Stanley “Stan” Joseph O’Brien, 76, peacefully passed on Friday, December 6, 2019. Stan, the son of Peter O’Brien and Jessie Oliver, was born in Great Bend, KS on August 22, 1943. Survivors include his children Melanie Melander (Brent), Aaron O’Brien (Vanessa), Amanda Bair (Robert), Sean O’Brien, and Corey O’Brien (Barry); grandchildren Cody (Kaleigh), Carley, Cora, Solomon, and Searney; great grandchildren, Sadie and Jack; sister, Sylvia Barr and many nieces and nephews. Preceded in death by: his beloved wife Diane; his parents; sisters Peggy and Helen; brothers Bobby, Maurice, Pat, John Dennis, and infant brother James. Stan graduated from Bazine High School in 1961 and Fort Hays State University. Stan married Dianna Swartz on June 17, 1965 in Ness City, Kansas.
Stan was raised on a farm in Bazine, Kansas and was very proud of his Western Kansas and Irish roots. After marrying Diane they moved to Wichita and raised their family. Stan spent the majority of his career at Cessna/Textron as an Engineer, later becoming the Director of Engineering for Single Engines.
Stan was a devout Catholic and active in church and community. He spent his free time hustling kids, coaching sports, and driving many miles to watch his kids and grandkids activities. He loved Notre Dame Football. Stan had a great sense of humor and a contagious laugh. He took a genuine interest in people, took time to listen and gave advice as needed by saying “I’m not going to tell you what to do—but here is what I think”. After retirement, Stan enjoyed traveling with his “Posse” and researching family genealogy. During his final year Stan looked forward to his “Cousin Lunches” where he was able to stay connected to family.
After being diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia Stan faced many challenges. He was blessed with wonderful caregivers. The family would especially like to thank the Reflection Living Minnie House staff, Jennifer Miller, and Mallory Heincker.
A Rosary will be held 7:30 pm, Thursday, Dec 12th; Funeral Mass will be 11:00 am, Friday, Dec 13th, both at Blessed Sacrament Church. Inurnment will be 1:00 pm, Sunday, Dec 15th, at St. John the Baptist Cemetery, Bazine, Kansas.
Memorials are suggested to St. John the Baptist Cemetery or Blessed Sacrament Praise and Glory Fund in c/o Resthaven Mortuary, 11800 W Hwy. 54, Wichita, KS 67209.
