Bibiana Simitz

Simitz, Bibiana (nee Graimann) passed away at age 92 at home with family by her side, very soon after a diagnosis of advanced illness, which she faced with grace, courage and trademark existential musings. As she would often say "it is as it was meant to be". She spent her last days thinking deeply, sharing reflections and feeling appreciation. She was ready to return to "the source" and reconnect with those she had lost. Born in Steiermark, Austria to Maria and Peter Graimann, predeceased by siblings Gretl (Hermann), Hilda and Peter, survived by Mitzi (Helmer) of Austrailia and Hansi of Austria. There are many neices and nephews around the world she was very fond of. She is reunited with her husband of 63 years Frank Simitz (d 2018). Loving mother to Ernest, Edith (the late Randy), Gertrude (Ken), and Edward. The family lived in Richmond Hill for 50 years, the past 7 in Aurora. Grandchildren Madeline, Emily, Julia (Matthew) and Michael (Chelsea) were always sure to make Oma light up and happily prepare schnitzel, nockerl soup with garden chives, brownies and wonderful pies in anticipation of their visits. She always enjoyed their lively banter and admired them deeply.

Bibiana was extremely well liked, a good friend and patient, concerned listener, kind natured and welcoming to each and every guest. She had a love of music and a natural "ear" and had played the accordian for guests at her parent's gasthaus. She enjoyed many forms of music - from Operas her mother took her to in Vienna as a young girl, to the Beatles to Roger Miller. She enjoyed outings to local theatres for interesting plays. She was deeply philosphical and studied spritual traditions from around the world- Christianity, Hinduism, the Sufi mystics, Buddhism and others. Always contemplative and interested in learning, she came to a place of acceptance and an iron will to "carry on" doing what needed to be done in the face of life's challenges. She was a hard and energetic worker through her whole life. She actually loved working in the fields of her parent's farm in Austria. In Canada she took whatever work was available often in child care or factory work. Bibiana was intelligent and able to adapt to any situation, yet she always remained humble. She enjoyed the simple things in life and was always generous to others. She had a special connection to the trees of each neighbourhood she lived in. She believed we and nature are all one; indeed she wondered if the trees would miss her admiration when she was gone. Such were her interesting musings on life. If only we could have heard more. Until we meet again, we will all miss her caring and appreciative, gracious presence.

In honour of her memory perhaps do something simple. Give your deep attention to a friend or loved one just to listen. Discuss an interesting topic over a favourite dish, enjoying every bite. Go for a walk and really notice the birds, flowers and trees with full appreciation. Or donate to a charity of your choice that provides for the less fortunate.

A private burial ceremony took place on April 12 with immediate family present. A celebration of life will be held at a later date.

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.ThompsonFH-Aurora.com for the Simitz family.