Betty Jean Vallely

Born on October 28, 1927, in Birmingham, Alabama, she was the youngest daughter of Robert G. Merrill and Demae Brown Merrill.

Betty’s journey began with her graduation from Fairfield High School. Shortly after, she found her perfect match in her high school sweetheart, Hugh Bernard Vallely. Their union blossomed into a 74-year love story, during which they blessed their family with four daughters, seven grandchildren, and twelve great grandchildren.

For nearly two decades, Betty dedicated her heart and soul to teaching preschool. She found immense joy in nurturing and educating four-year-old children, making teaching more than just a job; it was her passion. Her classroom was a haven filled with love, laughter, creativity, and fun, where her playful spirit and infectious enthusiasm made every child feel special and cherished. These years not only enriched her life but also fostered some of her closest, lifelong friendships.

A devout Catholic, Betty’s love for her family and her country was unwavering. She embodied the grace and warmth of a true Southern belle, with a love for life that touched everyone she encountered. Her faith, kindness, laughter, and love will forever be etched in her beautiful legacy.

Betty was preceded in death by her loving husband, Hugh Vallely, her parents, Robert and Demae Merrill, her sisters, Mary Flynn, Helen Spencer, and her brother, Robert Merrill Jr.

She is survived by her daughters, Susan Vallely Doyle, Lee Vallely, Anne Vallely Vise, and her husband, Jeff Vise, Elizabeth Vallely Snow Richmond. Her seven grandchildren include Ryan, Matthew, and Jordan Vise, Josh Vallely, Sydney (Snow) McKelvey, Morgan Richmond Aguillard, Joey Richmond, and twelve great grandchildren.

Family and friends are cordially invited to a Memorial Mass and a procession to the Columbarium for the placement of the urns of Betty and Hugh Vallely. The Mass will be held at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, located at 10205 N FM 620, Austin, Texas 78726, on Friday, November 20, 2026, at 11:00 am. Reception to follow at the Brennan Auditorium.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in their honor to St. Thomas More Catholic Church, https://www.givecentral.org/memorialdonation