How time flies, you’re mentioned and missed always.  RIP Jay, sending love to your family.

My condolences to the Gorman family.  May Jay rest in peace.

I am so sorry for your loss. I am truly going to miss Jay's upbeat presence. 
Jay was a very good man. I have not worked directly with Jay, but we worked on the same floor for a few years before his unit was relocated. At least twice a week in the morning Jay would stop by my desk and chat. It would be about the Mets, his son, or just generalities. I looked forward to these interactions. Jay's light was bright, and he was pleasant to everyone. When I had a question about the union if he did not have answers at the moment- he got back to me. 
Jay will be missed. He touched so many lives with his amenability and his overall positive disposition. Jay was loved and respected by so many municipal workers- those that he worked with directly and those who were lucky enough to interact with him. I can only imagine how good of a father/friend/brother/husband/uncle etc. he was. 
Thank you for allowing a forum for us to show our love for Jay.
 My prayers and thoughts are with you all in your time of mourning.

Jay -

You were a true lantzman and will be greatly missed.  I will always treasure our conversations about the Mets and Yankees, politics, judaism, and life in general.  I am also deeply appreciative of the support and encouragement you provided to me for my career in city government and throughout my apartment-hunting saga.

Jay was a mensch and a good friend - someone you wanted in the foxhole with you when the bullets are flying above.

To his wife and children - please accept my deepest condolences.  He spoke of you fondly and loved you immensely.

Sincerely,

Charlie Winkler

I am so sorry for your loss. Jay will be truly missed.  He always had time to stop for few minutes , and brighten up the day with a joke!

I was so saddened to hear of the passing of Jay! I've known and worked with Jay for about 10 years. Jay was such a genuine, kind and caring person.  When we would run into eat other, he would always have something interesting to talk about.  He will be sorely missed! To his loving family, I pray you find comfort in knowing he left a legacy of love and joy to you and those he came in contact with. Sending prayers and hugs. May he rest in peace.

My deepest condolences to the family.  May his soul rest in peace. I know Jay from our weekly meetings at the Department of Social Services.

My deepest sympathy to Jay family and friends. It's very sad to hear of his passing, he was a very mild manner person and easily to get along with. May he rest in peace.

so sorry for your loss jay will be missed he was a wonderful person and friend.

Co Worker
Howie

My y deepest sympathies going out to Jay family.  May his soul rest in peace and rise in glory.

Sending my deepest condolences to Jay's family, friends and colleagues at this very sad time. I was privileged to know Jay as a very affable, kind and thoughtful colleague at DSS and we swapped stories about our favorite topic -- procurement issues! He was very good at what he did, but what I will remember most is his kindness and willingness to help. May Jay's memory be a blessing!

My deepest condolences to the Gorman family. Jay and I worked for the office of Civil Justice years ago and we kept in contact. Jay was incredibly kind, generous, and understanding. He played an instrumental role in my professional success and was a wonderful friend. I will truly miss Jay and I’m praying for his family and friends.

My deepest condolences to the family. Jay was an extraordinary person—genuinely dedicated and endlessly supportive. His kindness and warmth touched many and he will be missed. I will miss our talks; words cannot fully express how grateful I am for his unwavering support and the impact he had.

I’m deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Jay . He was a truly kind and respectful person, always greeting everyone with a warm smile. His positive spirit and genuine kindness will be greatly missed by me. My thoughts are with his family in this difficult time.

My condolences to the Gorman family. Jay was a colleague of mine at HRA, he was supportive, funny and a very kind man. He will be missed and I pray that he is resting in peace.

RIP my friend Jay. One of the nicest people I know.

My condolences to the Gorman family.  Jay was a true friend and one of the best person I had worked with. May Jay's memory be a blessing.

Jay was a great guy. I'd pass by his desk at work, and while he was usually busy, he was always friendly and wonderful to talk to. A good sense of humor and an easy smile.

He will definitely be missed.

My condolences to Jay's family and friends. May he rest in peace.

My condolences to the Gorman family on their loss. Jay was truly one of a kind and a courageous advocate for worker rights not only at his shop, but throughout the movement. As his Organizer for more than 4 years, Jay made an indelible mark on my growth and supported me on location every step of the way. I always knew if something went down at 4 WTC, the union could rely on Jay to represent until the cavalry arrived. An avid Rangers fan, I’m going to miss discussing the team with him and hearing the shouts of, “Let’s go Rangers” after almost every conversation we had. God bless you, Jay! You’ll always be remembered by your sisters and brother at SSEU Local 371.

My condolences to the family.  Jay was a truly good person.  We often spoke of union issues then when that was over we spoke about family.  Jay was so proud of his. I was honored to listen to him share about his life.
 He was a genuine caring man.  I will miss our conversations but most of all his friendship. He was always there giving of his time and himself. Thank you for sharing him with us. Sleep in peace my brother.

My deepest sympathies to the Gorman family for the passing of Jay Gorman.   Jay was a true speaker for all SSEU Local 371 members.   He will be truly missed.

My condolences to the Gorman family. He will be missed at 4 World Trade Center.  I will especially miss his smile and warm, friendly personality.  Jay was one of the nicest persons around and strong union advocate for Social Services Employees Union Local 371. Rest in power Jay.

Condolences 💐 to the Gorman family. 
Thank you for sharing such a wonderful, kind and caring person with us.  
Jay we will miss you dearly, rest in peace my union brother. Thank you for all you did.

Me deepest condolences to the family of Jay Gorman... he was truly the BEST of the BEST!!! Never asked for anything but was there for everything. He represented members of SSEU Local 371 with good whole heart. He will be missed sooooo very much. Love you Jay, Rest In Perfect Peace 🙏🏾🙏🏾

Jay was an active unionist for SSEU Local 371, as a delegate he was a true advocate for his membership at HRA 4 WTC, and an exceptional person who will be deeply missed. I will always remember him standing in solidarity with his union brothers and sisters. Here is a picture of him at this year’s Puerto Rican Day Parade. Rest in peace, Jay.

My condolences to the family of Jay Gorman. Jay was a true advocate for members of the Social Service Employees Union Local 371. He was proud to represent our members. Jay was the better of the best.

My deepest heartfelt condolences to the Gorman’s family and friends. Jay was a beautiful soul who loved his family and union. I will miss seeing his smile during our virtual Delegates Assembly meetings.🙏🏾🤗🌹

Michelle D Gaskin
SSEU Local 371

My deepest and heartfelt condolences to the Gorman’s family and friends. Jay was a beautiful soul who loved his family and union. I will miss seeing his smile on our virtual Delegates Assembly meeting.🙏🏾🤗🌹

Michelle D Gaskin
SSEU local 371

My deepest condolences to the family.   May his soul rest in peace.  Jay was a supporter of the labor movement and was loyal to SSEU Local 361.  He will always be remembered. 

Sincerely. 
Michelle Woody 
Delegate SSEU Local 371

My condolences 💐 and prayers to the family. 
Thank you Jay for having such a pleasant personality and you will truly be missed . Rest peacefully.

My condolences to the Gorman family. Jay was a strong union delegate and advocate for our members. He was a leader who cared about others. He recently accepted the position of Co-chair of the Jewish Committee. I looked forward to his leadership. He will be missed by our family… and particularly by me. RIP my Brother. Job well done.

OBITUARY

Jay Gorman

May 3, 1959 – November 1, 2024

I. J. Morris Funeral Directors

Show your support

Add a Memory

Share Obituary

Get Reminders

Services