Ralph William Kirby age 81 died suddenly in his home in Wilmington N.C. November 1, 2014. Ralph was born in Westhampton Beach Long Island NY to Mary E Ketchum and Ralph Herman Kirby. He is survived by his endearing wife Mary L Kirby, their two children Bill (spouse Ruth) Kirby, Melissa Crum and grandchildren Jessica, and Emily Crum, Allison and Olivia Kirby. Ralph a career engineer, enjoyed aviation, the beach and spending time with his family.