Cole E. Beutenmiller

July 16, 2004September 25, 2011

Cole Ernest Beutenmiller, of Arnold, passed away September 25, 2011, after a courageous battle with Stevens-Johnson syndrome.

Dearest son of Thomas and Jennifer Beutenmiller; older brother to Jacob Beutenmiller; loving grandson to Ronald and Janet Thompson, and Joyce and Ernest Beutenmiller; dear nephew, cousin, Godson, classmate, and friend.

Funeral services will be 11:00 A.M. Thursday, September 29, at Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, 2211 Tenbrook Rd., Arnold. Visitation will be from 3 – 8 P.M. Wednesday, September 28, at Heiligtag-Lang-Fendler Funeral Home, 1081 Jeffco Blvd., Arnold.

Interment in Resurrection Cemetery. Arrangements under the direction of Heiligtag-Lang-Fendler Funeral Home, Arnold, MO.


  • Funeral Service Thursday, September 29, 2011
  • Visitation Wednesday, September 28, 2011
  • Interment Thursday, September 29, 2011

Cole E. Beutenmiller

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ethan huth

September 25, 2014

i love you

September 25, 2014

Words are never going to be enough to express my feelings. Thank you for sharing all of your photos, memories and stories with us. I can see Cole with his little wings in heaven helping all the other children and adults that need it. You will always be with us Cole. We will help you parents and brothers as much as we can.

RIP little guy.

Keith and Dolly

Aunt Amy

July 3, 2014

I can still hear your voice and see your sweet smile. I catch glimpses of you in your brothers. The twinkle in your eye- Tanner inherited. Jake has mastered your trade-mark eye brow movements... However, I must say, you did it best. Your brothers are amazing, just like you. They carry your torch well! Your Mommy and Daddy continue your fight against a SJS. You did not fight in vain. In God's name and your honor they spread awareness and are making a difference across the world. We all love you so very much. Happy 10'th birthday in Heaven sweet Cole.

linda harcourt-smith

September 24, 2013

If i was in a position i would keep coles book open for you. I have a son who have had this condition many times we are very fortunate that he is still with us at the age of 22. Always in our prayers. lyn and ian


October 8, 2012

Dear Beutenmiller Family,

My thoughts and prayers go out to you. My daughter is 1 day younger than your son. As a physician, your son's story will impact my role in educating patients for signs and symptoms of SJS. May God bless you and watch over you.

Wendy Hilkerbaumer

October 4, 2012

Cole I was just reading all the kind thoughts people have written about you. Some have never met you but yet they see in your eyes what we love and miss about you. You just radiated love Cole and it touched us all. Soon you will have a new baby brother to look after. I know you are watching over Jacob. He reminds me of you in a lot ways. Know that you are loved Cole always.

Kristy Sheldon

October 4, 2012

I lost my grandmother on September 29th 2012. Cornelia J Bower and I just happened to click on your page Cole as an example page to look at and from now until the day I pass I'm sure I'll be thinking of you and your family. I am going to be a kindergarden teacher to be there for special boys like you. I can see in your smile that you were so loved, so beautiful. My grandmother loved her grandsons more than just about anything so allow her to give you a hug in Heaven for me. I hope your family has a Blessed day and I hope you can brighten my grandmothers day because I know she will for you. :)


October 4, 2012

Mr and Mrs Beutenmiller and Family of Cole
I too have never met you, my son is about the same age Cole would be and I feel your pain. May God walk with you and wrap you in his arms and ease your pain and bless you everyday with the memory of Cole. Im truly sorry for your loss of such a handsome little man.

Kay Fitzgerald

October 2, 2012

Cole i never knew you or your family but i prayed for you all today...Such a beautful happy looking boy...My heart goes out to your mum and dad. Their pain and loss is inmeasurable...Their hearts are with you.You didnt go alone.

Crystal Cobb

October 2, 2012

Just thinking about you. I never had the pleasure of meeting you, but you occupy my thoughts often.