Born in Burke, Tennessee, Maxie was the oldest of five children and the only girl. Growing up with four brothers prepared her for a life of adventure. As a military officer’s wife, she travelled the world until reaching her favorite home in Charlotte. Maxie retired as an assistant director from UNC Charlotte’s Urban Institute.
An avid gardener who loved her roses, Maxie was a member of the Garden Club of North Carolina and served as treasurer for her local chapter. Cuddle Quilts was a favorite pastime, sewing and donating hundreds of quilts for sick children. Maxie was an active member of St. Stephen United Methodist Church and found much joy serving others. Above all else was Maxie’s love for her family, instilling values of respect, integrity, education and kindness in each of her four children.
She is survived by her brother, Eddie Tollett from Crossville, TN; daughters, Diana Hoppa (Jim) from Charlotte, NC, Sonya Moore (Kevin) from Prosper, TX, and Laura May from New London, NC; son, Steve May (Teena) from Rock Island, TN; grandchildren: Michael Hoppa from Charlotte, NC, Christopher Hoppa from Charlotte, NC, Tyler Dukes Carrollton, TX, Christina May from Sparta, TN, Raymond May from Sparta, TN, Matthew May from Nashville, TN, and Tommy May from New London, NC; three great-grandchildren; one great-great-grandchild; and many nieces and nephews.
She was predeceased by her husband, Major Joseph May, USA, Retired; brothers, Jim Tollett, Estle Tollett, and Harold Tollett.
Due to COVID restrictions, a private family service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, April 14, 2021 at St. Stephen United Methodist Church and livestreamed at www.mcewenmyerspark.com followed by a graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to the Spinal Muscular Atrophy SMA Association, 925 Busse Road, Elk Grove, IL 60007; Center of Hope Shelter for Women and Children – Salvation Army, 534 Spratt Street, Charlotte, NC 28202; or St. Stephens United Methodist Church, 6800 Sardis Road, Charlotte, NC 28270.
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