Phyllis Kiker Ashe

July 19, 1943September 11, 2020

Phyllis Kiker Ashe, 77, of Stanley, passed away September 11, 2020 in her home. Born July 19, 1943 in Mecklenburg County, she was the daughter of Robert J. and Avis (Starnes) Kiker. She been the devoted wife of Frank Cleveland Ashe for almost 60 years. A graduate of West Mecklenburg High School, Phyllis retired from Charlotte Mecklenburg Schools after more than 30 years of employment. She enjoyed reading her bible and traveling with her husband and grandchildren, who were her greatest joy. Survivors include her husband, Frank Cleveland Ashe; sons, Richard Cleveland Ashe and Michael (Michele) Anthony Ashe; special nephew, Eddie Kiker; grandchildren, Richie Ashe, Kayla Wallenhaupt, Emilee Ashe, Michael Ashe, Holly Ashe and Jake Ashe; great-granddaughter, Willow Ashe; sisters, Geraldine Kiker Wheeler and Jackie Kiker Morrison; nieces and nephews. Phyllis was preceded in death by her parents and her brother, Cleveland Craig Kiker. Graveside Service 2 p.m. Saturday, September 19, 2020 at Forest Lawn West Cemetery, 4601 Freedom Drive, Charlotte. Online condolences may be submitted at


  • Graveside Service

    Saturday, September 19, 2020


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brenda gladden

September 17, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Phyllis was certainly one of the kindest, sweetest people to grace our class of 1961 at West Meck. She was always wearing that sweet smile and had a twinkle of love in
her eyes. God's comforting Spirit be with you.

Pete & Doris Cathey

September 16, 2020

We are so sorry to hear about Phyllis. We send all our love.

Lisa Ganous

September 15, 2020

I am so sorry for your loss. I loved Phyllis she was a great lady.

Tricia Godwin

September 13, 2020

She will be missed!
R.I.P. Phyllis.

Travis Braswell

September 13, 2020

Michael and Richie, I am so sorry to hear about this. Your mother was one of the sweetest women I’ve ever known. She always had a nice smile and friendly greeting when we would come to y'all's house on Kiker Circle. I'm lost for words on what to say but I can say You will never get over it, but you will get through it..
The Braswell Family

Lisa Kiker

September 12, 2020

I miss seeing her driving home when we lived on Kiker circle & I would be cutting grass & she & Bill would just way at me. I can still see her & Uncle Bill waving at me when they passed by going home. The sweetest, kind-hearted Church going young lady & so humble. Bill, Richie & Michael, most humble family I know. Always treated me with the upmost respect like she did everyone. I MISS & LOVE YOU Aunt Phyllis!!! HEAVEN just got another ANGEL!!! Tell Mawmaw, Pawpaw & Daddy I LOVE THEM!!!

Bill Ashe

September 12, 2020

I lost my best friend and sole mate....I miss her so much !! June 2d would
have been our 60th wedding anniversary we almost made it....I was a very lucky fellow !....I miss you beautiful lady and I hope we meet again someday...I Love You more every day.!


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