OBITUARY

Benjamin Daniel Breedlove

August 8, 1993December 25, 2011

On Christmas night, our son, Ben Breedlove received a gift greater than any we could have given him. He stood in the presence of his Lord and Savior and felt the peace that surpasses all understanding. Ben’s 18-year-old heart may have been afflicted with Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy, but his physical limitations didn’t keep him from experiencing the things he loved---in fact, he found extraordinary ways to expand on those experiences and take us all along for the ride. He had a curiosity for learning (remember the drum kit?), and his quick, analytical mind sought ways to be the best at whatever captured his attention. He loved wakeboarding, shooting, and playing Call of Duty. His claim to fame was when he and little brother, Jake, beat Colt McCoy and Jordan Shipley in an online match. And they did it gleefully! There are so many ways to describe Ben: he was witty, sharp and funny, and his pranks were legendary. Just ask the unsuspecting drivers on City Park Road! He knew how to operate outside the system, while accomplishing his goals in an honorable fashion. While Ben never seemed to take anything seriously, his happy-go-lucky nature was matched with a warm, loving and candid personality. His YouTube channel gives witness to what his legion of female admirers thought of him! And now the world has come to know our Ben. He was a genius at using the Internet to reach and influence his peers. Through his brilliance with maneuvering the capabilities of YouTube, Ben has left a message for his generation. In the weeks prior to his death, he had faced some scary situations with his health, but had been given an amazing gift that he was determined to share; first with us, his family, and then, not surprisingly (and generously) with his YouTube audience. We know the Lord used the amazing life of our precious son to reach a weary world on Christmas night, just as He did over 2000 years ago with his own Son. We invite you to visit YouTube, and just enter “Ben Breedlove” and receive the gift that Ben hoped would change your life.

Ben was abundantly loved by his devoted family: parents, Shawn and Deanne; sister, Ally; and brother, Jake. Waiting to start the party in Heaven were both his grandmothers, Jan Breedlove and Sue Raine. Ben left grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, countless friends of the family, fellow students at Westlake High School, and members of the Internet Generation to mourn the loss of his creativity, wittiness and beautiful smile. Ben has left a lasting impression and legacy far beyond his 18 years. While the pain of losing Ben will never be far, his life is serving a greater purpose. You were always full of surprises, Ben, and this is the best one yet!

“May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be pleasing in your sight, Lord.”

Memorial services will be conducted at three o’clock in the afternoon, Thursday, the 29th of December at Gateway Church, 7104 McNeil Drive, Austin, Texas 78729.

Courtesy Of ; Austin American Statesman

Austin teenager Ben Breedlove died on Christmas but not before leaving his loved ones a cherished gift that quickly became an Internet sensation.

Breedlove, who was 18 when he succumbed to a lifelong heart condition, loved making funny videos and had his own channel on YouTube in which he gave girls advice about boys. True to form, his final message is a video .

His loved ones found it hours after he had an apparent cardiac arrest at home. In it, Breedlove talks about cheating death three times and describes a vision that he had when his heart stopped earlier this month and his desire to stay in that peaceful place.

Watching the two-part video Breedlove made days before he died, "I can't tell you the kind of joy" it brought, said his mother, Deanne Breedlove. "It was a gift to us, and for him to be so confident and unafraid of death and to share it with other people was so touching."

Breedlove is shown holding up written note cards rather than speaking about his close calls with death. The video was featured Tuesday on a variety of websites, including the Huffington Post, and on Facebook and Twitter. Many wrote they were tearful and inspired.

"I am going to achieve my dreams for you, Ben. I will," one commenter wrote.

"And I'm not going to fear anything or let fear get in the way of anything now."

A follower on his YouTube channel, "OurAdvice4You," thanked him for his help: "Ben, I never personally met you but I watched your videos and ... remember ... thinking, 'Whoever ends up with him will be the luckiest girl on Earth.'"

In his last video, Breedlove recounts the vision he had previously described to his family and friends when he "cheated death the third time," on Dec. 6. He had a cardiac arrest at Westlake High School, where he was a senior.

While he was being revived, he saw himself with his favorite rapper, Kid Cudi, and the two were wearing suits.

"The first thing I thought was, Damn, we look good!'" he recounted. "I then looked at myself in the mirror. I was proud of myself, of my entire life, of everything I have done. It was the best feeling. I didn't want to leave that place."

The rap artist wrote on his blog Monday that he was in tears after seeing the video.

Best friend Grant Hamill said he didn't know of the video until after his friend had died. Breedlove had hypertrophic cardiomyopathy, a thickening of the heart muscle that makes it work harder.

"It was rough seeing him and what he was thinking about," Hamill said. "He hated the hospital and being constrained. We didn't talk about it. He wanted me to be just his friend."

Breedlove enjoyed wakeboarding, playing guitar and drumming. He hunted with an adult family friend, Mark Kohler, who called him funny, smart and "an old soul."

He used YouTube to influence his peers, said Kohler's wife, Pam. "Obviously, he knew what he was doing when he left this message," she said.

Breedlove's mother said she was grateful for the goodness it had inspired. "Ben himself was full of joy," she said, "and to be his parent was a huge blessing."

He also is survived by his father, Shawn; a sister, Ally; and a brother, Jake.

maroser@statesman.com; 445-3619

Services

  • Memorial Service Thursday, December 29, 2011
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Benjamin Daniel Breedlove

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Tammy Cartner

February 3, 2019

Such a brave young man.. This young one inspired me. He lives on... here and in heaven. Just think of the fabulous things he’s doing up there, let alone here.❤️

Sandee Garza Schock

December 27, 2018

Not forgotten Rest In Peace

Suzanne Noa

December 27, 2018

Sharing your gift of hope has become an annual event for me. In this time of so much chaos, I couldn’t think of a more proper and excellent reminder than for as many people as possible to revisit your story. You still continue to give hope and comfort. God bless you forever

February 14, 2018

Ben,
Your sweet smile always reminds me of the good in this world.
I thank God for giving us a chance to know about you.

January 30, 2018

Ben,
The video you made about your experiences and heavenly visions made an immense impact on so many people around the world. For me, it meant returning to God's Word. To this day I still read my Bible frequently. I do it because I want to. It's a feeling of enjoyment rather than one of obligation.
I thank you again Ben for your courage and sharing your faith with us.

January 19, 2018

Ben,
Last week we had to have our beloved old cat put down. I thought he was losing weight due to his age, but a test confirmed he had cancer. Even though I believe all of God's creation return to Him in heaven, it broke my heart to say goodbye. Yesterday I was looking at the last picture we have of him.
Suddenly I envisioned Jesus holding my cat. My cat looked healthy and happy.
It dawned on me he returned to his creator. He's in good hands. God made him new again the second he crossed over.
Many people do not believe animals enter heaven.
Many people do not believe in God or angels.
Ben...I do.

January 13, 2018

Hey Ben,
Thinking of you on this cold night in New England. You have been "gone" for over 6 years now but it seems like just yesterday you were posting your inspiring videos on youTube.
Your spirit can be felt the world over Ben as you continue to stay in our hearts and souls. God Bless You!


Your friend Tony G.

Suzanne Noa-Gali

January 2, 2018

Dearest Ben:
Though I never met you, I always think of you, especially this time of year. I just want you to know that I'll never forget the gift you left for the world, but the gift YOU were to the world. I look forward to seeing you some day. Much much love to you. Thank you

Suzanne Noa-Gali

January 2, 2018

Dearest Ben:
Though I never met you, I always think of you, especially this time of year. I just want you to know that I'll never forget the gift you left for the world, but the gift YOU were to the world. I look forward to seeing you some day. Much much love to you. Thank you

Eric Whittington

December 30, 2017

Just watched the video again. Hadn't seen it for a few years. What a powerful testimony. What an amazing young man, who left us a gift surely he had received from God.