened. God Bless you and your family.

Aunt Rae, Uncle Joe was such a sweet man. I remember growing up and playing hockey in the basement with Joseph and Michael and Sparky would come down and tackle me. He loved children and animals and likewise those two groups knew without words that he had a heart of gold.
Bobby Trieste

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Rae, Joanne and Families - we are heartbroken to hear about Joe.  He was open, friendly and loving.  He will be greatly missed by all who knew him.  Your memories of times past will help you all through.  Love, Jackie, Kevin and children

I'm sorry I couldn't be there with you, but I am with you in spirit. I loved Joe like an older brother, and I know he was greeted in Heaven by Aunt Eleanor, John & my parents. He was a blessing on earth and will be a special angel in Heaven. Michael captured so beautifully just how special Joe was in his remembrance. I love you all, and will keep you in my prayers.

I am honored to have known Joe and to work with him in the SPCA. Joe was one of the kindest, giving people I have ever met. He opened up his home down the shore for all of his fellow brothers and sisters in the SPCA when we were in training this past summer. I got to know him well during this time and I am very thankful for this. May your family find peace at this difficult time, my deepest condolences to you all. Rest in peace Joe, you will surely be missed. Lisa Deutsch NJSPCA xo

May God bless you Joe as you move on to heaven. Keep watch over Rae and your children.

To the Rinaldi Family, we know and love you all!  Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.  
Love
The Conways, Mike, Sue, Tim, Maggie and Kate

Joe was a kind, caring human being with a wonderful family as his legacy and testament to his philosphy of life.  It is without question that he has blessed all those with whom he came in contact.  We consider our lives more full for his friendship and wonderful disposition.  We wish Joe's wonderful wife and beautiful family every blessing and peace during this difficult time.

Dear Rinaldi family,
Joe was a great guy he will be missed but never forgotten. 
Our deepest condolences.
Laszlo Sinka and Family

Joe,
god bless pal i enjoyed when we were at helo 2 this past aug in that heat . god bless   mike spinella officer passaic county s.p.c.a.

Dear Rae:

My heartfelt condolences go out to you and your beautiful family at this very sad time.  I remember Joe only with fond memories and, always, a smile on his face.  God Bless you all.  Sincerely and with love, Cheryl Bienert & Family.

Dear Rae, I am so sorry for your loss, prayers are with you and your family.

Susan Inserra, Nutley, NJ

Rae,
I am very sorry to learn about Joe's passing. Although, I was not in touch with you guys, I am touch deeply. Joe and i knew each other from our grammar school days. He was a great guy and i admired your relationship.

Stay strong as i know you will.

Sincerely,
Frank Morelli

Our Prayers for Joe and his Family, in this time of loss. Joe gave of himself so many Animals would have a happy life. God bless Joe, he will be missed.

Dear Rae and Family: It was an honor and privilege to serve with Joe.He was a fine man. He was not the usual the political appointment but a man who was most concerned with the welfare of the to Township and the Police Department Respectfully Justin Georgetti,former Chief of Police Township of Police Township of WashingtonJustin

Dear Rae and Family: It was an honor and privilege to serve with Joe.He was a fine man. He was not the usual  political appointment but a man who was most concerned with the welfare of the to Township and the Police Department Respectfully Justin Georgetti,former Chief of Police Township of Police Township of Washington Justin Georgetti

Dear Rae,
My recollection is of our 20th Class Reunion of Saints where my late husband, Doug, and I sat with both you and Joe.  We had a wonderful time sharing funny stories and you were both a made a terrific couple.  I know too well how hard this time is for you.  You have my deepest sympathy.
Love,
Barbara Roche Macfarlane

Dear Rae and Family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  Joe was a wonderful man.  He will be missed but the memories will never fade.  I was so glad that I got to know him when I worked for the 200 Club.  May he rest in peace.

Our sincerest Condolences to Joes family and friends. Joseph Rinaldi was a great man, and friend and definitely will be missed. Now he is an angel watching over his loved ones. R. I. P. Joe.

My deepest sympathies on the passing of Joe. It was indeed an honor to know him and work with him. He was wise beyond his years, and he was truly one of the best and most dedicated officers I have encountered. He was also a great friend. Al - NJSPCA

May it comfort you to realize that even though the one you love is no longer with you, precious memories will live in your heart forever. My prayers and thoughts are with the Rinaldi family and friends. We will miss Joe at the July 4th Parades.

Dear Rae and Family,
We are very sad to hear of Joes passing. Glad we were able to see you and Joe a few times at the Saints get together. Looking through that beautiful video, it's obvious there is a lot of love in your family.
Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
Love, Lou and Angela DiAngelo

I have been very sadden to hear of your recent loss. Joe was a wonderful person. My thoughts and prayers go out to your family.

My sincerest sympanthy for your loss.  I didnt have the pleasure of meeting Joe in person but I have heard nothing but wonderful things about him - Im certain he will be greatly missed by all of the lives has touched.

My sincerest condolences to the Rinaldi family.  A great man and friend.  You will be missed around the firehouse,

I would like to offer my most sincere condolences. Joe was a funny gentle and caring man, he will be missed, never forgotten... KR

Dear Rae and family, Yesterday we were playing football in the Epiphany, Cliffside Park, school yard... Joe was the leader of our childhood gang throughout elementary and high school, he played a key role in my formative years. I'll always fondly remember him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. John and Pat Strohofer, Macon, GA

God speed Joe and bless your family..John and Katherine Dell'Italia

Joe was a great man who will be missed tremendously. He was like a father to me during a difficult time in my life and he will never be forgotten. Thoughts and prayers go out to Rae, Joe, Mike and Amy...RIP

Dear Rae and family
So sorry to hear about Joe.  All these many years since Saints...I'll know you'll miss him in your life.  Our prayers are with you.

Jane and Bob Ruddock

My condolences to the Family of Joe Rinaldi.   I am deeply saddened at the loss of such a Gentleman.  Truly a Gentleman.  My prayers are with you.

Rebecca Giudici and Family

To Rae and family:  We'll miss Joe tremendously.  He was a true example of a fine, good, thoughtful person and friend.  He always had nice things to say about everyone.  Joe, we'll miss you not only at Star-lo but at Catskill.  Goodbye Sunshine.  Our Love, Joe and Cora

My condolences to your family. Your Dad was an American hero.

We want to express our sympathy for your loss and to let you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

May peace and comfort find you during this difficult time.

I'd like to share some thoughts about my Dad.....

Many times in my life people have recognized me as Joe Rinaldi's son.  At these times I would instantly feel a tremendous sense of pride.  My Dad was a noble, caring, and trustworthy human being.  A man who loved his family, took care of his family, and lived his life with no regrets.  He accomplished much in life, yet carried himself with a humbleness not too often found.  He put others first and taught his children about respect, responsibility, and doing the right things for the right reasons.  He left an indelible mark on so many lives and left behind a legacy that will stand the test of time.  Dad, I love you and I miss you.  We will be together again.  Until then, I will hold you near to my heart.

To Rae and Family, it has been many years where did the time go, and so fast. I was deeply saddened to learn of Joe's passing. My deepest sympathy to everyone, you are all in my prayers. RIP Joe.

my condolensces to the family joe was a good man and will be missed by many. theres no words that can take away the pain of loss but he is at rest now up in heaven at peace looking down on the rest of us god bless your soul joe take care my friend.

Joe. 
A good friend a a great person!! You will be missed.

My sincere condolences to your family. You gave me a chance when no one else would. I took advantage of your graciousness and always had you in my thoughts over the years. I can remember you came to my wedding in 1987 like it was yesterday. I can't thank you enough for your help and guidance. R.I.P., my friend.....

AVIS DE DÉCÈS

Joseph Rinaldi

27 septembre 1947 – 28 janvier 2014

Becker Funeral Home

Montrez votre soutien

Envoyez Vos
Condoléances

Partager
L'avis De Décès

Obtenir les mises à jour

Prestations de Service