Debra Ann Mc Ardle

August 26, 1958March 15, 2021

Debra Ann McArdle, age 62, of Selden, New York passed away on March 15, 2021. Debra was born August 26, 1958 in North Babylon, New York to the late James and Helen McArdle.

Predeceased by her long time partner Gerard Kokesh. Beloved mother of Alicia Italiano (Steven). Loving sister of James McArdle (Lois), Sharon McArdle, and the late Mae Raimondi and John McArdle. Cherished aunt to many. Debra is also survived by her adored grand fur babies Maggie, Benson, Mila and Lucy.

A visitation for Debra will be held Saturday, March 20, 2021 from 2:00 PM to 6:00 PM at O.B. Davis Funeral Homes, 2326 Middle Country Road, Centereach, NY 11720. Cremation will be private.

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Barbara Odenwalder

March 31, 2021

Debbie, I remember you as a young girl growing up, as I was best friends with your sister Mae in High School. I have so many memories of you, Mae, Sharon, and your entire family. I cannot believe how much your smile reminds me of Mae’s – something I will never forget in my lifetime. God Bless and know so many loved you. Barbara Giuliani Odenwalder xxoo

Barbara McCabe

March 21, 2021

I really loved Debbie she was my best friend and she was a caring friend as well I worked with her at McDonald's and she was very special to me we always talked on the phone and laugh at things I will miss her so much ☹️ I will pray for her 🙏🙏🙏🙏

Helen Rizzuto

March 19, 2021

Debbie still can’t believe your gone I will always cherish all the memories I have growing up we always had so much fun as kids as we grew into adults we were and always will be family and all the time we went shopping together I will miss all of our fun times please tell everyone up their I love them and miss them Rip my cousin and friend

Kristee McArdle

March 19, 2021

Forever loving you and the memories we shared together throughout life! Fly high with Aunt Mae & my dad. I’m sure he’s full of love with his ‘kid sister’ as he called you and welcoming you with open arms! You will be dearly missed Aunt Debbie!

Kim Devine

March 18, 2021

Your mother adored you Ali
As much as she could show you . She had a big mixed up heart
I am not your mom. But I will always be here for you. I love you

Freddy Mattera

March 18, 2021

Debbie Debbie what can I say
Beautiful, Caring,Funny and full of life
I met Debbie 30 years ago at Sizzler we met through her sister Mae and we hit it off immediately Debbie became a true friend and we may not have seen each other often but when we did we laughed and laughed so hard we had to walk away and her laugh is so beautiful...
She was so in love with her daughter and proud I mean so proud ..
My memories of Debbie was always laughing and getting in trouble at work because we always laughed ... I remember once going to he house in centereach and I told her I was allergic to cats and she had cats so every time I saw a cat walk in the room she said Freddy that is the same cat and I said Debbie it’s a different color and she would your crazy well we laughed so hard I couldn’t even do her hair .. and her sister Sharon ( and her bestie) would look at us and tell us to shut up which made us laugh more. Debbie I love you ❤️ And will always keep you alive
Love and Light my Friend