Robert J. Toscani

Robert J. Toscani, 77, of North Babylon, New York, passed away on October 16, 2026, leaving behind a lifetime of cherished memories, enduring love, and a legacy of hard work, kindness, and devotion to his family.

Bob shared 52 wonderful years of marriage with his beloved wife, Patricia. Their love story began in Jackson Heights, New York, where they met and began building a life together filled with laughter, new adventures, and countless treasured memories. Together, they raised their three beloved daughters, Melissa, Allison, and Carolyn, who were a central part of his life and heart.

Throughout his career, Bob was a dedicated steamfitter with Local 638 in Astoria, New York. Known for his strong work ethic, commitment, and thoughtful approach to his craft, he took great pride in everything he did. His many talents extended beyond his work as a steamfitter, as he also worked as a hospital orderly and a home inspector. A true jack of all trades, Bob was resourceful, dependable, and always willing to lend a hand. His generosity, resilience, and genuine care for others left a lasting impression on the people he encountered throughout his life.

Bob proudly served in the United States Army from 1968 to 1970. During his years of service, he demonstrated courage, selflessness, and patriotism, embodying a deep sense of duty to his country and compassion for those who served alongside him. He was a faithful and dependable man, someone others could count on, both in his military service and throughout his life.

Beyond his work and service, Bob enjoyed the simple things in life. He had a lifelong love of cars and was a true car enthusiast who enjoyed learning about different makes, models, parts, and mechanics. He also loved listening to music and spending time in his garden. He took great pride in caring for his many beautiful plants and watching them grow. These simple pleasures brought Bob happiness and made life special to him.

Above all, Bob will be remembered for his devotion to his family, his steadfast character, his generous spirit, and the love he shared with those closest to him. His presence, humor, and thoughtfulness will be deeply missed, but the memories he created will remain in the hearts of those who loved him.

Bob is survived by his beloved wife of 52 years, Patricia Toscani; his daughters, Melissa, Allison, and Carolyn Toscani; his brother, Vincent Toscani; his nieces, Patricia O’Hare DelGenio and Anne Marie O’Hare; and his great-nephews, John DelGenio, Ryan DelGenio, and Joseph Solow. He will also be lovingly remembered by his cherished furry companions, Goldie, Brandy, Mugsy, Chloe, Abbey, Shelby, Lola, Iyla, and Toonces, who brought him companionship and joy.

Family and friends are invited to pay their respects and celebrate Bob’s life at a memorial service on Sunday, October 25, 2026, from 3:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Claude R. Boyd/Spencer Funeral Homes, located at 448 West Main Street, Babylon, NY 11702.

A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, October 26, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at Our Lady of Lourdes, located at 455 Hunter Avenue, West Islip, NY 11795. Family and friends are warmly invited to attend and join in honoring and remembering their loved one.

Bob’s life was defined by love, loyalty, hard work, and a quiet strength that touched those around him. Though he will be profoundly missed, his memory will live on through his beloved family, the lives he touched, and the countless moments of love and laughter he leaves behind.

May he rest in eternal peace, forever loved and never forgotten.