Jacqueline E Kitler

      If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Jacqueline E Kitler. Jackie as she was fondly known. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Jackie was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what she meant.

       She was the daughter of John and Alice Dadson. Jackie was raised in NYC then moved to Schenectady at age 12. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful. Jackie was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. She found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Jackie's personality throughout her life.

      Though Jackie was frequently the one to initiate games and activities with her family, she was also quite often the family member who took the role of referee. She was a peace-maker with an ability to resolve all sorts of family conflicts. In fact, she worked conscientiously to keep those typical family spats at bay. Jackie was raised with one sibling, her sister, Patricia whom she fondly called Pat. Jackie and her sibling had the typical rivalries while growing up, but they cared deeply for one another and got to be around one another alot more in there golden years.

      As someone who reveled in the sheer joy of her experiences, Jackie was always enthusiastic about new adventures. Although she had an exacting nature, Jackie was always tactful. One thing she will certainly be remembered for is that, when she got up in the mornings, she was ready and raring to go. As a young girl, Jackie had a number of interests and was an active child. She was a dancer.

      For Jackie, the school routines were never a problem although she generally preferred variety to structure. She seemed to be able to start a project and work right through to its completion. And she was able to do it quickly and efficiently and was also adept at details. Jackie was very observant and was generally quick at picking up new things. She graduated from Mount Pleasant High School in 1946. She enjoyed some courses more than others, having favorite classes and teachers.

      There was one thing that all of Jackiess friends knew and will still remember, and that is that she was a talker. She could pretty much talk to anybody about anything. This quality is one of the primary reasons that Jackie was such a popular person throughout her life. But Jackie was also dependable, loyal and trustworthy. She was the kind of person who simply radiated good fellowship. While she maintained personal standards and her own personal values, Jackie was very accepting of others. With a distinct skill for working things out, she was often the person who would organize events. In fact, Jackie was fairly comfortable playing the role of “host” for just about any occasion. When Jackie made friends, she made true and lasting friendships. While growing up, her best friends was her sister. Later in life, she became friends with Josephine Kitler and people at the Polish Community Center.

      Jackie was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call her sentimental and a romantic at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. Jackie cared for what others thought and carried that into her marriage. Compassionate and devoted, Jackie worked hard to make her new life partner happy.

      Harmony was important to Jackie and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Jackie was blessed with 4 children, Mick, Susan, Kathy an Ed. She was also blessed with 8 grand children and 9 great grand children. Jackie was always conscious of the feelings others had. She was reasonable and understanding. As a result, Jackie was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. Her secret of success in this area was simple: Jackie would listen before she would act.

      Taking her work seriously came naturally to Jackie, and she expected the same from those around her. She was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. She was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in her good communication skills. Jackie was a steady worker, one who was realistic about schedules. The kind of details that would give family members and work colleagues fits were situations that she handled well. She could understand the details without getting lost in the broad “big picture.” Her primary occupation was bank teller. She was employed for Schenectady Trust Bank. She brought harmony to her work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues.

      A methodical woman, Jackie enjoyed spending time working on her various hobbies. She liked to sew, knit and do needle point. Her finished work was always a keeper. She had no problem following all of the steps and instructions on a given project and was proud of the fact that she could have something to show for her efforts. Her favorite pursuit was dancing.

     Her keen interest in things that affected the lives of other people led Jackie to become actively involved in professional and community organizations. Because she was outgoing and worked well with others, Jacqueline did her fair share of volunteer work. And she wouldn’t shy away from taking the lead on committees or events, either. She was a born list maker and was great at creating and sticking to schedules. Throughout her later years, Jackie was an active member of the Daughters of the American Revolution.

     Her high moral standards and traditional values served Jackie well with her faith. Religion and faith were important to her. She was a member of our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church. She was well respected because she was such an outgoing individual who sought to help in any manner she could.

      Not only did Jackie enjoy traveling, but she also seemed to enjoy planning all of those trips and vacations. She was a facilitator who could easily make up a near perfect schedule of all of the things to do and see. She rarely tired of going back and revisiting her favorite places. Favorite vacations included a camp at Great Sacandaga Lake, North Broadalbin, New York and trips to Hawaii, Canada, South Carolina and New Orleans.

      Jacqueline was a lover of animals and cherished her pets. Her favorites were Tippy and Kim Kim a dog and cat, who were her best friend for 10 years when she resided on Gower Road in Scotia, New York.

      Since it was easy for Jackie to meet and get to know new people, she quickly made friends, even in retirement. Once she met those new friends, she loved sharing stories and talking about the good old days. Since she was practical and cost effective, Jackie was ready when that day to retire finally came in 1977. Her new life involved relocating to Palm Harbor, Florida. In retirement, she found new pleasure in gardening , house decorating and entertaining. Even in retirement, Jackie stayed in touch with her old friends and made plenty of new acquaintances. She was active in the community and felt fulfilled with the opportunities that retirement offered her.

      Jackie passed away on September 7, 2017 at Sun Coast Hospice Care Center, Palm Harbor, Florida. She had the horrible disease of dementia. She is survived by her children Mick, Sue, Kathy, Eddie. 8 grand children., and 9 great grand children Services were held at our Lady of Lourdes Catholic church. Jacqueline was laid to rest in Sylvan Abbey Cemetary.

      Jackie was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage in just about any discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Jackie was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss Jackie Kitler.

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KITLER, Jacqueline E. 88, of Dunedin Fl., passed away Sept 7, 2017. She was born Sept 26, 1928 in New York, NY to the late Jack and Alice (Baxter) Dadson. She was married to Theodore Kitler and he preceded her in death. Jacqueline was a member of St. Luke’s Catholic Church Palm Harbor and Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church of Dunedin. She was also a member of Daughters of the American Revolution, Ladies Auxiliary of Knights of Columbus at St Luke’s. Jacqueline was a bank teller and a librarian for General Electric. Jacqueline is survived by her sons, Michael Collins, and Edward (Sharon) Collins; daughters, Susan Collins DeFrees, and Kathleen Collins (Ray) Touhey; former daughter in law, Laura Collins; 7 grandchildren; 9 great grandchildren; several nieces and nephews; cousins, and lots of Jazz and music friends. She was preceded in death by her husband, parents, sister, Patricia Dadson; and 1 grandchild. A funeral mass will be held Tuesday Sept 26, 2017 at 11AM in Our Lady of Lourdes Catholic Church in Dunedin. Burial will follow in Sylvan Abbey Memorial Park Clearwater.