Barbara Allar

Born March 11, 1949

Barbara “Bobbi” Allar of Virginia, formerly of Wellesley and Dobbs Ferry, NY, entered into rest on July 16, 2013 at the age of 64 years. She was the daughter of Sam and the late Ruth Allar, and the mother of Michael Allar. She is also survived by her sister Marcia Allar, her niece, Sarah, her nephew, Ben and her step-daughter, Ginny and Paul Wagner and grandmother of Piper and Everett. Services at Stanetsky Memorial Chapel, 475 Washington Street, CANTON on Sunday, July 21, 2013 at 12 Noon. Interment at Beit Olam Cemetery in Wayland. In lieu of flowers, expressions of sympathy may be donated to the National Alliance on Mental Illness, or 3803 N. Fairfax Dr., Arlington, VA 22203.


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December 30, 2013

Just found about Bobbi's passing earlier today. I was just her "computer guy" but I always enjoyed my visits with her. I'll miss her always.

October 19, 2013

I am deeply saddened to hear of Bobbi's death. The world is a much lesser place. Tom Smith, Nashville, TN

Bob Carter

July 25, 2013

I am so sorry to learn of Bobbi's passing. I knew her professionally but was aware of her love for her son... May she find her lasting peace...

Freya Kendal

July 22, 2013

So saddened to hear about Bobbi. I first met her when she was sixteen and I was a student nurse at MT. Sinai.We bonded and kept in touch for quite a while. We recently reconnected. I will always remember her as a beautiful and personable woman. My deepest sympathy to her family.

Kathryn Willis

July 22, 2013

Dear Bobbi, You were truly a beautiful person both inside and out, and a loving, caring friend. Everyone who knew you will miss your sweet smile. I especially will miss our walks and talks. I know how mightily you struggled with life. I am glad you no longer have to deal with those burdens. May you at last find peace on the other side. Blessings to you, dear Bobbi

Terry Orsogna

July 22, 2013

May you rest in God's peace.

July 21, 2013

Dear Bobbie, I met you when you first moved to Teaneck and was a friend of your sister's. My deepest sympathy for your struggles and wishes for your peace. We all do the very best that we can and can do no more. In honor of your goodness and kindness. Blessings and more blessings on your spirit.

Lori Kruppenbacher

July 21, 2013

Dear Bobbi, I am sorry that I have lost you as a friend in this life but, I know you are finally at peace and that's all you'd ever wanted. Know that you were a good person and a thoughtful friend. I will miss our talks, texts, emails and sushi lunches. We have been through a lot over the years, but no matter where life took us we knew we could count on one another. You were truly one of the most dedicated, hardworking, and generous people I have ever met. You lived and breathed the definition of philanthropy and have left a legacy at Phelps that will be tough to top. I'm really going to miss you. Love, Lori

Tandy Levine

July 21, 2013

I didn't mean to be the anonymous entry!

Steven Ackerman

July 21, 2013

Dear Bobbi,
We had meaningful conversations and even some laughs together last year. I know how hard you struggled and know that you did the best that you can. Rest In Peace. Be in comfort, and know that you are loved.
-Steven Ackerman, Stockbridge, MA.