OBITUARY

Joseph Albert Taffoni, Jr.

March 27, 1945July 26, 2021

Joseph Albert Taffoni, Jr., 76, of Chapin, South Carolina passed away Monday, July 26, 2021 in his home after a courageous two-year battle with Primary CNS Lymphoma.

Joe was born in Brownsville, PA and was the only child of Joseph Albert Taffoni and Agnes Cseko Taffoni. He grew up in Nemacolin, PA and attended Carmichaels High School in Carmichaels, PA, where he was an outstanding football and baseball player. He accepted a full football scholarship to play at West Virginia University where he was a three year letterman and Captain. He played in the first ever indoor football game when WVU played in the 1964 Liberty Bowl in Atlantic City. He transferred to University of Tennessee at Martin for his senior year and was then drafted in the fourth round by the Cleveland Browns. He played four years for the Browns where he earned the starting right offensive tackle position. While with the Browns, he played in the first Monday night football game when the Browns hosted and defeated the New York Jets 31-21. He was traded to the New York Giants in 1972 and was their starting right offensive tackle. During the 1972 season, Joe and his fellow offensive line teammate Doug Van Horn gave up the fewest quarterback sacks in the entire league.

Joe had many honors during his football career. While at West Virginia, he was All-Southern Conference and second team All-American. He was named to the WVU all-decade team for the period 1960-1969. University of Tennessee at Martin elected him into their Athletic Hall of Fame in 1989. While with the New York Giants, he was named to the 1972 All–NFC team. Joe retired from pro football in 1974 due to an injury and began a college coaching job with his former New York Giant teammate Joe Morrison at the University of Tennessee-Chattanooga. He coached there for 3 ½ years and then left college coaching for a successful career in the business world. He moved his family to Medford, New Jersey in 1977. He worked in sales for the 32 years that they lived in Medford. During that time, he accepted a football coaching position at Holy Cross High School in Delran, New Jersey. His family always teased him that while his main job was in sales, his favorite job was coaching football. He loved working with the young athletes and coached at Holy Cross for 16 years and Paul VI High School for 2 years. Holy Cross won three state championships, including the Parochial Group 4 New Jersey state championship against Don Bosco 41-40. Joe always said that he wanted to give back to the sport that had given him so much enjoyment. He was so very proud of all the young men he coached and compiled a list of 250 student athletes who received football scholarships to college. Joe never wanted the praise for himself, but instead wanted the young men to learn discipline and success both on and off the field. Holy Cross honored Joe and his son, Matt Taffoni, by selecting them to the Holy Cross Football Hall of Fame. Coach T, as he was affectionately known by the players, was famous for his sayings or “Taffonisms”. Many of his former players, both in college and in high school, called him during his illness and made him laugh at some of the sayings he had. He was a great storyteller and shared many stories, poems, and a few songs with his Facebook friends.

Joe’s pride and joy was his family. He instilled in his children and grandchildren the importance of family and told many stories of growing up and the role his Italian family heritage had in shaping him. He was a wonderful cook and spaghetti dinner at Pop Pop’s was a family favorite. He made many recipes that his Nona taught him and his sauces were delicious. He loved to fish and shared this love with his son, son-in-law and two grandsons. He also enjoyed drawing and, during his illness, found that this hobby brought him great joy. He shared his love of drawing with his two granddaughters. Pop Pop’s pictures are displayed in the rooms of both girls. He will be remembered as a loving husband, father, and grandfather. He is survived by his wife, Susan, to whom he was married for 52 years and by his son, Matt Taffoni, M.D, and his two children, Larkin and Matthew and by his daughter, Maria Hetlinger, AuD., her husband, Ross and their two children, Mason and Anna. He is also survived by his brother-in-law, John Gilbert and wife, Laurel and Tim Gilbert, M.D. and his wife, Kathy, along with nephews, nieces, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his parents, Joe and Agnes Taffoni; his grandparents, Umberto and Candida Taffoni; brother-in-law, Jim Gilbert; cousin, Rosalie Barli and niece, Julia Gilbert.

A Memorial Service for Joe will be held at 10:00 am on Thursday, August 5, 2021 at Our Lady of the Lake Catholic Church in Chapin, South Carolina. Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Chapin Chapel is assisting the family with arrangements.

Our many thanks to the compassionate care he received from his nurse, Julie and his aide, Heaven, from Prisma Hospice. Also thanks to our many friends who reached out to make his final weeks so memorable.

Donations may be made to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society or to Our Lady of the Lake Building Fund, 195 Amicks Ferry Road, Chapin, SC 29036.

Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared at www.caughmanchapin.com for the Taffoni, family.

Services

  • Memorial Service

    Thursday, August 5, 2021

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Paul Kabara

August 5, 2021

Dear Coach,
My heart hurts hearing of your passing, I knew you for such a short time in my life but you had such a major impact on me that I have always kept you in my heart, I remember when you would slide your flip flops off and I would smell those stinky feet , lol, when we would watch film. I would follow behind you in your truck on a weekday afternoon to break down film. I could never catch up to you as you drove a little fast from Medford to PVI, lol.
You taught me so much, I have few regrets in life, but another regret is not trying to find you to reach out to you after all these years,
I looked up your name today on the internet and saw your picture and my heart dropped. This is the day that your ceremony was held. I still have your plays that you drew up on yellow lined paper which you loved to use.
I will never ever ever forget you Coach. Never….

Robert Fell

August 4, 2021

Dear old friend, sorry to hear of your passing. I will always remember the good times we had, beginning in grade school. I will remember you always especially on 7-26 my birthday. Rest in peace GOOMBAH.

Condolences to Susie and family

Robert & Diane Fell
Aka Poncho

Ray Geddings

August 4, 2021

I was saddened to learn the news concerning Joe. We were teammates at UT-Martin and I have fond memories of our time together. My prayers are with the Taffoni family as you grieve your loss. Sincerely.......Ray Geddings

Chris Gentry

August 3, 2021

Mr Taffoni had a personality bigger than life. He will no doubt be missed but his spirit lives on with his amazing family and the people he impacted. Rest in peace Joe.

William Schimonsky

August 2, 2021

We grew up together in Nemacolin. I still have pictures when were at Boy Scout camp. We used to practice the Morse Code from our bedroom window. I wish we would have kept in touch.
R.I.P.
Bill

Chris Cogan

July 29, 2021

My thoughts go out to the entire Taffoni family, may your many great memories get you through this difficult time.

Warm regards,

Chris & Kelly Cogan
Medford, NJ

Andrea Schmidt

July 28, 2021

I am deeply saddened by the news of your loss. I did not know Mr. Taffoni as long as many others but I could still ascertain the extraordinary man he was. He was kind, he had a great sense of humor and always made me laugh. I know he loved his family greatly and was so proud of them all. He would brag about his grandkids and beam with pride. We talked about his football years and he joked about me giving him brown coban because his team was the Browns. I enjoyed bringing him homemade treats & was honored to help take care of him when he came in for a test. May God give him eternal rest and the family the strength to bear the great pain. My deepest sympathies to Mrs. Taffoni, Matt, Maria and the rest of the family.
Andrea

Shannon Allonier

July 28, 2021

Susie I am so sorry. I had no idea that you were going through this. Please let me know if I can do anything for you. I am out of town next week and will not be able to attend the memorial service, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Shannon

FROM THE FAMILY
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