Barbara Rose Bailey

Barbara spent most of her adult life in Charlotte, where she built a life centered on family, enduring friendships, and experiences shared with those she loved. She graduated from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill in 1979 with a Bachelor of Arts degree in Psychology, a foundation that served her well throughout her professional life and in the relationships she so deeply valued.

Barbara enjoyed a successful and rewarding career in human resources, holding a variety of leadership positions with Duke Energy before being named Senior Vice President of Human Resources for Crescent Resources in 2004. She served in that role until her retirement in 2010. She was admired for her thoughtful leadership, sound judgment, integrity, and genuine care for the people around her. Those who worked alongside Barbara respected not only her professional talents but also the kindness, wisdom, and authenticity she brought to every relationship.

Although Barbara enjoyed a successful career, the true measure of her life was found in the people she loved. She was a devoted mother who carried the memory of her beloved son, Jonathan Bailey Plott, who preceded her in death in October 2004, in her heart every day. She shared an especially close bond with her daughter, Dana Plott, whose steadfast love, devotion, and constant commitment sustained Barbara throughout her illness. Barbara also adored her granddaughter, Edith “Edie” Rome. Although illness prevented Barbara from sharing as much of Edie’s young life as she had hoped, her love for her granddaughter was deep, abiding, and immeasurable.

Barbara embraced life with curiosity, enthusiasm, and an adventurous spirit. She loved to travel, believing that some of life’s greatest joys were found in discovering new places and experiences. She delighted in gathering with those she loved over wonderful meals and good wine, always eager to try a new restaurant or an unfamiliar cuisine. Barbara would sample just about anything at least once, a reflection of her openness to life’s experiences. Barbara was also a caring dog lover who had a special place in her heart for rescuing senior dogs, giving them loving homes where they could live out their later years with the comfort, dignity, and affection they deserved.

While Barbara was warm and welcoming to everyone she met, she reserved her deepest affection for a close circle of family and friends. She loved deeply and was fiercely loyal to those fortunate enough to earn a place in her heart. Her greatest joys came not from possessions or accomplishments, but from sharing her life with the people she loved. Blessed with a wonderfully sharp wit and a keen sense of humor, Barbara had a gift for making others laugh, think, and feel at ease. Her friendship was steadfast, generous, and enduring—a gift treasured by all who knew her well.

Barbara is survived by her daughter, Dana Plott; her granddaughter, Edith “Edie” Rome; her sisters, Wanda Clark (Paul) and Beth Creamer (Tony); and her devoted friend, Colon McLean. In addition to her son, Jonathan, Barbara was preceded in death by her parents, Buck and Patricia Bailey, and her brother, Steve Bailey.

The family extends their heartfelt gratitude to India McLaughlin, Imani Brown, Ray Ann Smith, and the entire team at The Sanctuary for the extraordinary compassion, dignity, and loving care they provided throughout Barbara’s illness. Their kindness and devotion brought comfort not only to Barbara but also to all who loved her.

Barbara will be remembered for her intelligence, grace, sharp wit, adventurous spirit, and fierce loyalty. She lived fully, loved deeply, and found life’s greatest happiness in the people she held dear. Though she will be profoundly missed, the example she set of quiet strength, enduring friendship, and wholehearted love will continue to inspire all who were privileged to know her.

A celebration of Barbara’s life will be held by the family at a later date.