Jayne, we have so many happy memories during your family's life on Long Lake.  We learned so much about military life from Jay's stories and appreciated his hospitality and humor at house parties. 
He was a good sport when we took them out in the boat years later after their trip down the Colorado and the boat quit and we had to be towed!

It was because of knowing Jay that I had the privilege of doing some nursing for his mother as she suffered with infection.  He was also supportive of Girl Scouting that took up lots of time for Bev, you and Karla and I.

This is a hard situation during COVID to hold a service, but because of all the blessings of the internet we can also be a witness to Jay's service and enjoyed learning more about him, hearing your comments and participating virtually.

Peace to you and yours,  Vickie and Karl Kirn

Mr. Onder was an amazing father to my longtime friend, Jayne.  He was supportive, positive and always full of love for Jayne!  I personally will always remember him with a drink I hand, near his personal home bar as we watched TV!  Rest In Peace Sir!

To the man that taught me so much and was willing to try my food experiments. I love and miss you. Jayne

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Jabes Andrew Onder

June 8, 1940 – August 20, 2020

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