Stephen Thomas Sicola

Stephen was a bright and gentle light in this world. His warm, genuine smile and kind spirit would draw you in like a warm hug. You had to smile back when he aimed that special smile in your direction. And he generously shared that handsome gaze with all the people in his life that he loved the most, as well as with customers, strangers, and anyone who needed to know they were loved and appreciated.

He had a pure servant’s heart. And he gave his whole heart to his God, his family, his friends, and all those he met, no matter how great or small their place in this world might be. He showed his love in so many wonderful ways. He was a loving, fun, and passionate father to his sons Rowan and Ethan and to his stepdaughter Saylor. He was a selfless and adoring husband to his forever soulmate Heather, and the true light of their lives for his devoted parents Tom and Brenda and his sweet sister “Vic”. And he was a supportive and always-fun friend to so many. His life revolved around his faith, his family, and his friends.

He was also strong, fearless, and accomplished. At 19, he backpacked across Europe for three months, visiting 14 countries and 31 cities. He mastered wakeboarding, surfing, snowboarding, weightlifting, and cross-training. He loved gardening, landscaping, and DIY projects with Heather. He was a certified and admired chef and fitness trainer. He opened one of Austin’s first private dining restaurants, Sicola’s Fine Dining and Gourmet Catering. And created Culinary EXP, a one-of-a-kind food truck in Lago Vista.

His energy was boundless. And throughout his career, he prepared and served thousands of meals that were not just incredibly delicious but also served with a loving spirit that made every bite true comfort food for the soul. And you always felt full and fully loved.

There will never be another Stephen. He was unique and so kind and precious. His light and love will shine forever in the hearts of all those whose lives he blessed and all those who cherished him so unconditionally. And there is comfort in our pain and loss. Even though Stephen’s faith could not overcome his recent struggle with mental illness, a life of prayer, worship and genuine faith prepared him for a magnificent transition into God’s perfect and eternal love.

We will always miss you, Stephen. And we will always love you.

Stephen was born in Austin, Texas, to Tom and Brenda Sicola on April 24, 1979. He is preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Tom Sicola, Sr. and Mary Catherine Sicola, and maternal grandparents, Don and Ann Cammack.

He is survived by his wife Heather Murphy, sons Rowan and Ethan Sicola, stepdaughter Saylor Murphy, parents Tom and Brenda Sicola, sister Victoria McMahon and her husband Hagen McMahon III, nephew Hagen McMahon IV, niece Avery McMahon, aunts Mary Love and Victoria Diane Sicola, uncle Stephen Cammack and his wife Jeannie Cammack, and step-grandmother Laurita Sicola.

The Memorial Service will be on June 19 at 11:00 AM at Weed-Corley-Fish Funeral Home, located at 5416 Parkcrest Drive, Austin, Texas and will also be Livestreamed on the website. Go to Stephen's service where you will see the Livestream icon. Stephen’s father, Tom Sicola, will officiate. Immediately following the service, there will be a catered reception at the funeral home provided by Chez Zee.

In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be given to: Alliance of Hope for suicide loss survivors. https://allianceofhope.org

Or, Northlake Hope Center

https://northlakehopecenter.com

Heather and Stephen’s family want to extend sincere thanks and gratitude to Northlake Church, The Hope Center, Grace Fellowship Church, Straight Path Church, Baker Flooring and Design, and all the wonderful friends who have reached out with love, prayers and generosity.