She was born on October 30, 1961, in Biloxi, Mississippi, to Jack and Jean Carter.
Donna was a loving wife, mother, sister, aunt, and cherished friend. She was married to her beloved husband, Gary Della of Cary, for 15 years. Together, they shared many wonderful memories and a life filled with love.
Donna spent many years working in financial institutions, most recently with State Employees’ Credit Union in Knightdale. She took great pride in her work and in the relationships she built throughout her career.
Outside of work, Donna found joy in the simple things she loved most. She had an incredible love for all animals, especially her beloved cats. She enjoyed camping, trips to the beach, attending band competitions, and proudly cheering on her Dawgs and Wolfpack. She especially treasured the friendships she made through the Cary High band community, where many friends became more like family to her.
Donna was preceded in death by her parents, Jack and Jean Carter, and her beloved husband, Gary Della.
She is survived by her son, Andrew Swailes; daughter, Emily Della, and Evan Bunde; brother, Brad Carter, and Naomi Carter; sister-in-law, Rebecca Della; and her nieces and nephews, Carolyn Hall, Steven Carter, Elliot Brown, Hunter Brown, and Sianna Vanous.
Donna also leaves behind many close friends who loved her as family, just as she loved them. Her kindness, loyalty, humor, and generous heart touched countless lives, and she will be deeply missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her.
Donna's memory will live on in the hearts of her family, friends, and all those whose lives she made brighter. She leaves behind a legacy of love, friendship, and devotion that will never be forgotten.
