Hey daddy been pretty rough right now. Hope you and mom are having fun. She saw you waiting for her which I was shocked about you were on your Harley in a field of sweet williams flowers but I was happy when she said it.. Her and I had to make the decision that I couldn’t do ot any more and she was too tired and it broke my heart seriously broke it but didn’t know what else to do I wasn’t equipped to take care of her… I tried and have been but she just said she couldn’t anymore… but it’s been rough at home don’t want really to be around anybody but I will make it Love you and Miss you more than anything.. Love Always your Baby girl xoxox

Paul , 
You are missed , loved our conversations , I hope You and My Dad are hanging out , messing around . Tell my Mom and Dad I. miss them and love them .

Daddy, miss you so much!! You have several grandbabies.. hopefully this will save because I have talked to you several times but you have triplets & twins. And Dawson and you would be over the top with all. Avery is so big and beautiful and she still talks about you but we love and I mean we love and miss you so much I could really use you here to straighten everything out but guess it is what it is Love you always.. Love always your Babay girl

Hey Daddy, hope you are good!! We love and miss you very much!! Mom will be 87 this weekend and Aunt Jeanie is coming out to see her!!! And your birthday is right around the corner I hope you’re having the time of your life riding all over!!! Just thought I would send my love think about you every day!!  You would be so proud of Em!!! She is now a licensed Nail technician and on a side note Sis and Dillion got a house.. she has done a beautiful job painting and making it her own and ps… the baby lost her first tooth Lol Em actually pulled it out… I will talk at you soon Love Always your Only Baby Girl!!! Daddy’s Girl!! Xoxoxoxox 

Hey Daddy!! it’s been a while. We are all doing good. I miss you so much. Mom is on a diet of no salt lol not liking it but she is dropping weight.. I know she misses you but again she worries about me.. Sis bought a beautiful house I am so proud of her.. and the baby is in first grade and as beautiful as ever!!! Em now passed her test and is licensed to do nails.. she has a tatoo in your honor and misses you as well… hope to see you soon!!!! Love Always!!! Your only Baby xoxoxoxox 

Hey Daddy!!! Wishing you a Happy Father’s Day!!I miss you so much we had a issue but mom’s ok and the kids were awesome helping with her !! i just wish you were here with us but everyone is getting along’ Emmalee passed 1 part of her nail test.. the baby had her dance recital and she was awesome she so ask where you are all the time she misses you and remembers you!! Want to let you know we or I miss you so much and want you to have a wonderful father’s day because you were the best daddy any girl could have.. I love you.. Your Only Baby Girl xoxo Paula


Hi Daddy, well I know it has been a while but I guess we are doing good Avery misses you along with us . Not sure about mom’s health!!! We have been getting her check ups but she is having problems walking and now we have to go see a specialist don’t know how this will work out but praying for the best! jimmy and mary and I talk I would think you woybe happy about that!!! OMG!! Sis n Dillion got a house I know it will work out and I am so happy and yes hopefully they will get married.. we really really miss you!!! i have cardinal birds show up all the time so I know YOU are with me !!! But just to hug you one last time would make me feel so much better!!! I know we would love for you to pull up on your bike!! Oh Emmalee graduated from nail school you would be so proud of her. Oh and the Boy are pride n joy well that’s another story but I love him with all my heart!!! I hope you and uncle bob, grandpa and Nanie are having the time of your life buy I really wish you could have stuck around for me and mom cuz we MISS YOU DEARLY!!! Love Always your Baby Girl!!! PS. I wish Robert a happy birthday and he misses you too xoxo talk to you soon

Hi daddy!! It’s been a while. Well we made it through the holidays and a snow storm. just took mom to get her blood drawn. Her hip is really hurting going to have to take her to doctor. We both miss you like there is no tomorrow which really there isn’t. Emmalee started nail tech school and doing awsome. you would shit if you saw the work around the pool and all the trees we cut down besides the ruts in the yard lol. Life is so different without you.. I just figured you would last forever.. Just to hear your voice would make me happy. not a day goes by that I don’t think about you!’ i Love and Miss you so much!!! Love Always and Forever.. Your Baby Girl!!! Xoxoxo

Well Daddy, today is the day!!your grandson is getting married. I so wish you were here to help me through this..  Losing you was bad enough Now him!! We know you are here in spirit and Moms going with me.. I just hope I can hold it together but I seriously feel like it was when we had your funeral… God !! I miss and love you so much.. and I better tell sis we need waterproof mascara cuz I don’t know if I can do this.. give me a sign today..so I know you are here to make this work for me .. I love and miss you so much.. Love Always and Forever. Your Baby Girl!! Xoxo

Hi Daddy, thought I would check in. We are doing good I take mom to the doctor on Friday she is tell me we might have to go to heart doctor not sure what is going on.  marty had yes another surgery this is the sixth one since you have been gone. your lil girl started kindergarten she ask about you all the time and says she misses you..  Your grandson is getting married thought I would share we will all be there . We all really miss you I found someone to cut the grass good kid and did an awesome job this summer so it was covered. i up getting ready for work and thought I would just say hi and I love you and think about you every day.. take care love always and forever.. Your Baby Girl. Xoxo

Hi Daddy, I want to let you know that tomorrow is Emmalee’s last day of school forever.. You would be so so proud of her she made a Harley bench handicap height in your honor with the year you were born on it.. god you would be so so proud it is just beautiful.   She won first place in state competition.. I am just beside myself with everything dont know what to do but I’ll make it.. Mom is good and she is going to graduation not sure how the rest will do the other 2 haven’t spoken in a year. It is breaking my mother’s heart and mine but I can’t fix it they will have to do it and the day you passed when you had the tears in your eyes to talk to him I so wish I would have said yes maybe you would have hung around longer to do it I could kick myself.. I will let you know sis is my back up and she checks n calls and brings food and does whatever grandma needs or wants on a daily basis... You would be so proud of her... I don’t care if I am at work n grandma dont answer she comes over.. em same way we so trash laundry groceries everything... but your grandson has not seen her since January you know he’s to busy and all oh I also found out that every time he comes over I throw a massive guilt trip on him so he goes awall for the weekend lol we all know what that is but hey I’m good with it because honestly when I lost you a couple of months later I lost the only other male in my life that I loved as much if not more only because I gave birth to it... so I kinda lost you both at the same time so I survived you to an extent I will make it through the other one but I have my girls the baby and mom and we all miss you and love you and think about you every every day ... xoxoxoxox love you always You’re only Baby Girl!!!

Hey daddy, well Em is getting ready to graduate.. we so wish you were here so I will have to do something special. Not sure but will figure something out.  Also, she made you a beautiful bench in school we are going to competition with it so wish us luck... mom is doing good and miss’s you but she is still going. Sis n the baby is great Avery ask about you and remembers you she has a picture right by your box along with a dog and your picture... just thought I would say hi and I love you... xoxo.. love always your baby girl... gosh I miss you so much. Any way I will talk to you later 

hi Daddy, hope all is good.  Haven’t talked in a while. Just really miss you this morning. All of us are doing ok. The baby is getting so big she will be 5 this year. She does ask about you. We tell her you are on a trip riding somewhere.. lol she thought you and mom got in a fight and moved out lol.  Your grandson is getting married. Im invited lol as of right now .  Paulie n Sis aren’t speaking I am hoping and praying that will come to an end. Em is graduating this year..cross your fingers on that.. talk to you soon I love you xoxo your baby girl

Hi Daddy, I hope all is well. Doing ok here just got through xmas.. Mom didn’t come down but I made it.. Life’s grand... NOT.. I miss you with everything in me and my heart hurts but I will make it I guess.. I sold your bike it went to a good home. I talked to your buddy Robert he is doing good. Life here sucks but I will make it I really miss you, your the only one I knew loved me!!! talk to you soon.. Love Always your baby girl.  Xoxo

Hi Daddy, miss you so much.   Everything is ok I guess. Marty had surgery again that makes 3 times this year but mom went to emergency thought she was having a heart attack but I think she broke her rib but all is good she talks to you all the time cuz you are sitting by her chair.. she had a bad time this year at your birthday/anniversary I think it just set in.  i sold your bike not cuz I wanted to cuz I had too that was pretty pretty hard for me but I guess we felt you would eventually come home but we no you aren’t. i like usual wear my feelings on my shoulders but I will survive.. You would really be disappointed in your grandchildren Paulie and Sis aren’t getting along and it has been rough. hopefully they wake up because you know and I know how much they love each other.. I just wish I could hug and kiss you I am doing the best I can and taking care of Mom.. I miss you soooo much Love always Your Baby Girl xoxoxo Happy Thanksgiving 

hi Daddy just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday!! Love you always really miss you have a good day.. 

Hey just so you know I sent you a message at xmas and New Years and Valentines day !! i feel bad they aren’t here but I did and we love you and miss you very, very much... Love always your one and only Baby xxxxooooo

Hi Daddy, it’s been a while don’t think I haven’t thought of you every day but I just say a cardinal and that usually means that you are here watching over us. Well tomorrow is Sis’s Birthday and she will be the big 25 we so wish you were here with us.. god so bad but it is what it is.. we have this virus thing every one on quarantine Mom is locked up so far so good .. all of us are fine as of now. Thank god you arent here I would probably have to hog tie you to stay home.. but everyone finally is getting along especially the older two.. The baby is getting so big you should see her she still ask about you... we love you and misssss you so much.. I didn’t know what life would be like with out you but I’m making it doing the best that I can:. Take care will talk to you soon.. Love Always your Baby Girl... xoxo

Daddy, Hi well this is my first birthday in 53 years that you wasn’t around.. man it was pretty bad.. for my birthday I got a great present!! Marty got laid off!! Yep on my birthday wow  !! Then today we got a termination letter makes things even better. Em’s Birthday went well we went bowling and mom went with us .. and gma gave her money like you would have but it broke her heart!!! This was the first year she didnt get a card,, and I didnt either... out of 53 years!! I love you and miss you so bad . Just to hear your voice.. and I can because em has a voice mail message from you but i cant do it cuz I just want you hear!! i didnt get my kiss and my bottle but paulie got me scratchers for my birthday... no one knows I talk to you .. and just so you know I dont have to drink or anything to cry or just break down .. I just see you laying helpless and if I would have known what was going to happen I would have never left your side...but I thought we were going to the hospital..I am so so sorry.  I was there and they made me leave the bedroom.....OMG!!!! You are my rock and I know you are with me ..please get me through this... I Love you soo much... forever your Baby Girl xoxo 

Hi Dad, well thinking about you today and really miss you. Mom has cold and I did the wash for her even folded . Sis has a place for her n the baby.. she is going so big.. god just to hear you voice but I’m doing it... I love you so much .. Your baby!!xoxo.

Hi Daddy!!! just wanted to wish you a Happy 80th Birthday in Heaven!!! We miss you so much tomorrow for your 59th Anniversary Mom will be coming down and we are gonna get pizza n wings or something!!! Sis is going. To Florida this week with Dillion and I have the girl.. she is getting so big.. fyi. Em has a job you would be so proud of her .. and Yes Paulie is doing good suppose to be here tomorrow for your Anniversary.. We so miss you... Love Always, your Baby Girl. Xoxo Paula

Daddy, hi it’s me omg you don’t know how much I miss you!! Having a rough day just usual everything is my fault.. not sure what I did but again it’s me..I Love you and wish your were here so bad just to hug you.. mom is doing better than I am but every one figured that. We got em a good car you would probably be upset but it’s done and over with.. Avery tried to carry you lol we made her put you down but emmalee found a small dog and its up on top of your box.. I love you I feel like you are out on a trip just waiting for you to come home.. so please tell me your riding and you got to finally go to Alaska.. I Love you and miss you so much.. Love your baby girl xoxo

Daddy It’s been a month and I so miss you and love seeing your face.  I’m sitting by the pool just thinking about you..  Mom is doing good and we went down to wappapello and had a great time.. I just wish you were here or I could have done more to help you but I thought we were going to the hospital never imagined this.  The kids are good we are making it but my heart is broke but trying to stay strong.. Love Always and forever.. Your Baby Girl xoxo

Tell Uncle Al and Aunt Joyce I love them ill see ya. When the Lord calls me home 
~Johnny aka Rev On the Run

He shared his passion and smile with so many of us. We are all better off for having spent some time on the road with Paul.

We sure did enjoy so many great times with Paul. We loved talking family, kids, and motorcycles with him. He was always such a joy to have around. He was a great man and will he missed. I know he did what he enjoyed. RIP Paul.

The best riding buddy ... Will miss his smile, his laughter..  Paul loved his family and Nancye..Happy trails...
Much love and prayers for N ancye and family...

OBITUARY

Paul Sidney McAfee

September 16, 1939 – June 30, 2019

Heiligtag-Lang-Fendler Funeral Home

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