Debbie attended East Mecklenburg High School, and was known for her feisty spirit, strong opinions, and the big love she poured into everyone around her.
She was a devoted member of Third Presbyterian Church and recently retired from the Charlotte Mecklenburg Schools system. Above all, Debbie cherished time spent with her family—especially her grandchildren and great grandchildren, who were her greatest joy.
Debbie will be remembered for her generous heart and the deep care she showed to all who knew her.
She is survived by her husband, Robert “Bob” Stroup; her daughters, Holly Stroup McGhee (Rob) and Beth Stroup Whitlow (Ricky); her grandchildren, Ashlynn McGhee Chaffin (Codey), Logan McGhee (Quincy Goldsmith), Genesis, Bentley, and Austin Whitlow; and her great grandchildren, Brinley and Dakota Chaffin. She is also survived by her siblings, Bobby Cook (Jane), Sandy Osborne (Jim), and Pam Ebere (John), along with many beloved nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by her parents, Sam and Dot Cook.
The family will receive friends on Saturday, May 9, 2026, from 9:30 a.m. until 11:00 a.m. at Third Presbyterian Church, followed by a funeral service at 11:00 a.m. in the sanctuary. The Rev. Jay T. Weigel will officiate. Interment will follow at Evergreen Cemetery.
Memorial donations may be made to Third Presbyterian Church, 4019 Central Avenue, Charlotte, NC 28205.
