Mary Jane Gilmer

January 14, 1954February 3, 2020

Mary Jane Gilmer, 66, was born January 14, 1954 in Spartanburg, SC and passed away on Monday, February 3, 2020. She was the daughter of Inez Jackson and Jack Gilmer. She retired from Blue Cross/Blue Shield.

Memorial service will be held at 1:00 p.m., Saturday, February 15, 2020 at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Chapin Chapel.


  • Memorial Service Saturday, February 15, 2020


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Annette Spring

February 13, 2020

Jane, rest in peace. You mattered. God bless.

Cathy Caudle

February 12, 2020

I first met Jane when we were working together on a project in 1983. I was a user, she was a programmer. She was always patient with my "user mentality" and taught me much about systems that ultimately enhanced my career. Over the last 10 years, she's been among my very best friends. I could always count on her. I'm glad her pain is over and she's resting in peace , but I'll miss her kindness and friendship terribly.

Marcia Weese

February 11, 2020

Words can't express the sorrow I feel. Jane was such a unique and wonderful person. My thoughts and prays go out to her friends and loved ones.

Keith Wild

February 11, 2020

Jane and I worked closely together for many years. She was a unique and loving individual who played a significant role in my life. I miss her.

Frankie Fort

February 10, 2020

This news is heartbreaking to me. Jane taught me so much about love, patience and we shared so many great life experiences. With our different philosophies of parenting, we raised 2 wonderful children, Chris & Lindsey. They looked up to her and although we didn’t always see eye to eye, they knew they were loved and cared for. I’ll always cherish our travels, home life and card games we played nightly while I cooked dinner. Her dry wit was comical and at times left you wondering if she was serious.
I’ll always love you. You were my lifetime great love.

Jan Smith

February 8, 2020

So sad to hear this news. Jane was a dear co-worker in our years together at BCBS. RIP sweet Jane!

Carol Roof

February 8, 2020

Gone way too soon! RIP my friend.

Deirdre McGuinness

February 8, 2020

A lovely quirky person, gone too soon.

Judy Parker

February 6, 2020

I will miss my dear friend Jane and will always cherish the times we spent together over the last 30 years. Rest in peace.

Jan Wise

February 6, 2020

Heaven has gained an Angel! I will miss your friendship and kindness. Thank you for our many intelligent conversations, sharing your love of nature, travel adventures, political musings, and talks of the Bible and the majesty of God!