He was born in Massena, NY on January 31, 1942 the son of the late James and Bernadette Becksted. He married the love of his life Anne (Thayer) Becksted on March 13, 1963 and had two children, Bernadette and Elizabeth.
James enlisted in the Navy for four years and then made his career in the Massena Police Department. He also spent his time as a farrier and was always willing to help out his family and friends.
He was a member of the S.H.A.D.O. Riders, Moose club and the Amvets. He had a passion for horseback riding and spending time with his family.
Surviving are his children Bernadette Becksted Perry and Elizabeth Becksted, son-in-law David Perry, and Emilio Risoni, Grandchildren Stefan Becksted, Sean Risoni, Nicholas Risoni, Katrina Perry, Dylan Perry and two great grandchildren, Alaina Risoni and Kai Risoni. Also surviving are his brothers and sisters, Herbert Becksted, John Becksted, Bernice Moore and Betty Sibley.