The Special Education Planning and Policy Office of the Department of Elementary and Secondary Education (where Linda Tarmy works) extends its sincere sympathy to the entire Tarmy extended family.

Marilyn, we are missing you! You have been an amazing coworker and a caring friend! So often you reached out beyond the daily routine, and send caring and uplifting emails. You were never 'all business', but always ready to care and to connect in meaningful ways! Your conversation was always deeply knowledgeable, intelligent and humorous.

I will never forget our first training class in Atlanta together, where you reached out in friendship to a young German. Thank you for teaching me about 
Jewish traditions and being endlessly tolerant and forgiving!
Peace be with you, my friend!

With the big gap you are leaving behind at work, it is impossible to imagine the loss for your family. Please accept my deepest condolences.

I am very fortunate that I had to chance to know you, work with you, and be influenced by you. I am very sorry to hear this tragic news and I offer my heartfelt condolences to all of the family and friends during this difficult time. 

Among all of the great memories I have of you - I recall one very specifically in 2002 when we went out for dinner while you were visiting the Eclipsys office in Phoenix.  I had just moved out there and didn't know a soul. We were riding around Phoenix getting lost because I had no idea where I was going.  Although I was nervous and definitely worried about whether I made a good move, you were so positive and optimistic that by the time the night was over I was ready for my new challenge (actually any challenge for that matter).   After all these years I'm happy to look back and better understand your wisdom and am so thankful you were there at that time.

Marilyn, I deeply admired your lively spirit, your assertiveness, your work ethic, your fearlessness. It was a real pleasure working with you day to day, collaborating with you on various projects and chatting with you about life in general. I miss you so much!

I will miss my dear friend and co-worker immensely.  She was a beautiful lady inside and out.

Marilyn was more than a coworker, she was a great friend. She was one of the most amazing people I have ever known and I will cherish all those wonderful memories of her. Marilyn, I will always remember the trip we took to Grand Canyon, and I will miss you.

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Marilyn was an amazingly beautiful person inside and out. Thank you Marilyn for your friendship and support at Bronx Lebanon Hospital. You will definitely be missed. An Angel has gone home . . . RIP.

Marilyn was a joyful person and always found a way to laugh even in discouraging situations.  She will be missed.

Dear Arnold and Linda,

Wally and I were so sad to hear about the loss of your sister Marilyn.

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.    

With affection,

I will miss Marilyn more than words can express. She was a great friend and coworker.  I am so glad we had the time in Vegas with her.  She loved it.  My thoughts and prayers are with her family.  Her boys and grandchildren meant the world to her
Lisa Selig

Marilyn was a wonderful person that I am a better person for knowing her. Yes she was interesting because she was ALWAYS intellectualling stimulating but at the same time warm and loving. I loved how she always shared Morgan and Josh stories. My heart goes out to all the family

Deepest and fondest regards

Doug Crawford

I was very sad to hear about Marilyn.  My prayers will include her family to make sure they have God's arms to hug and comfort them.  I worked with Marilyn since 1997. When I would come to Boston to meet with my Support team I always made sure I spend time with her, she was so dedicated and on top of the issues and process problems.  More importantly because she was a wonderful lady.

My thoughts are with the family, I have a lot of wonderful memories of working  being on the road with Marilyn.

Dearest Arnold and family it is with great sadness that we hear of your loss of Marilyn.  We will forever be reminded of her enthusiasm and zest for life.  It was our good fortune to be acquainted with her.  We hold Marilyn's family, you, Linda, and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

I selfishly mourn the loss of this wonderful person.  Paul/Steven and family, I have so many precious memories working and befriending Marilyn - she taught me so much professionally and personally. I can go on forever of wonderful moments starting with our work on Staten Island, our chats ending in her sage advice, her smiling face at my wedding not too long ago.... always, always her smiling face...
Both my husband and my thoughts and prayers are with you all and thank you for being such a loving family for her.
sadly, Nancy Lavigne and Mark Matheson

It is Marilyn's warm smile that I will always remember.  My thoughts and prayers are with her family during this time.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Vada Hayes, Allscripts

Paul, my deepest condolences to you and your family.  I was thinking of you and your Mom this weekend.  My heart truly goes out to you.

I am deeply troubled  and grieved to hear this news.  My heart is filled with pain and regret to acknowledge that I will never be able to see her again.  Marilyn was a very caring and loving person, probably the best Mentor that I ever had.  I will remember her for the things that she taught me about work and about life in general.  Marilyn made a VERY POSITIVE DIFFERENCE in my life.  Nothing can fill the empty space that got created today in our lives.
 
I pray that the ALMIGHTY BLESS HER and MAY SHE REST IN PEACE.  May GOD give the family of Mariyn and us patience and strength to bear this loss.

You will be missed Marilyn,
Abdul

Abdul Raheem Mohammad
Co-Worker, Allscripts India

For all of us in Needham Hadassah, "Marilyn"  was truly A Woman of Valor.  
I shall forever have her in my heart and be ever so grateful for our friendship. May her memory be for a blessing.   Judy Shefshick Karll, Braintree MA

Marilyn was the last cousin I saw before moving away.  My thoughts are with all
my cousins, Wish I could attend.......
cousin roberta, California

Please send our deepest condolences to Marilyn's family. Marilyn was always a delight to work with and will be missed greatly. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

From deep in the hearts of your friends here in Texas and Baylor Health Care System <3

Elin, So sorry for your loss of Marilyn; she was a good friend and great cousin to you. Thinking of you, with love.
Ellen

We're so sorry to hear about Marilyn.We love the picture of her It's exactly how we remember her,smiling and engaging life.  I hope to see you on Wednesday.    Zummy Katz  and Martha Witebsky

OBITUARY

Marilyn Tarmy

September 3, 1945 – January 15, 2012

Stanetsky Memorial Chapel

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