Today marks three years since you went away. I miss you as much today as I did three years ago.
I wish you were here with me with all my heart.

It has been a year since you left me,a very long year.
I hope you are with your family who loved you and are happy.
I am trying to move on,but you are still with me.
I need to stop coming to your grave, it is too hard for me saying good bye every time. I will always LOVE YOU !!

After five month of living without you, I miss you more every day. LOVE YOU

It has been four months since you went to your family. I can not stop thinking about you, I miss you more each day. LOVE YOU

It has been three month since you went home to your family in Haven. Time does no help with the empty spot in my life you left behind. I look forward to us being together again, the sooner the better. All my LOVE ,  bill.

I JUST LEARNED OF YOUR PASSING CAROLYN. I'M CRUSHED. I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU. YOU WERE LIKE NO OTHER. WHAT A SMILE! SWEET REST AND PEACE CARA...
Dale J.

It has been two months since you left me, it is not getting any easier. Everyone says it gets better, but I believe that is only the people who did not LOVE you as much as me. I am looking forward to joining you, the sooner the better. I have a void in my life that will never be filled again.

It has been one month since you have left us,the longest month of my life. I can not stop thinking about you and my love for you has only grown stronger. I look forward to the day when we are together again. I will always LOVE you!!

Bill, May god give you comfort & strength at this most difficult time of sorrow.I will pray for you and please know I feel your pain. R.I.P CARA......

So sorry to hear about Cara. I see how much love you have for her, have comfort in that you will be together again one day. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

R.I.P. MY COUSIN... I DON'T KNOW WHERE ALL THE YEARS WENT BUT THEY PAST BY SO QUICKLY. IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY WE WERE SMALL CHILDREN LAUGHING AND CUTTING UP.WE NEVER SAW EACHOTHER OFTEN BUT LIKE I ALWAYS TOLD YOU I THINK ABOUT ALL OF MY FAMILY ALL THE TIME. CAROL I HOPE YOUR AT REST WITH YOUR MOTHER YOU TRULY DESERVE A GOOD REST.I PRAY THAT YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN WILL BE OK, AND THAT PATTY WILL BE OK...I'LL MISS YOU AND ALWAYS LOVE YOU...CLIFF & GLENDA...

My deepest sympathy on the death of your dear Carolyn.  She is in my prayers.
Yvonne Spicuzza

Bill I can't tell you how sorry I am for your loss of Cara. Please except my heart felt sympathy. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Love always Jerry Broschofsky

Bill, Effie and I are very sorry for your loss. Our hopes and prayers are with you.

Sharon 
It's been a very long time since I worked with your mother at the Navy. But just want you to know that you are in my prayers as you go through this difficult time. Our Father in heaven will carry you through. May the good memories sustain you.

To Bill Schwertz and Cara's family
We are very sorry for your
loss.  We know Cara is out of pain and we will miss her.  God bless you.

Words cannot express my heartfelt sympathy for you bill I am so sorry for your loss

Bill,
Hold on to all the good memories you have of Cara, they will serve you well in the future.  She has left you physically, but not spiritually. One day you will meet again and be together eternally. Until then, may God bless you both!
All My Love,
Barbara

To Bill Schwertz and Cara's Family.
We are so sorry for your loss.  We pray that you are all comforted and that you only hold on to good memories of the times spent with Cara. May God Bless you all with peace during this time of sorrow.
Andy and Sandy Yuratich

I'm so sorry for your lost Bill, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Irv

I will always LOVE you and looking forward to being together again in Heaven.

Miss you Cuz  I find comfort in knowing you are in a wonderful place now with no more pain or heartache surrounded by the loved ones that have gone before us. Rest now sweet angel. Till we meet again. Love ya always.  Leah and Family.

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

 Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
 Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
 That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
 God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

 It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

 God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not  be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me. 

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
Â©Copyright 1998

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Carolyn Tamor Tamor Ruiz

February 7, 1955 – June 9, 2015

St. Bernard Memorial Funeral Home & Gardens

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