Brenda, it is still so hard to think of you as no longer with us. Joyce was just up . We went to see your grave  I know you with Jesus and have been united with Justin. I am so happy that you have no more pain and you are now home! I just miss you so much! I will see you again some day! Wait for me at the gate since you know your way around there now!

Brenda, I miss you so much,,,,you were a wonderful sister and friend,  we had some good times and were pretty much on our own since we were 12 and14 yrs old. Had some rough times in our lives but we over come those by working thru them.  God blesses us with good family.  Your boys seemed like my boys and my girls were your girls,  those are memories we will never forget.  I am so glad i got to stay with you the last 6 weeks of your life so we could laugh, cry and reminence.  I will always miss you and remember how we shared our times of trouble and trials and celebrations, etc.   I know you are with Justin now and that makes you happy,   Please tell him hello from me and give him a big bear  hug for me.  Jeff is doing pretty well. We talk more now than we have this last few years.   I know you were so proud of him and that he and Christina have such a good marriage.   Love you and will never forget you !!!!!! Your sister, Peggy

Brenda, I know you are in Heaven Best Friend, you will be so missed here on Earth.

"One of the saddest moments is when you hear of the loss of a friend." I will miss you Brenda.

Jeff,
Sorry to learn of your mom's passing.  She was a beautiful, thoughtful person.  I will remember her fondly.  Please accept my sincerest condolences and warm regards as you and your family heal.
Dave Miles

Brenda was a dear friend. We came to St Louis together at the age of 17, she may have been 18. We were two little country girls that got an apartment together and went to work at White Castle together. They allowed us to work the same shift together. We could barely afford to pay our rent so we took most of our meals at White Castle because they were free. She was dating my brother at that time so Brenda and I and my brother and his friend were together all the time when we were not working. 
We had so many laughs together. I will never forget her little chuckle and her great sense of humor. Her heart was broken more than a person should have to go through. I will miss all the heart to heart talks we had over the years.
Jeff, she was so proud of you and even felt bad that she hurt so bad over Justin , realizing that you were hurting as well and needed her attention. I am sure she is united with Justin today and he is showing her all that heaven has to offer. She will never have to experience any kind of pain again now and her heart is now brand new and will never be hurt again. 
Peggy, I know how much she loved you, too. You were much more than a sister to her. She had such a deep love for you. She was so proud of you, too. 
I know you miss her terribly. I do too ! 
I pray that God comforts you and your family in the coming days as you mourn over Brenda. She left a piece of her with us all and we will never forget her.

Oh Brenda, 
You were, and still are dear to so many people.  I'm so happy that you are not suffering anymore and hope you are squeezing Justin right now!  Rest in peace and give Jeff some comfort.  Love you!!!

I started at CE a year ago, right as Brenda left, but we got to know each other very well.  She told me her stories of losing Justin, and dealing with the work and health issues that nobody - especially this type of person - should ever have to endure. Brenda was a great friend to, and example for, everyone at CE.  My prayers go to all those that she touched.

So sorry to hear about Brenda.  Haven't seen her in years, but kept up with her somewhat through Peggy.  So, Peggy, Pam, Jill and Stacy you have our deepest sympathies.  Love you all

Brenda, I don't know where to begin,,,,I love you so much, I am so thankful for all the memories I have,,all the laughter and tears alike but we leaned on each other.   I know Justin was there to welcome you and you are in the arms of Jesus !!!!  We will keep Jeff close to our hearts and be there for him in anyway he needs us. He is so strong, his heart is so broken right now,  but he is amazing and lets us all know what a great MOM you were ( which we already knew)  Until we meet again, I love you, I miss you and my heart is so heavy. Peggy

Jeff, I have thought about you and your Mom so often throughout the years. I'm so sorry we did not get to visit with her as planned this year, but I will always remember her as one of the sweetest, kindest women I've ever know. I have such fond memories of you and her when you were a baby and she brought you To Arkansas to visit with Nathaniel ( you were born so close to the same date). You and Justin were the light of her life and she was without a doubt the "best mom in the world". Hold tight to your precious memories and know that you and your family are in our prayers. Loving you always Brenda (Wofford) Meyer, Nathan and Krista Wooldridge. (It's been a very long time, your Mother is my Aunt by marriage.)

Jeff ,   Always keep your good memories of your MOM close in your heart.  And you should always be very proud of yourself for being such a good son to her.and Christina for being such a good daughter in law.  
Thinking of Jeff and Christina Thompson and family during this sad time. 
 Love Rosie & Donnie Davis

my thoughts and prayers are with you Jeff and Christina.  i know your moma is peaceful im the arms of our Lord.

"Brenda is my friend,she was a special and wonderful person.I will miss you best friend"

Tia Brenda, I miss you! You were my aunt who was more like a mom, sister and friend. I could tell you anything. I can't believe your not with us anymore. I will miss your laugh and funny stories! I know you are in a better place and have no more pain. It's bitter sweet.

Jeff,  I am so sorry.  Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.  Its been quite a while ago since college, but I will never forget how your mother took me in on so many weekends.  Please know that I am always available if you ever just need someone to talk to.

So sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you and your family, may memories help ease your pain.  Now you have 2 guardian angels to watch over you.

Jeff, Our hearts go out to you and your family during this difficult loss.

Aunt Brenda will be missed. I will always have good memories of her from when I was a child to recent times at family gatherings. She blessed our family.

Jeff, Thinking of you and your family. I am praying for you all.

Brenda is my Aunt.  I have loved her for 55 years.  She was a wonderful sweet person.  God please bless and comfort her family.

Jeff--my sincerest condolences on the loss of your mom.  Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.  God bless.

OBITUARY

Brenda N. Thompson

July 4, 1947 – January 15, 2013

Heiligtag-Lang-Fendler Funeral Home

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