James Jay Westmoreland

James Jay Westmoreland, known as Jay, passed away on October 31, 2026, at St. Francis Hospital, with his family by his side.

Jay was born on April 18, 1967, in Memphis, Tennessee, to James Westmoreland and Rebecca Flow. He grew up in Millington and later made his home in Arlington, Tennessee.

In 1991, Jay married his best friend, Stephanie L. Westmoreland. They welcomed their only child, Austin.

Jay dedicated 25 years to law enforcement with the Shelby County Sheriff’s Office. During his career, he served as a school resource officer at Bolton High School and was a member of the Sheriff’s Motorcycle Team. He concluded his career as a sergeant and supervisor in Patrol and the Court Systems.

Outside of work, Jay enjoyed fishing with his friends, spending time at the beach with his family, being a devoted “Sunshine” to his two grandchildren, and watching sports with his son. Kind, selfless, and witty, Jay made it a point to make people laugh and feel seen. A friend to all, he will be remembered for his big, giving, and caring heart.

Jay is survived by his loving and devoted wife of 35 years, Stephanie; his son, Austin, and daughter-in-law, Bailey; his grandchildren, Magnolia and Wyatt; his mother, Rebecca Wadsworth; and his sister, Amy Westmoreland, and brother-in-law, Howard Nirkin. He was preceded in death by his father, James Westmoreland.

A Celebration Of Life Service will be held at Memphis Funeral Home and Memorial Gardens, 3700 North Germantown Parkway, Bartlett, TN 38133, US, on November 5, 2026, from 2:00 pm to 3:00 pm.