Alford Oxendine

December 29, 1941July 8, 2018
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Trinity- Alford Oxendine, 76, peacefully passed away at his home, surrounded by family on Sunday, July, 8, 2018.

A funeral service will be held at 1:00 PM on Thursday, July 12, 2018 in the Chapel of Sechrest Funeral Service in Archdale. Interment will follow at Guil-Rand Memorial Park Cemetery. The family will receive friends at the funeral home from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM on Wednesday, July 11, 2018.

He was born December 29, 1941 to Eford and Mable Lowery Oxendine in Robeson County. Alford moved to the High Point area in 1960 and on July 18, 1964, he married Shelia Godwin. He was a good hard working man that always provided for his family. He enjoyed NASCAR, traveling, his dog Daddy, but most of all he loved to spend time with his family.

In addition to his parents he was preceded in death by; brothers, Randolph Oxendine and Lee Oxendine; and two sisters, Brenda Jacobs and Joyce Oxendine.

He is survived by his wife of 53 years, Shelia Oxendine; daughters, Rita Lampkins (Jeff), Tina Oxendine and Lynn Oxendine; brothers, Nathan Oxendine, Lyndale Oxendine and Herbert Dean Oxendine; sisters, Pauline Cummings, Judy Lockee, Patsy Oxendine and Darlene Henriquez; six grandchildren and nine great grandchildren (plus one on the way).

In lieu of flowers, the family request that contributions be made to his family.

Sechrest Funeral service is honored the serve the Oxendine family. Online condolences may be made at


  • Eford Oxendine, Father
  • Mabel Lowery Oxendine, Mother
  • Shelia Goodwin Oxendine, Wife
  • Lynn Oxendine, Daughter
  • Rita Lampkins (Jeff), Daughter
  • Tina Oxendine, Daughter
  • Randolph Oxendine, Brother
  • Lee Oxendine, Brother
  • Nathan Oxendine, Brother
  • Lyndale Oxendine, Brother
  • Herbert Dean Oxendine, Brother
  • Brenda Jacobs, Sister
  • Joyce Oxendine, Sister
  • Pauline Cummings, Sister
  • Judy Lockee, Sister
  • Patsy Oxendine, Sister
  • Darlene Henriquez, Sister
  • And six grandchildren and nine great-grandchildren.


  • Visitation Wednesday, July 11, 2018
  • Funeral Service Thursday, July 12, 2018

Alford Oxendine

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Karen S Thomas

July 19, 2018

Rita, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. The wedding photos brought back a lot memories from Accord. May your memories help you thru this time of grief and may you feel the Lord's arms around you to comfort and support you. The family is in my prayers.

Darlene Faye Henriquez

July 11, 2018

We are so thankful for my sister in law Shelia who took care my brother Alford during his long illness she was overwhelmed at times but never waiver. I pray that God continue’s to give her strength during this very difficult time. My heart is heavy today . I know my other sisters and brothers mourn the loss of Alford because he was so good about staying close to family even though the distance seems so far, in our heart he was always near. I thank God for allowing him to be my big brother. I will never forget how much you meant to me and our family.

Darlene Faye Henriquez

July 10, 2018

Roy Hale

July 10, 2018

We are so sorry . Our prayers are with the family. May God touch you in this time of your lost
God Bless
Roy & Annette Oxendine Hale

Hospice of Randolph County

July 9, 2018

We are so very sorry for your loss. Please let us know if we can do anything for you.