our condolences are with you and the family, randy was a good man and husband and a true brother in law i wish we would have known,he will be missed and our prayers are with you and the kids

I believe the last time that I seen my cousin Randy was when I was ten. 
I remember him to be charismatic.I also remember his beautiful blue eyes and his smile aiways stuck out in my mind. I only wish that I would have grown to know him more, what a wonderful man. I love him very much. I believe that I will see him again.
To Jimmy, Gloria and Randy's special family I extend my deepest condolences.
Randy, say hi to Grandma and Grandma!
I love you!
Your Cousin,
Cathy R. Oldham

TO THE GREATEST HUSBAND IN THE WORLD,

   RANDY WAS A GREAT MAN OF TALENT,VERY SMART,VERY FUNNY AND HAD A GREAT ATTITUDE.
   A LOVING, DOTING FATHER, AN UNSELFISH,UNDERSTANDING,CARING HUSBAND, LOVING SON AND A ROLE MODEL TO ALL THOSE HE TOOK UNDER HIS WING.
    WE WERE MARRIED FOR 24 SHORT YEARS, ONLY KNEW EACH OTHER A SHORT TIME BEFORE WE GOT MARRIED. SOME SAID WE WERE FOOLS FOR RUSHING INTO MARRIAGE,BUT WE HAD A BOND AND LOVE THAT KNEW NO BOUNDS!!!!!!
   MY HEART FOUND ITS HOME WHEN I FOUND RANDY.MY LIFE BEGAN WHEN RANDY ENTERED INTO IT.
   I WAS GIVEN THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT LIFE HAD TO OFFER- TO LOVE AND BE LOVED BY ONE OF THE MOST WONDERFUL MEN THAT WALKED THIS EARTH.
   WE WERE 2 BODIES THAT SHARED "ONE" HEART.WITHOUT HIM, I DON'T KNOW IF I'LL EVER SURVIVE.WE SPENT EVERY HOUR OF EVERYDAY TOGETHER AND SHARED EVERYHTING!!!!!!!
   BEING WITH RANDY,LOOKING INTO HIS EYES,HOLDING HIS HAND,TOUCHING HIS CHEEK WAS ALL IT TOOK TO CONVINCE ME THAT LOVE WAS MADE "JUST FOR US"!!!!!
   "HE WAS THE AIR I BREATHED"
   "HE WAS THE LIGHT IN MY LIFE"
   "HE WAS THE BEAT IN MY HEART"
   "THE REASON FOR GETTING UP EVERY 
     MORNING"
   "ONE LOOK FROM HIM WAS ALL IT TOOK
    TO FALL IN LOVE ALL OVER AGAIN!!"
   RANDY WAS MY HERO,HUSBAND, BEST FRIEND, AND GREATEST LOVE OF MY LIFE!!
   I DREW STRENGTH FROM HIM
   WITHOUT RANDY, THERE IS NO ME.
   OUR MARRIAGE STARTED OUT AS A COMMITTMENT TO EACH OTHER TO BE FAITHFUL, TO LOVE AND TO CHERISH EACH OTHER FOR LIFE, FOR BETTER, FOR WORSE, IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH.  WE KEPT THAT PLEDGE AND OUR BOND WILL ALWAYS BE ONE.
   I PRAY THAT HEAVEN HOLDS A PLACE FOR SUCH A LOVE AS OURS, BECAUSE I NOT ONLY WANTED TO SPEND THE REST OF MY LIFE WITH RANDY, BUT WANT TO SHARE OUR LOVE FOR ALL ETERNITY!!!!!!!!!
   MY DEAREST RANDY
      NEVER LET ME GO!
         HOLD ME CLOSE TO YOUR HEART
  **I WILL BE YOURS FOR ALL ETERNITY!**
   WATCH OVER US AND GUIDE US "HOME"!
PROMISE ME YOU WILL COME BACK FOR ME,FOR WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN!
  FOR I CAN'T HELP FALLING IN LOVE WITH YOU THEN, NOW AND FOREVER!!!!!
   I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU, LOVE KAREN

Karen, Courtney, Brittany, and Blake, 

I have been thinking of you everyday.  I have wonderful memories with Randy and your family that will be with me forever.  He is so missed.  My prayers and love are with you all.

Courtney, you have been my best friend since I can remember. It would be fair to say that you truly are the most selfless friend I've ever had as well. I think I can attribute that to your father. He was and still is a great man. I love you all and I know he loved all of you more than anything. God bless you through this difficult time. I am so sorry.

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

When I moved to Arizona back in 97, Brittany was my first friend. I literally would sleep at her house every night, her parents became like a second family to me.  I can truly call Randy my father. Randy was the most honest, caring, and thoughtful father  anyone could ever ask for.  I could go on and on about what a terrific father and friend he was to me.  I know that one day i will see him again, so this isnt a goodbye, its a see you later. I love you Dad!

Randy was a remarkable man & brother in law.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you Karen and your entire family at this time of sorrow.  May your hearts be filled with the wonderful memories of joyful times together.  We will always treasure the precious moments we had with him.  We will miss him so much.  May God Bless you all.  Love, Vernon and Brenda Becker--Mesa, Arizona

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family during this difficult time.  Randy's grandmother (Audrey Age) is very special to Robin and myself.  She has mentioned Randy and your entire family to us many time.  May God Bless Each of You.

I have the fondest memories of summertime barbeques and family vacations with Randy and his family.  I will miss him so much and always keep those memories close to my heart.  All of my thoughts, love, and sympathy go out to his family, who I know he loved more than anything in this world.

We are so sorry for your loss. May God give you strength to get through this.

Gloria & Jimmy,

No words can express the true sorry our heart feels this day, but we pray that our love and support we send helps mend the way.

To a Wonderful Mother Gloria,

A Mother’s love is something
that no on can explain,
It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain,
It is endless and unselfish
and enduring come what may
For nothing can destroy it
or take that love away . . .
It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking,
And it never fails or falters
even though the heart is breaking . . .
It believes beyond believing
when the world around condemns,
And it glows with all the beauty
of the rarest, brightest gems . . .
It is far beyond defining,
it defies all explanation,
And it still remains a secret
like the mysteries of creation . . .
A many splendoured miracle
man cannot understand
And another wondrous evidence
of God’s tender guiding hand.

To a Devoted Father & Friend Jimmy,

 Father means so many things…
A understanding heart,
A source of strength and of support
Right from the very start.
A constant readiness to help
In a kind and thoughtful way.
With encouragement and forgiveness
No matter what comes your way.
A special generosity and always affection, too
A Father means so many things
When he’s a man like you… 

We will miss our loving, kind hearted and gentle spirited Randy, but he will never be forgotten. God bless you all...

The Cooper Family (Pat, Ron, Robin [Jim], Chris, and Robert)

You were my very best friend, and because of our blessed  friendship on earth, you have touched my heart and made me a better man. Of all the souls I have encountered through my life, you were the purest one. Every time I was around you, I have always thought that nothing could have been added, changed, or altered about you. We will miss you so very much, and I have no doubt that I will see you in heaven, because a very special star is now shining, and a new angel has been added in God's Kingdom. So this is just a goodbye for now my friend.

Love forever,
Jose, Doris, Gabriella, Giovanna, Tiffany, Heather, and Matthew

I miss you more then I can express 
My love for you will never grow less
I keep trying to imagine how I will go on
I realize tomorrow is another dawn 

I know you’re in heaven above 
Looking down on us with all your love
Only to whisper in our ear 
Remember that I’ll never stopped loving you dear

I’ll always remember the good times we had 
Remember the man, my wonderful dad
I’ll remember you each and every day 
And if I need to talk to you, I’ll just sit down and pray

One day we’ll be together again 
To talk about all the places we been
Until the time I’ll always treasure
Having you for a dad was such a great pleasure

It was a real honor having Randy as an uncle, and while I didn't see him a lot, every time I did he was a joy to be around. He will defiantly be missed by everyone in the family.

Our thoughts are with you Aunt Karen, Court, Brit, and Blake, remember if you ever need anything, just let us know.

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. I will miss him dearly, he was a wonderful friend & co-worker, and of course always had a good joke to tell me. Thanks Randy.

What a blessing it was to come to know Randy through our coming to know your wonderful family during our shared time at the hospital. We share in your grief and know what a tremendous (temporary) loss this is for all of you. Remember that when one door closes, another opens. Randy is not gone, he has only gone ahead. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. Debbie Foote, Margaret Childs and families

May God Bless this family during this rough time. To my Brother Jimmy, I DO KNOW how you are feeling and am so sorry and I do love you and Gloria.

Karen and Kids.... I grew up with Randy and knew his heart.... What an awesome guy.....

God Bless All
John and Kim Oldham
Pleasant Prairie, Wi.

Daddy~ I LOVE YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!! I MISS YOU SOOOOO MUCH!!! I WOULD GIVE ANYTHING FOR JUST ONE MORE DAY WITH YOU!!! You are the best dad in the WHOLE world!! I will miss your crocked smile and those pretty blue eyes!! You are such a gentle caring person who was nice to everyone!! I cant stop crying the world just doesnt feel right with you not here!! I LOVE YOU DADDY!!
To my daddy... My Best Friend... And My Hero

My love and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.  Our family has lost one wonderful person.

My dad was the most wonderful person I have ever known.... He would do anything for anyone..... I cannot even begin to express how much I miss him and how I would do anything to have him back..... I LOVE YOU DADDY AND I MISS YOU MORE THAN YOU WILL EVER KNOW!!!!
To my Father... My Friend.... My Hero.....

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief and always.

There is nothing that can be said to ease your pain so I will just say that you have our deepest condolences and our thoughts are with you.

My deepest condolences and love to you all.  I keep seeing him as such a handsome boy with big eyes and smile to match.   You are all in my thoughts and prayers.   We all feel so incredibly sad.

OBITUARY

Randall Braden Oldham

March 30, 1964 – June 2, 2010

Valley of the Sun Mortuary & Cemetery

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