Nelda Marie Ostgard

She was born on September 26, 1928, in LaPlatta, Missouri, to Flay and Ada Brantner. She had three sisters. When Nelda was 16, her family moved from Missouri to Deer Lodge, Montana. There, she met Bill Bennett, whom she married shortly thereafter.

Together, Nelda and Bill moved to a small farm near Ephrata, Washington, where they raised their seven children. Nelda was a supportive wife and devoted mother. She and Bill became active leaders in their community, helping establish the first Community Club and the first Women’s Club. Throughout her life, Nelda formed lasting friendships and made a meaningful difference in the lives of those around her.

After leaving the farm, Nelda and Bill built and opened a restaurant in Kahlotus. Nelda organized, managed, and cooked at the restaurant, working tirelessly alongside Bill. They eventually sold the restaurant when Bill invented Eldorado Stone. Nelda continued to support him as they built their new company, proving herself to be a capable and dedicated businesswoman in her own right. When Bill suddenly passed away from a heart attack, Nelda was just 48 years old. She found herself raising three children while running a new business. With determination and perseverance, she carried on, and the company grew into a successful worldwide business.

Nelda later married Larry Ostgard, a kind man who brought many happy years into her life. Together, they welcomed everyone into their home, hosting dinners for holidays, birthdays, and celebrations. Their home was always filled with children, grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and friends. Nelda had a remarkable gift for making people feel welcome, and everyone who knew her felt the warmth of her hospitality.

At the age of 89, Nelda suffered a stroke that impaired her speech. Visiting and talking with her loved ones had always been among the things she cherished most, and losing that ability was difficult for her. Even so, she faced her circumstances with grace and appreciation. She was a pleasant, grateful patient who always greeted visitors with a smile. She remained thankful to Alex and Alla for everything they did for her, and they lovingly cared for her for eight years.

This year, Nelda celebrated her 98th birthday surrounded by a houseful of family. Sadly, her health had been declining, and she passed away a few weeks later.

Nelda was a woman who succeeded through life’s many challenges and accomplishments, building a legacy of hard work, resilience, and love. She was deeply loved by many and will be remembered for her strength, her welcoming spirit, and the countless memories she created with those fortunate enough to know her.

Rest in peace, Nelda. Your life was a gift to so many, and your memory will live on in the hearts of all who loved you.