Lila Louise "Lou" Ray

With hearts full of gratitude, we celebrate the extraordinary life of Lila Louise "Lou" Ray, a woman who lived with boundless love, unwavering faith, and an unparalleled ability to inspire and uplift those around her. Born on August 2, 1953, at Camp Lejeune in North Carolina, Lou’s life was a vibrant tapestry woven with compassion, intelligence, and a deep commitment to making the world a better place.

As the daughter of Janice and Ray Horton, Lou’s early years as the eldest child in a U.S. Marine family instilled in her both resilience and adaptability. Moving across the country—from North Carolina and New Orleans to San Diego, Houston, and finally Austin—she developed an open-mindedness and curiosity about the world that would define her remarkable life. Wherever she went, Lou left behind an enduring impact, not only through her actions but through the way she made people feel seen, valued, and loved.

Lou’s career as a stenographer and court reporter spanned more than five decades and was nothing short of exceptional. Her sharp mind, meticulous attention to detail, and calm under pressure made her a trusted and beloved figure in many State of Texas agencies, including the Public Utilities Commission and the Railroad Commission. For over 20 years, she worked with Kennedy Reporting before transitioning to a flourishing freelance career. Lou was more than just a professional; she was a trailblazer in her field, admired by colleagues and cherished by clients who knew they could rely on her precision and dedication.

Yet it wasn’t just Lou’s professional accomplishments that left an impression—it was her heart. Lou had a rare gift for forming meaningful connections with everyone she met. She was the kind of person who made you feel like you were the most important person in the room. Her warmth, wisdom, and kindness created an environment where others felt encouraged, supported, and deeply cared for. Whether offering sage advice, a listening ear, or her infectious laughter, Lou brought out the best in people and left them better than she found them.

Her sharp intellect and endless curiosity fueled her love of books, particularly history and science fiction. Lou’s wisdom was not only rooted in her life experiences but also in her faith. Her personal relationship with Jesus Christ shaped her character and guided her every decision. She was a shining example of Christ-like love—tolerant, compassionate, and generous. As a rector and active member of the Central Texas Tres Dias community, Lou encouraged others to grow in their faith, showing by example how to live a life of grace and purpose.

Lou’s ability to nurture extended beyond people; she had a green thumb that could rival any master gardener. Certified in her craft, she cultivated gardens that were not only beautiful but also a reflection of her care and dedication. Her thriving plants were much like her relationships—well-tended, vibrant, and full of life.

Family was Lou’s cornerstone, and she poured her heart and soul into her role as a mother and grandmother. She was the proud and loving mother of William Travis Ray and Wyatt Evan Ray, and she welcomed Candra Shauntele Ray and Bettina Renee Ray into her heart as her own daughters. Her grandchildren—Lila Grace Ray, Seana Faith "Stevie" Ray, and Bryce Alexander Davis—were her greatest treasures. She was also the cherished sister of Janet Kay Hart, Richard Albert Horton, and Calvin Ray Horton. To her family, Lou was a source of unconditional love, a guiding light of wisdom, and a steadfast supporter in every endeavor. Her legacy lives on through the values, lessons, and cherished memories she leaves behind.

Lou’s friends often described her as a “once-in-a-lifetime kind of person.” She was a confidante, a mentor, and a loyal friend whose quick wit, radiant smile, and wise counsel were unforgettable. She brought joy, comfort, and clarity to everyone who crossed her path, leaving behind an unshakable sense of gratitude for having known her. Her ability to brighten a room and touch a soul was a gift that will forever resonate with the countless people whose lives she enriched.

Memorial Service and Celebration of Life

Lou Ray Memorial Service:

Date: Saturday, February 1

Time: 1:00 PM

Location: St. Peter’s Church, 108 Wathen St., Coupland, Texas

Lou Ray Celebration of Life:

Immediately following the memorial service

Location: The home of Brett and Kay Hart

In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations in her memory to Compassion International (compassion.com/ways-to-donate), a fitting way to continue her tradition of giving.

Lila Louise "Lou" Ray was a bright light in this world—a woman of rare grace, deep wisdom, and unyielding kindness. She lived a life filled with faith, love, and purpose, leaving an everlasting legacy of hope and joy. To know her was to be forever changed, and her memory will continue to inspire and guide us for generations to come.