Today I walked into the Cordova Farmer's Market and as I walked toward the item I needed, my breath was taken away thinking about Ben and how he enjoyed shopping there for odd items that he liked to use to make meals for his friends.  I was overcome for a moment and wondered how I'd ever get out without crying, but then I thought about how proud he'd be of the fact that I was buying something there that couldn't be bought at most normal grocery stores and I had to smile to myself.  I miss you every day, Ben!  - Maggie

Benjamin was a wonderful person and I treasured his friendship.  He was special for his heart, his humor, and his random knowledge of all topics great and small.  He is greatly missed.  May the Lord be comfort and peace for each member of Ben's family.

Such a sad loss. May your family and friends find comfort in their memories of you.  We will raise a glass to you this weekend. You will be missed.

Ben was among the finest men I have ever known. The world is poorer for his loss. He was a true gentleman, a man of utmost integrity. I had the privilege to work with him, editing his wine writing. He had not only a pure spirit and voice and vision in his work, but also the humility to engage collaboratively with others in pursuit of perfection in his writing. I will miss him always.

Such a brilliant, talented, kind, gentle soul.  His generosity and ability to make a person feel right at home was unrivaled.  Truly a scholar and a gentleman.  Gone way, way too soon.

Ben was simply an outstanding human being. His natural curiosity for the world and everything in it  biology, literature, people, languages, food, wine  was never ceasing. He had a way of weaving all his random interests together and teaching us something new in every conversation. Although he was light years smarter than all of us, he never made anyone feel beneath him. Perhaps the only thing bigger than his brain, was his kind heart. I will miss the musings of his gentle old soul.  I imagine you hosting the biggest dinner party yet up there, served up with a side of Knowledge Bowl. It's been a privilege, Ben.

I met Ben during a wine industry trip to North Carolina where we were snowed in for a couple days. Wonderful man and good friend afterwards. Prayers to him and his family.

I was convinced you thought I was an idiot in high school, just a chatty social butterfly. I was glad to learn later that wasn't the case at all. Thank you Ben for always including me in your many get togethers over the years. Whether the dinner party at Paul's house, fine dining at Grace in Cooper Young(where we may or may not enjoyed too much Port) or the delicious meals at the hole in the wall Ethiopian and Brazilian restaurants in Cordova. I always just appreciated being invited. Our mutual interest in food and wine kept the conversations going but above all you were a kind and generous person who I am honored to have called a friend.  
So very sorry that you have gone so soon...

You are so greatly missed, Ben. Every time I drink a glass of wine, I'll toast to you, my friend. Rest in Peace

RIP Ben... very sad to hear this. Always a kind person growing up, and I loved reading your wine and food reviews.. Prayers to your family.

I will miss Ben's appreciation for quality, not only in work, but wine, food and atmosphere.  I loved his ability to vibrantly share an experience through words that allowed me to be a part of it.  I will definitely miss Ben bringing Bella to work to see me.

Ben,

So sad to hear the news today. You truly embodied what it means to support others.  You were smarter than I will ever be and everyone is better for knowing you.  Rest in Peace Brother.

Ben was such a beautiful and kind person and I am honored to have known him. He was always willing to help in every way he could as he truely had a servant's heart. I only regret that I did not get to know him better not only as a co-worker but also as a person. He blessed my life and I pray for peace and compfort to his family that only God can give. Benjamin Allen Carter I will miss you.

You were the first neighbor to greet me when I moved in next door to you. Your kindness and sweet soul will forever be remembered in my heart.

Hey Ben,
 As souls go, I would be surprised if mine was worthy enough too meet yours again. A singularity of intelligence, humility, and humor.

To the Family and other friends of Ben Carter, he made a positive impact on people's lives. I'm honored to have been in his company for as long as I was privalaged to be.

We will miss you, Ben.  You were so talented and brilliant.  I will miss our talks.  I will not forget you or the impact you had on my life.

Ben was an important part of so many people's lives.  Here with FedEx he was our problem-solver for many challenges.  He was always so helpful and positive.  I appreciate his spirit and hardwork.  I pray for peace with Ben and with his friends and family.

Ben was a kind hearted man who always saw the positive in everyone and provided a wealth of knowledge and wisdom. He was my right hand for so long and I am privelged to have known him. I will miss him.

You will be missed Ben. I did not know you well but I always could see your kind heart and gentle spirit everytime I spoke with you. Rest now.

I always count Ben among the best friends I made in my life. Ben was a gifted soul who I was privileged to know.

We were blessed to have had you in our lives. Rest in the arms of the angels, my dear Ben.

Watch over Mac, Wolfie, and Goldie for us until we meet again.  Love that old Ben.

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Benjamin Allen Carter

September 13, 1976 – December 24, 2015

Memphis Funeral Home & Memorial Gardens

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