Heiligtag-Lang-Fendler Funeral Home

1081 Jeffco Blvd, Arnold, MO


Patsy J. Bernauer

June 23, 1939May 10, 2020

Patsy J. Bernauer (nee Etter) of Festus, MO. passed away on Sunday, May 10, 2020. She was born on June 23, 1939 in St. Louis, MO to the late Clemons and Mildred (nee Cook) Etter; Beloved wife of the late Carl V. Bernauer; loving mother of Deborah (Roger) Meyer, Patty (Rick) Helferstay, Carla (Rick) Baldridge and the late Anna Schwartzmeyer; mother-in-law of Rick Schwartzmeyer; loving grandmother of Michael (Wendi) Meyer, Nicholas (Kristin) Meyer, Christopher Waggoner, Joshua (Becky) Baldridge, Adam (Erica) Baldridge, Cassidy (Zak) Dodge and the late Matthew Meyer; dear great grandmother of Lani Meyer, Courtney Meyer, Hailey Meyer, Natalie Meyer, Gavin Baldridge, Devany Hayes, Joseph Baldridge, Audrey Baldridge, Connor Baldridge, Annabelle Baldridge and Jameson Meyer; sister of Terry (Debbie) Etter and the late Larry Etter; dear aunt, cousin and friend to many.

Patsy loved to go fishing.

Visitation will be held on Friday, May 15, 2020 from 3-7 pm at Heiligtag-Lang-Fendler Funeral Home, 1081 Jeffco Blvd., Arnold, MO. Funeral service to follow visitation at 7:00 pm in the funeral home chapel. Interment private at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. Please share your condolences and sign the guest book online at www.heiligtagfuneralhome.com


  • Clemons Etter, Father (deceased)
  • Mildred Etter (nee Cook), Mother (deceased)
  • Carl V. Bernauer, Husband (deceased)
  • Deborah (Roger) Meyer, Daughter
  • Patty (Rick) Helferstay, Daughter
  • Carla (Rick) Baldridge, Daughter
  • Anna (Rick survives) Schwartzmeyer, Daughter (deceased)
  • Michael (Wendi) Meyer, Grandchild
  • Nicholas (Kristin) Meyer, Grandchild
  • Christopher Waggoner, Grandchild
  • Joshua (Becky) Baldridge, Grandchild
  • Adam (Erica) Baldridge, Grandchild
  • Cassidy (Zak) Dodge, Grandchild
  • Matthew Meyer, Grandchild (deceased)
  • Lani Meyer, Great Grandchild
  • Courtney Meyer, Great Grandchild
  • Hailey Meyer, Great Grandchild
  • Natalie Meyer, Great Grandchild
  • Gavin Baldridge, Great Grandchild
  • Devany Hayes, Great Grandchild
  • Joseph Baldridge, Great Grandchild
  • Audrey Baldridge, Great Grandchild
  • Conner Baldridge, Great Grandchild
  • Annabelle Baldridge, Great Grandchild
  • Jameson Meyer, Great Grandchild
  • Terry (Debbie) Etter, Brother
  • Larry Etter, Brother (deceased)

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  • Visitation

    Friday, May 15, 2020

  • Funeral Service

    Friday, May 15, 2020


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Janene Toso

May 12, 2020

Oh my gosh Pat's mostcotolli is the best I ever had! She was a sweet lady who loved her family more than anything!


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