Dearest Jane and family,
Pam was the kindest, most humble and most gentle soul I have ever known. She made the world a better place. May her light shine brightly from the heavens and fill each of us with her love. I will forever cherish our childhood memories growing up and delighting in seeing one another as adults. My prayer is that God will wrap each of you in his cloak of everlasting love, peace and comfort. 
All my love,
Melissa Whitworth Tidrick

Oh, how I wish we had a list of all the young hurting people Pam and your whole family helped during her years at Flowering Branch!

Jane, So sorry to hear about Pam’s passing, she was a precious lady. Always loved seeing her when she’d come in the salon. I had been praying for her ever since I saw y’all at the hospital that day, Jane. We had been commenting  on fb , she was praying for us and Derrick,  and I was praying for her. God bless you all . Praying for the whole family.   Love, Sharon Bryson and family.

I am sorry to hear of Pam's passing. Jane, I am praying for your peace and comfort. My condolences to the whole family.

Pam was always a bright light in any room. She radiated kindness. I was never around her that she didn’t say something nice or compliment someone in some way. We need more Pams in this world. Condolences to Jane, Jonathan, Lisa, and the entire family. May God comfort you as only He can during this difficult time. Hugs and love! 

Pam was always a bright light to hear from. She posted happy, encouraging things. I was honored to call her friend. God bless y’all 

Jane & Family,
So sorry for your loss. Pam was such a sweet person. Jane, I know she was not only your Daughter, but your "best friend". May "God" be with you in this difficult time.
Love,
Cathy & Jerry Adams

Pam was always such a sweet presence. I never saw her that she didn’t have a smile. Lots of love and prayers for Jane, Lisa, and family. 

Jane and Family, Pam was such a sweet, loving and kind person.  We were blessed to have known her.  Prayers being said for all of you.

Jane I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time! 

Tammy Croft

Sweet Jane. I am so sorry and shocked to hear about Pam. What a perfect daughter you had. Her compassion for everyone and the love in her heart were unsurpassed by few. I will always remember her (and your) participation in our “Hero’s” group. Even though the group was started to help children, didn’t we adults benefit from it as well. I can see her smiling right now. Another thing I shall always remember was the Halloween party we had at my house. Pam surely had the very best costume. I can see that bold red lipstick painted way out of her lip lines and all the laughter we shared. My prayers for comfort are being lifted on your behalf. I am so thankful our life walks met some years ago and new friends were instantly made. Rest well, precious Pam. I will see you “in the morning.”

Jane I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you Dovie.


We are so thankful to have known Pam as a friend.  Her smile and laughter was contagious.    She loved her family fiercely and it was very obvious to all who knew her. 
We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers and look forward to a life celebration later when we can get together.  
Much love, 
Lee, Julie, Shelby, Claire and Hudson Smith

Jane, I am so very sorry for your loss. Praying for your family!! 
Love you,  Sybil Butler Smith

Jane & family I am so sorry for your loss.  Pam was a very special lady with a beautiful smile and a heart to match! She will be dearly missed.  Prayers to you & all the family during this time!

Pam was a sweet classmate of mine and a longtime friend of my family’s. She was always so kind to everyone. I’m sending Jane and all love and prayers. 

Pam and I went to school together.   I loved her as a friend she was a fun and caring person who loved helping the helpless.   She will be missed by us all.  I'm sure she has a front row seat in heaven as she has been an angel on earth.

Jane, Jonathan, Bob and families,
I am so very sorry for your loss.  Keep the good memories in your heart and head.  My thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
With deepest sorrow,
Theresa Haygood

Ms. Jane and family;  Calvin and I are wishing  you all peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts. May you be comforted by the outpouring of love surrounding you. When reason fails, pray for peace! We will be praying with you. 
With much love,
Calvin, Angela, Autumn & Caleb

I am going to miss this sweet, loving, kind hearted friend. I thank God to have known her and her family for most of my life. Pam came from a family that truly loved each other with all they had. They treasured each other and their friends. The one memory that sticks out in my mind  is the spend the night party she had one year around Christmas. They had a real tree. We were all rolling around in the room with that tree. It shed some pretty painful little parts that would stick the dickens out of you. Every time we would hit one , we would yell, “OUCH,  CHRISTMAS TREE!!!” I loved Pam and love her family.  May God bring them peace during this time, as I know they will be there for one another. 
Love,
Judy Ballard Forsyth

So sorry for  your loss, our prayers and thoughts are with you all, May the Lord put his arms around each of you give you the strength and comfort during your time need. Mrs.Jane you need anything please let us know 


OBITUARY

Pamela Jane McKay

April 18, 1959 – April 11, 2020

Owen Funeral Home

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