this photo will always be one of my favorite memories with Wendy, the times we would go to the beach at the crack of dawn, staying up late watching movies at grandmas house, and always causing chaos with Bailey 
 at your dads house. Rest easy 🤍

wwwweeeeennndddyyyy⁉️ gosh oh man to think where I would even begin to start this. sometimes people come into our lives for a moment, a day, or a lifetime. It matters not the time you've spent but, how you impact their life in that time. Man oh man did we for sure impact each other's lives, we even scheduled our lives around each other. I'm forever grateful to our greatest friend April for nudging us to be friend one & other because after that day my life changed a whole lot in so many ways. From going on countless adventures, from saving each other from toxic boys, to helping each other with life drama, we really we're a pair of inseparable kids. We had so much life stories in common & so many common interests, even when we had nothing to do we'd still come up with a plan. I had an honor of meeting your family & still would feel like home. You're my muse, best friend, my inspiration, partner in crime, my sun to my moon, my bat to my man. Gosh I don't even know what I would've done without you, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for befriending me & giving me a chance to get to know you. One memory that I'll say stuck out the most to me is when we we're planning our last warped tour trip because it was the last show ever. I couldn't go because work was way to busy but, you still came & kidnapped me & said we're going & there's  no if's, and's, or but's. I remember my wisdom teeth had just started to come out & you took care of me the whole trip. I promise to go on many more adventures for us & I'll take my camera so I can take all the pictures for us. You finally gained your bat wings like you've been wanting. I never got a chance to tell you What's funnier than 24 . . . 25 ! 💔🥺 SpongeBob references we're our sweet spot, happy happy happy birthday goth queen‼️may your soul rest easy & I'll see you soon in paradise. I love you to pieces to the moon & back forever & ever my best friend for life🖤🦇🌙💜


Wendy,
One of the happiest days of my life was becoming your mom. I felt so much joy and love for you. I loved watching you grow and discover yourself. I enjoyed listening to you play the steal drums. Going to your soft ball Games. Seeing all of your new paintings and flash drawings. One of my favorite memories with you is when I helped you at your paint in sip. And when you taught me a few painting skills. I am so proud of you and all of the things you have accomplished and the young woman you have become. I love that you would never stay at a job you didn't like. You are an amazing Artist, Daughter, Friend, Sister, Aunt and Granddaughter that is kind loving and caring. I love you and miss you  bunches and bunches.  
Love, 
Mom 
Xoxoxo 

To my special angel,
I have been so blessed to have been given two granddaughters. I love you so much that I feel so lost without you. I know you're still taking care of me though!
There's a lot of special times with you I can't write them all down but I have the one day you bought your bat purse. You were so shocked you said "Grandma you missed this bat purse?! Can I have it" and of course I said yes. You were so happy. Thrift shopping was our thing. 
I love you, love Grandma 

A long while back I had found a tiny bat in Oklahoma and put it in a jar of alcohol. I loved it, but when I showed my peers at school they were pretty judgemental about it and looked at me with concern. I was crushed. It made me so insecure about it afterwards. But when I mentioned it to Wendy she was so excited about it and offered to buy it off of me. I was so relieved to have someone who understood that I immediately agreed. She made me feel so reassured and comforted about myself without even trying. I'll never forget that. Never.

We weren't very close, but I'm definitely going to miss Wendy. Her free spirit and creative nature holds a special place in my heart. I love that she wasn't afraid to be her true self and enjoy life.

Love Always,
Aunt Bobbie

Hi Wendy,
You and I met in the 5th grade and since then we were best friends. Do you remember how much fun we had in science camp or leadership camp? How about all the years in middle school we spent sitting next to each other in band playing the clarinet as best as we could? Looking back at those concert band videos, we sound exactly how a middle school band would sound, so maybe I don't need to remind you of that. We still had a lot of fun together though. One thing I'll always keep close to my heart is when you gave me your treasured Goofy plushie and made me promise to take good care of it for you. I'm still taking good care of it. It's right here beside me, always keeping me company. You'll always be one of the greatest and sweetest best friends I've ever had. I wish we had more time together, but I can consider myself lucky for all the time we did have. What an honor it's been and I'll always be so grateful for you. Thank you for always being so sweet and loving me so. I love you too and will miss you dearly. 

When we were little you would bite yourself so I would get out in time-out and you could have more playtime.
And when we had bunk beds I would swing over the edge and slap you in the face while you were sleeping and ask you if you were awake.
When I was in labor you came to Bakersfield drunk (dad drove). But YOU stayed by my side the entire time while the baby daddy slept. 
We fought, cried, laughed, we picked on one another;  we were sneaky sometimes. We had late night drives, Disney trips, family dinners, holidays just us two, off roading adventures, nights where we hung out all night and talked and drank together. I could give thousands of memories throughout the years. Through the good and the bad, you were my lifelong best friend and Sea-Star. 

Wendy, I will never forget the times I've had with you. Whether it's the time we went around with friends and Bailey looking for a ouija board in high school or the countless shows we went to over the years. I'll never forget your laugh or the warmth of your love.  I never had anyone else I've vibed with or had so much in common as I had with you. You always kept me out of trouble and the simple sound of your voice was always enough to make my day. I'm going to bring all of your ideas to life and make you proud of me.  I hope you're reading this and feeling the amount of love I have for you and always will.

Wendy... you definitely marched to the beat of your own drum!  It was inspiring for someone as young as you!  You were a unique individual that was confident but shy at the same time.  Your laugh was one of a kind and I will carry that with me.   

I will never forget the time you told off the T-Mobil lady when she could not help you with your phone problem!  It was priceless!  You had the sweetest voice and tone with her while telling her that her service was basically good for nothing!  I don't know of anyone else who could pull that off! LOL 

How about the time you save us at camping?!  Eli and Bailey had locked the keys in the car and we were way up in the mountains with no phone reception!  You smiled and said.... I got it, picked up your phone and called AAA!  It was so cool to see that big smile on your face, because you knew you had been the hero of the moment!

I desired to be closer to you, but I knew that would take time.  You  were always nice to my face, lol, but I knew that with time we would be closer and on your time lol.  You were taken too soon and that never came to happen, but I will hold onto the sound of your laughter and  the memories I have of you.  You were so loved in this life by many, including me.

Will miss you kid!

I have many memories of Wendy. I was even there when she was born. I was known as Uncle Charles. Such a great honor.  But one memory  stands out above them all. When she was little, I would yell out MACARONI! and she would yell CHEESE!  Bailey too. We did this all the time. Literally all the time. At least a thousand times. Everybody would be sick of it. Not us though. Over and over. MACARONI...... CHEEEEEESE!  I will never forget that. Most of my friends have children now. But Wendy will always have the honor of being the first kid. She made us all grow up.  She prepared me for my own daughter a few years later.  And to this day, every time I hear the word macaroni. In my head I hear her little voice say CHEEEEEEESE!

I've been staring at this page and wondering where to start. First of all I'd like to say when I first met wendy she was very quiet very well mannered and quiet I'd bug her to talk to me when I drove her home. When we became re aquatinted later I was in shock who is this beautiful confident artist. Wendy you inspired me every time I drew painted or molded somey you were in my inbox cheering me on. Your art hangs on my wall and it brings me joy everyte my eyes lay on it. Having late nights with you and many talks between cigarettes made me grow to love you to unavineable lengths I'm glad I got to know you and call u one on my team. I can go all day on selfless actions you did for us but that won't cast pure essence of how good a friend you were. I love you Wendy and everytime I see something spooky I will think of you and smile.

Wendy was one of a kind. Artistic and passionate about life. I am honored to have been chosen to be her uncle. The world is not as creative as it was now that she is gone.

I only ever really took pictures when Wendy made me take them with her, but now I kind of wish she made me take more. I wish I had more pictures with her or just more time in general so we could take more. I remember always being in the worst mood as she was asking me to take them but it was always easy to smile around Wendy.

I love you Wendy and you will be my beautiful sister . Your such a great artist too and tattoo artist love our trips to the beach and go everywhere with you . Always gonna be with me and Gigi loves you too . Always and forever my sis 

I remembered always taking pictures of your cat, Cleopatro, with silly Snapchat filters. Thank you for giving me the best birthday by getting me a Dom plushie and just being there for me and ray. Knowing you and passing you by since high school, from not liking each other to actually spending time together at your house watching Trailer Park Boys, sharing Tik Tok videos of cats. I enjoyed being your sober buddy to make sure you're not alone. I love you, Wendy! 

OBITUARY

Wendy-Ann Marie Scovel

April 24, 1996 – March 19, 2021

Funeraria del Angel Bellflower

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