

Florence 'Fifi' Mallios Norton, beloved mother, grandmother, sister and
aunt, passed away on Friday 9 September in Ann Arbor after a brief
battle with cancer.Born in Lafayette, Ind. to Greek immigrants Steve and Mary Mallios in
1932, she graduated from Lafayette Jefferson H.S. in 1950 and attended
Purdue University. During and after her time at Purdue, Fifi was active
in the international students' association and in Anselm Forum, a
student group dedicated to fostering understanding and friendship among
people of different religious and ethnic backgrounds. It was through
Anselm Forum that she met James Norton, whom she later married. Fifi and
her late husband Jim worked tirelessly for peace, civil rights and
liberties and social justice.The couple moved to Indianapolis in 1961, where Fifi continued her work
with a number of public interest organizations. Early on, she was a
member of the Women's International League for Peace & Freedom; Fifi was
also an active member and officer of the League of Women Voters of
Indianapolis for many years. Among many other projects, she represented
the Indianapolis LWV on the Tinder Commission, which urged sweeping
reforms in the Marion Co. Prosecutor's office and the local criminal
justice system. Later, Fifi served on the board of the Indiana state
League of Women Voters and volunteered as a registered lobbyist for the
state LWV in the Indiana Legislature. While working in the legislature,
she helped move forward measures on environmental protection and
renters' rights, and also helped lead the successful fight for Indiana
to ratify the Equal Rights Amendment in 1977 (the last state to do so).
Fifi also served on the board of the Legal Services Organization of
Indianapolis - an agency providing legal services to low income
residents - including several years as vice president. Finally, Fifi was
active in political campaigns for much of her life, working as a
progressive Democrat to push her country to deliver on the promises made
in its founding documents. As late as 2008, she was phone banking for
the Obama for America campaign, and expressed her admiration for the
committed and well organized young volunteers working in the local effort.
But people were more important than causes to Fifi, and her work was
always motivated by her concern for real people - an understanding she
developed while working in the family "store" (a lunch counter
restaurant in Lafayette called the Coney Island) in her youth. She was
fiercely loyal to her family, and sacrificed greatly to care for her
husband and mother in their later illnesses. Characteristically, Fifi
was never willing to "hold her tongue" for the sake of propriety in
either her personal or professional life, though she was always loving
to her family and friends - and diplomatic when the occasion demanded.
A lifelong musician, Fifi played and appreciated both classical and jazz
piano; she accompanied student jazz musicians in high school and college
and continued to play and compose on her own for much of her life. She
once hoped to study art in college, and her house was always full of art
and music. Fifi was also an enthusiastic gardener, known especially for
her banks of indoor plants under lights around the house. She loved
natural places - especially mountains and ocean shorelines which had not
been a part of her Hoosier childhood. As a result, she fell in love with
Jim's family home in Maine, nestled along the Sandy River among
mountains in the middle of the state, and with the cold, rocky
shorelines her family would visit near Portland, Me.
Fifi Norton always explained that her purpose was to leave the world a
better place than she found it, and there can be no question that she
succeeded. Her strong legacy remains visible in the work she did, the
people she met and befriended, and the family she raised and nurtured.
Fifi was preceded in death by her husband, James A. Norton, Jr., and is
survived by her brother William Mallios (Ronna) of San Diego; her son
Steven (Lynda) and grandchildren Jamie and Alida of Ann Arbor; niece
Nancy Van de Water; and nephews Mark & Eric Van de Water, and Peter &
Seth Mallios, along with extended family in the US and Greece. A
memorial gathering will be held in Ann Arbor on Sunday, 18 September,
from 4-6pm in the Hanson Room of the Manor at Glacier Hills (1200
Earhart Rd). Another gathering will be held in Indianapolis later this
fall. In lieu of flowers, her family is requesting donations to the
American Friends Service Committee, Doctors Without Borders, or the Ann
Arbor Public Schools Education Foundation.
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