Patti Joleen Durbin

Patti Joleen Durbin, 82, passed away on September 15, 2026. Born on October 9, 1943, Patti is remembered with deep respect and enduring affection by all who knew her. A beloved presence in the lives she touched, she carried herself with steady devotion, quiet wisdom, and a witty sense of humor that could brighten even ordinary moments.

Patti attended high school in Salina, Kansas, a place that remained an important part of her story and roots. Those early years helped shape the thoughtful, grounded woman she would become—someone others could rely on for perspective, warmth, and a well-timed bit of humor.

Patti was married for 65 years to Bobby Durbin, a partnership marked by loyalty and lasting commitment. Together they raised three children: David, Brian, and Kellie. Throughout the years, Patti’s devotion to her family showed not only in what she did, but in the steady way she showed up—offering guidance with wisdom, and love with a light touch of wit that made her presence both reassuring and memorable.

Patti found joy in the simple pleasures that bring people together. She loved square dancing and country music, and she also gave her time and energy to her son’s little league teams. Patti served as a team mom, was involved in the teams, and served on the board of directors for Twin Hills Little League—roles she filled with care, good judgment, and the kind of humor that helped a community feel like family. She also collected Emmett Kelly Clowns, a reflection of her fondness for charm, character, and the small details that make life more colorful.

Patti lived in San Diego, California. She will be remembered with gratitude and respect, and missed with a tenderness that words can only begin to express.