Julio "J.J." Apilado, Jr.

November 24, 1948September 27, 2012

Julio passed away peacefully from a stroke on September 27, 2012. He is survived by his loving wife of 42 years, Lourdes, 2 children, and 3 grandchildren. A viewing will be held on Wednesday, October 3, 2012 at 10:00 am, with a funeral mass to follow at 11:00 am, at St. Teresa of Avila Catholic Church, 11600 Atwood Road, Auburn, California 95603. Please sign the online guestbook at



  • Visitation Wednesday, October 3, 2012
  • Funeral Mass Wednesday, October 3, 2012


  • Reception following Funeral Mass

Julio "J.J." Apilado, Jr.

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Regina Apilado

May 29, 2017

Been thinking about you a lot lately. I know you can see that we are going through a lot right now. But we will get through it. I know it's you who guides me. Thank You Dad! I Love and miss you everyday.

Rosie Apilado

February 12, 2017

Thought of you today big bro. Was looking at a picture of you and the nieces. Miss you and your smile. Also Lourdes birthday is today, was looking at my calendar. Prayers sent that all is well with her and the family.

Sin D

December 1, 2016

Today I thaught of you and all are talks about everything and nothing sometimes sitting watching TV on the couch or warming up left overs just want to let you know you are missed and I am so glad that I had a chance to be apart of your life even if it was for a short while, please keep a close eye over your daughter for me I don't get to see her much but if I know her like I think I do she keeps to much inside and has a hard time letting people in to help her, and keep mom safe and protected. Rest easy, until we meet agian, oh and tell my old man hi and I love him to.

Your Kid

November 27, 2016

Hey dad Happy Thanksgiving and Happy late B-Day. Just checking in to let you know life still sucks. Nothing changed and I still can't get out of this funk. Maybe I never will. It's ok though it just means better things coming my way right.? Well I love you and miss you. I'll see you in paradise some day surfing them waves.

Mellisa Molina

November 25, 2016

I love you

Regina Apilado

December 1, 2015

Happy late Birthday dad (Nov 24). Duh we were out for you that day. We all miss and love you everyday. I wish you were here to help me get though some rough times in life. But, I already can hear you in my head. So I'm trying, believe me! BIG HUGs to you, Malachi and grandma.

Mellisa Leivas

June 3, 2015

Thought of you yesterday. I started crying and couldn't hardly stop. I went with katie's class to see tomorrow land yesterday. And in the very beginning they went on the it's a small world ride in Disney land. Made me remember when you took us. I miss you so much. I even miss arguing with you. What I wouldn't do for just one more talk. I love you so much. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to know what it's like to have a dad. You took such good care of me. I love you

Your Kid, Regina

April 27, 2015

Here goes by April, little Marie's, mine, and Tony's Birthday. I miss when you would take us to all of our birthday dinners. How much fun we had! Of course we all miss and love you like crazy. I still have no idea how I get by everyday without you here. I'm trying to hold this family together and my own life. It's the hardest thing I ever had to do. During these hard times I would call you but now I have no one to call. You were my rock and now I have to be my own rock. BIG HUGS DADDY and MALACHI

I love you dad so much! I would give anything to have you here. I would even give my life if I could change it!

Traci Dowdell

December 9, 2014

Still unbelievable that you are gone and not here to update me on our birthday get-togethers about your kids and grandkids, how they must miss you as I do, you were such an incredibly caring co-worker, friend and confident.

Rosie Apilado

November 11, 2014

With this Veterans Day I thought of you brother. Taken too soon.