I am Lyla Jancuska, Joy Jancuska's daughter. Ever since the devastating loss of my mother, I have been in a bit of a difficult state of mind to understand what all had led her to the conclusion that she did to her story. She was an amazing woman who had so much potential for life, a large portion of people who miss and love her, including me. I have been recently scouring through the surface of the web in a desperate attempt to figure out what happened on the night of November 28th, 2013. I understand a small portion of it, and it breaks my heart to know she was under so much pain that she felt the need to do that. To anyone in relation to my mother, if you tried to help her, you have a good soul and good intentions in the right places.

Time has not taken away the pain of missing you. I love you! My Sister, My Friend!

Jared and Sheila,

I had the pleasure of meeting your daughter years ago, along with meeting you two for the first time. She was an amazing girl and it is hard to believe she is gone. I know there are no words that could help ease the pain you and your family have endured. I know Joy is in heaven right now watching over you and your family. The loss of a child is a pain no parent should ever have to endure. Continue to stay strong. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

My beautiful Joy,
Today is Avaya's 4th birthday & I know you are with her in heaven celebrating. We miss you both so much. You are both "Forever in our Hearts"
Love you much, Mom

Time does not heal the void of your absence or the ache of the pain in my chest. I miss you so much. If you want to be happy, be! I love you more. My sister, my friend. XOXOXO

i miss u everyday...i hope ur smiling and lookn down on ur babys..i love u baby cousin

I think about our crazy trip to Miami. I have drove across the country with anyone before. I'm glad that I get to share that memory with you. Joy I miss you and you still stay in my heart forever!

Life with you was a trip. Even though we lost contact a while ago, I still think about you and always hoped you would find peace. You will be missed.

Joy, It has been three months since you left us and we miss you so much. My life we never be the same. I think about you all day everyday. It's so hard for me to even believe that you are truly gone. I wait for the phone to ring and for you to be on the other end or for a text message to come across from you and than I realize that isn't going to happen. I take comfort in knowing that you are at peace and truly happy in heaven with your baby Avaya Joy. Please kiss & hug her for me. I love you so very much.

Mom

No words can express how deeply sorry i am to my big brother Jared and sis in law shelia. The loss off a child is something no parent should have to experience. And when we do there is never a word spoken that eases the pain.
I can only hope that strength rise in you both,
I pray that each day brings wisdom and understanding.
And the entire Casey family are at peace knowing..
Joy A Casey is in The Arms Of An Angel
May she find some comfort here

Love always Vickie A Casey..
Love always Mom & Dad

To my beautiful daughter Joy on your 24th birthday. I will think of you everyday for the rest of my life. My heart is broken into a million pieces. I will pray everyday that you have eternal happiness and that you are truly at piece. Give Avaya hugs & kisses & tell her that her grandma loves her very much. Please save a place for us in heaven. Heaven truly has the most beautiful angel.  I love you so very much.

                                                                                            Mom

Sheila and Jared
We are both very sad to hear about Joy.  Our thoughts are with you and your family during this most difficult of times.

Big hugs from our family to yours.  Joy truly was a "joy."

Laura, Bo, Megan Kim & Will

In Loving Memory of JAC. My Sister, My Friend. I Love You More!

Jared & Shelia, I am so sorry. Words cannot express how I feel right now about this loss. Joy meant so much to me. My thoughts and prayers are with you both and your family.

Mere words can not express how sad I am for your loss. I was lucky enough to work with Joy in California and she was one of the most wonderful people I have ever met. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Jared, my heart goes out to you and your family.  I never had the pleasure of meeting your daughter but can see just from the photos how beautiful she was inside and out.  May God comfort your family during this time and beyond and may you find strength in His arms.

Dear Jared & Shelia,

I am deeply saddened by the loss of your beloved Joy Alyssa. My prayers are with you as you journey though your season of sorrow.

Dear Jared & Sheila, my prayers & thoughts are with you now as you go through this trying time. God Bless you both. Gin Butler, Denver, Co

What a beautiful girl and what a terrible loss.  Our hearts and thoughts are with you.

I was so sorry to hear of your loss.  The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.

Dear Jared and Sheila:
We are sorry for your loss.
May God be with you.
Bob and Linda DiGiorgio

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.  Hoping that memories will bring you some comfort in the days ahead.

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this time.

Jared & Shelia,

Our deepest sympathies go out to you and your entire family. May God be with you all providing strength during this time.

May God bless the Casey and Jancuska family during this time of transition. May the good memories and good times shared over the years provide you warm thoughts of love that will last a lifetime.

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.  We wish you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.

Jared:    I cannot even begin to understand what you are going through right now, but I would like to offer my most sincere condolences to you, your wife and your entire family.  Wishing you strength and peace.  
Laurene Slovitt  (Ramsey, NJ)

May God comfort your hearts and give you strength and peace during this difficult time. Prayers are with you.

Mr. and Mrs. Casey and family - You are all in my prayers and thoughts at this difficult time. My God watch over you and give you comfort and strength.

Our deepest sympathies go out to the entire family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Mr. and Mrs. Casey - I am deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

Mr & Mrs Casey,

My prayers go to you and your family in this time of need. May God watch over you and be with you and your family.

God bless you during this difficult time. Those of us not able to attend Joy 's service today stand with you in iour thoughts and prayers.

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

May you find comfort, strength and love from family and friends during this most difficult time.

May the love of family and friends comfort you all during this most difficult time.

My sincere condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. Our prayers are with you.

Mr. and Mrs. Casey,

I know that we've only met a couple of times, but my heart breaks for you loss. My wife and I are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

Mr. Casey, my heart goes out to you and your family.  I can't imagine the sorrow you feel but I hope you find peace in the loving support of your friends and family.

Dear Casey Family -  Thoughts and prayers are with you during this tough time.

Jared
So sorry to hear about your family's loss.  Hopefully there is some comfort in knowing that you and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of so many during this difficult time.

Praying for all of you. God bless you and your families. Hoping you find strength in her memories and God's glory.

Jared and Sheila, I am saddened to hear of your sudden loss.May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you.

I am so very sorry for your loss.  Keeping you in my prayers.

Dear Jared and Sheila, I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. I know this time is hard for you and your entire family. I will keep you all in my prayers and again I am deeply sorry about your loss.

Our Prayers and Thoughts are with you in this difficult time.  You have our Most Sincere Condolences.

Jared, I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Please accept my heartfelt sympathies for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Dear Jared & Sheila,
Words cannot express the sadness we feel for you and your family at this time. May you find comfort in loving memories.

Dear Jared,  
Words cannot begin to describe our sorrow for you and your family at this difficult time. On behalf of UTC and myself, please accept our deepest sympathy, we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

Dear Jared and Sheila, 

We are deeply sorry to hear about the passing of Joy.  Words are inadequate but our prayers and thoughts are with you. We pray the love of God will embrace you during this difficult journey.

We are keeping you in our hearts and prayers.  Love to you all.

Sheila. Our sadness for you can't be described. Deepest sympathies. Premier Nannies

We are praying for you and the family . Our sincerest condolences go out to you at this time of sorrow and loss.

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child.  Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

"Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts."

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. You have our most sincere condolences.

OBITUARY

Joy Alyssa Jancuska

December 28, 1989 – November 28, 2013

Olinger Funeral, Cremation & Cemetery - Chapel Hill

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