Edward Lorden Demore

Born on May 30, 1946, in Somerville, MA, Edward was raised in humble beginnings, one of four children born to the late Anne M. (Lorden) DeMore and Vincent J. DeMore. A self-described "kid who grew up in Davis Square," these early experiences forged a relentless drive in him. In a bold move that set the stage for a life defined by action, he skipped his own graduation ceremony from UMass Amherst to attend his first real estate closing. A self-made man, Edward built a successful career in real estate investment, leading redevelopment projects that established his reputation as a strategic operator.

However, Edward’s life truly changed trajectory when he met Paula Bohan. Though he had once envisioned a solitary life, he chose a partnership with Paula that spanned decades. Bonded by shared ethics and a commitment to critical thinking, it was with Paula that he raised a family grounded in the very values of social equity that he later championed fiercely in his public life.

While his career evolved with his "active mind"—from serving in the Menino administration leading the EDIC, to founding the Boston Digital Bridge Foundation and the Boston Global Bridge Institute—his professional dedication to community and underrepresented backgrounds was a reflection of the principles he and Paula instilled in their home.

He was a man of intensity and authentic curiosity who lived life fully. He maintained a beloved daily tradition of swimming in the ocean year-round, braving the water every day that it was physically possible, whether in the chilly waters of Scituate or the gentle waves of Simonton Beach in Key West.

Edward delighted in international adventures and was an enthusiastic patron of the arts. In his later years, he became a fixture of the Key West art scene, recognizable in his signature straw fedora and black t-shirt. He rarely left an opening without supporting a local artist, and he recently served as an Executive Producer for a documentary on the life of his friend, painter Eric Anfinson—a project he called "life-changing to watch."

He possessed a deep love for music, and especially for a beautiful voice—so much so that he would often sing along, happily undeterred by his own lack of talent in that department. He approached theater with that same generosity of spirit. If he found a show he loved, he wouldn't just see it once; he would go back multiple times, treating friends and family so they wouldn't miss out. In many ways, he felt most at home in a "big room," surrounded by people all sharing in the same experience.

Edward held a special appreciation for the complexity of life and was known for his irreverent, unvarnished sense of humor. He was never one to leave a thought unspoken, often engaging with the world through observations that were as provocative as they were keen-eyed.

Edward is survived by his former wife, Paula Bohan DeMore of Charlestown, MA, and Key West, FL. Paula remained a vital, supportive presence in his life, offering him friendship and care throughout his later years. He is survived by his four children: Margot Bohan DeMore of Charlestown, MA, Lauren Bohan DeMore of Charlestown, MA, Catherine Bohan DeMore of Somerville, MA, and Ross Lorden DeMore of Framingham, MA. He is also survived by his five grandchildren: Bohan, Charlotte, Lewis, Robin, and Fiona.

He leaves behind his siblings: sister Sally A. Hurley of Brockton and brother Vincent J. DeMore, Jr. of Amesbury, as well as many nieces and nephews.

The family wishes to express their deep gratitude to Paula for her enduring kindness and support.

A private service will be held for the immediate family. A Celebration of Life will be held after the holidays, where friends and community members are invited to gather and honor Edward’s vibrant spirit. The specific details of the Celebration of Life will be shared as soon as they have been finalized.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you honor Edward’s legacy through the way you engage with the world. Please pay tribute to him by treating the people you meet with curiosity, equity, and an open heart, helping to build the community he so deeply valued.