Frank,
Thank you so very much for your friendship both professionally and personally.  Learned much from you and am eternally grateful for everything.  Rest in peace old friend.  Gone to soon.

Frank was always such a warm, fun, and welcoming person whenever I joined any family event with Danielle. He was even warm and welcoming to my Eagles fan husband, Andrew!!  Sending love to everyone. 

I have such fond memories of Frank. From the age of 7 or 8 until about 11 or 12, Frank was like my second Dad. And the Sandlers were my second family. I will always remember Frank as being such a positive person. He always seemed like he had it all figured out. Something about his energy and how he carried himself was so magnetic. I truly regret not spending more time with him, or the family, as an adult. The last time I saw him was very memorable though. It was maybe 3 years ago, at a huge convention where Sandler and Sons had a booth. It was so cool to see Frank in his element. He knew everyone, knew everything about the industry, and everyone he knew loved him. I won't forget that day or all the amazing days I was around him and his family as a child. Frank touched so many lives with his beautiful spirit. May your spirit live on through your children, grandchildren, and all those who loved you. 

Frank, 
I will miss you more than you will ever know.
Rest my friend.

Frank touched my life and helped me grow to be the person I am today.  As a child, I spent countless hours hanging out with Bryan and by default, his wonderful, funny, and truly loving parents. (I was not as lucky as the Walshes who had the privilege of living next door to the Sandlers on Marconi Dr. (See Carolyn Walsh's beautiful memories of Frank). 
Frank was so personable and since he took a deep interest in his boys' lives, I felt his fatherly presence transfer onto me.
I have a beautiful memory of Frank inviting me when I was 8 or 9 to join him, and Bryan, for a day trip to Springfield, MA to visit the National Basketball Hall of Fame.  Based on my excitement, you would have thought he invited me on a trip around the world.  Early one morning, we packed into his 4 door, green sedan, and hit the road for a fun-filled day, learning about the history and glory of so many basketball legends. It was a fabulous mini road trip and I still cherish the memory as an adult.
Another impression I have permanently imprinted on my heart is the way Frank instilled self-worth into my consciousness when I was young.  I was crazy about sports which explains my great, childhood friendship to Bryan.  One day in 2nd or 3rd grade, while visiting the Sandler home, Bryan showed me his first Pop Warner football uniform.  I envied the sports gear and blurted out "I wish I could play Pop Warner!"  Frank overheard me, and with complete seriousness said "What's stopping you?".  I replied "I can't because I'm a girl."  With a twinkle in his eye, Frank told me in no uncertain terms, "Girls can play Pop Warner!"  This was entirely new information to me.   Even though Frank's suggestion never came to fruition, I can still remember how deeply he believed in me and took the time to give me an important lesson on gender equality.  Now, as a Mom myself, my memories of Frank and Carol inspire me to be a loving presence not just for my kids but for their friends.

Frank lived two doors down from me. One grade higher at Stoughton Jr High and High School.  As such we all were part of the same neighborhood kids growing up. Same friends. His mom and my mom were best friends. We used to share Rootbeer Floats at A&W with his dad and my younger sister was close friends with his younger sister.  Frank was athletic and good looking, friendly and smart. I know he was a huge Patriots fan. I really am in shock with his passing. He was so young and I thought still vibrant while communicating with him through Facebook. I moved away from the neighborhood to Florida 48 years ago but always remembered him as a good  childhood friend who enriched my life. Rest in Peace my friend. Condolences to the family.

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And even later in life Frank became a true friend. He was as kind as he was generous. He and Carol shared 4 houses over their years together and all hold a special place in my heart. Marconi is my favorite as it united #7 and #9 for life. Mitchell Drive was where I had to watch the house when those pesky twins could not be trusted alone. Their generosity of sharing Seashell Lane made me fall in love with “sleepy cape” – bike rides, Arnold’s, boogie boarding at Nauset Light an sunsets at First Encounter. And Weston Ave, rushing home from games with Frank putting on the press conference while Carol was welcoming us home with soup on the stove.

I’m so thankful for Frank and all the time I did get to spend with him and the entire Sandler family. I find some solace in he and Carol being back together, because really, how could one exist without the other? A day hasn’t gone by when I don’t think of Carol, and the same will be true for Frank. Two people who showed what true love is and always put family first. I think Kevin (the son you never wanted) said it best, I’ll miss you forever.

Love to the entire Sandler/Spellman family,

Carolyn


I’m one of the lucky ones - my memories of Frank are plentiful, and all are full of smiles. I am fortunate that Frank served many roles in my life – a father-figure, boss, and friend. He was my left-handed coach and gave the best advice - which was always full of optimism. I will always think of him and will always picture him with a smile on his face.

Like many, he took me to my first Pat’s game and brought blankets to combat the cold metal benches of Sullivan Stadium. This was well before the Foxboro lot, so it was a whole-day affair which I am sure was very fun with a couple of 10 year olds. One of my best memories is going to the fireworks with the Sandler family, and since I was scared, he would sit beside me with a baseball glove and offer to catch any rogue fireworks.

I worked for Frank and Carol during and after college. Carol taught me all I know about excel (that all problems can be fixed if someone is standing behind you) and Frank taught me about customer service and business. Keep a notebook and do what you say you will do. Most of his teachings were over the phone as he avoided the High Street office and its workers at all costs. Unless he was dropping off tuna sandwiches from the Connah Store or Humpty Dumpty chips he brought back from Maine. 


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And even later in life Frank became a true friend. He was as kind as he was generous. He and Carol shared 4 houses over their years together and all hold a special place in my heart. Marconi is my favorite as it united #7 and #9 for life. Mitchell Drive was where I had to watch the house when those pesky twins could not be trusted alone. Their generosity of sharing Seashell Lane made me fall in love with “sleepy cape” – bike rides, Arnold’s, boogie boarding at Nauset Light an sunsets at First Encounter. And Weston Ave, rushing home from games with Frank putting on the press conference while Carol was welcoming us home with soup on the stove.

I’m so thankful for Frank and all the time I did get to spend with him and the entire Sandler family. I find some solace in he and Carol being back together, because really, how could one exist without the other? A day hasn’t gone by when I don’t think of Carol, and the same will be true for Frank. Two people who showed what true love is and always put family first. I think Kevin (the son you never wanted) said it best, I’ll miss you forever.

Love to all,

Carolyn


Our sincere condolences to the entire family.  While my husband & I never had the opportunity to meet Mr Sandler. We do know his son Bryan and his family.   If who you were in your lifetime is any indication of the person, man, father you were then that is clearly indicated in your son.   Our hearts go out to you. 
 
The Dorer Family

I am at a loss to express the sadness on hearing of Frank's passing.
He was a true friend and for the past 25 plus years we enjoyed working together, travels ( the Vegas stories I could tell) and sharing our life stories.
Frank always expressed his love and devotion to his wife ,children and  certainly his grandchildren.
We will miss you Frank !
Love,
 Kent & Marjorie White

I was fortunate enough to meet Frank back in 2002. He became someone I could have great business conversations with giving me sound advice from his valued perspective and then quickly shift gears to talk about his beloved Patriots. Which wasn’t always easy with me being a Bills fan. But Frank always the gentlemen led me to believe as I always did that hey maybe this was Buffalo’s year they have a pretty good team he would say. And in his words you can hear me saying his words...(by most October’s )“well ya know they had a chance”. 😂

Frank was an awesome guy a true gentleman who was always greatly respected by all. He was always fair and just. A trait most don’t have in their bag today. 

Bryan, Mike and Ted as well as all of the Sandler Family my heartfelt condolences go out to all of you. We’ve lost a great guy. But rest assured someone just upgraded their team upstairs and your dad just upgraded his seats for sure. R.I.P. Frank Sandler you’ve left your mark in this world  with a thick black permanent marker and those of us who shared times with you will never forget it as it will never disappear. 

TMann 

Tim and I are very sorry for your loss.    There is so much you could say about Frank.   He was a wonderful and caring person, he loved everything about his family, was extremely proud of his sons and loved talking about his grandchildren.      They were his whole life.   I hope you all find comfort in each other.

I have known Frank for about 35 years and in all those years he has always been true.    There is no one quite like Frank.

Rest in peace

Tim & Donna




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Franklin G. Sandler

March 25, 1952 – April 11, 2021

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