My mom, Kay, was your Godmother, Tomas. How honored she was to be asked… I still have the picture of her holding you in your christening outfit   My mother has since passed, and I’m sure she has already met your bride, and is sharing lots of good memories from time spent on Earth. May God Bless the Suchy family!

I met Tom in the 90’s we had a lot of mutual friends, and we all went up to my Grandfather’s cabin in upstate NY. 
Kirk, Damian, Rob, Tootie, Jose & the rest of the gang. We drank Genessee cream ale, the guys jammed on their guitars. We listened to The Band, we had long crazy trips in the woods. What a funny, awesome guy Tom was. I haven’t been in touch with him in many years. Deepest condolences to his brother & family. 
The sky gained another bright star 🌟 

Tom and I met in 1986, in our first year of high school. An alphabetical seating chart placed us at the same lab table in biology class. My first thought? "Ugh! Why do I have to be paired with this nerd?" As it turned out, I was no less of a nerd myself. We would be inseparable friends for the next ten years, his family tolerating my constant presence in their home, playing too damn loud in the music room, drinking all of their UpRite lemon-lime soda. After life took us separate ways, we remained friends at a distance, and when Tom married Amal, I was honored to be his best man. What a delightful, perfect couple. I love you and miss you, and most of all I thank you.

I met Tom in the 90s. I've always counted him among the people who taught me to loosen up and enjoy life. I often think about that time, and Tom is a big part of those memories. He was so much fun to hang around with as a friend. Later, as a coworker, I got to talk to him every day. I am so sad to hear about this.

I can't believe you and Amal were taken from this Earth so suddenly. Your presence in our midst had made our lives here better. I'm sending all my love and healing energy to your souls to aid them in their continuing journey. Life and consciousness are universal and infinite and you remain my best friend and brother for all eternity. 

I am so sad to hear this. I met Tom back in 1991. We were dating girls that were best friends. We then became friends. We worked together at a few places in the 1990s. We were both programmers and musicians. We decided to start an original band. We wrote many songs together and recorded them at my house in NY, spending countless hours composing, recording, mixing, etc. Tom was a great creative mind. We also went skiing and snowboarding together many times with Dave Schrum also and a bunch of others. We had a good group of us that hung out all the time in the 90's. We used to rent a place in Jay Peak every winter; we went to Killington, Mt Snow, Hunter, Windham and others. I remember spending New Year's eve together in Montreal - I think it was 1994. What a blast. We had a falling out around 2002. He moved out of NJ and we never spoke again. I have felt bad about it since then and feel even worse now that he is gone. I am sure he did also. Tom was a great dude and friend. He was so smart and knowledgeable, very talented musician, funny, totally trustworthy and honest. He was the type of guy that you could share an endless pot of coffee with and talk for hours. So many great times in my life were spent with Tom. He was too young to go, and again I am just so sorry to hear about this and wish his family peace.

Tom and I shared a friendship that goes back to the early 1990s when we met at work.   I had known Amy since they started dating.   If there ever was a perfect couple, they were it.   They complimented each other very well, did everything together, made a great life together. Although we had not been close in the last few years, other than the occasional texts and yearly Christmas cards, I know they will be sorely missed.   Not only by myself, but by the other lives they had touched.   May they rest in peace.

I worked with Tom for 10 years, and I can honestly say I've never worked with someone with such well timed, inclusive, good natured humour as his. He cared a lot about our company, the people in it, and our culture. As a result he was much loved by everyone and is sorely missed. He and Amy were incredibly close, they did everything together and I know they loved each other dearly. Picture taken from a company get together in San Diego, 2012.

Tom and Amy were good friends. I will miss their humor and  kindness. They were some of the most considerate people I've ever met, and the world is just a bit less bright without them in it.

My heartfelt sympathies to Tom and Amy's families. They were dear neighbors and wonderful people together and as individuals. Their humor, intelligence and kindness made them special to know. They were the really good ones, the people you think of with a smile beyond the grief. 

I can't believe Tom and Amy are gone. I will always remember our double-date game night, when Amy made Paella and we played Aquire. Amy and Tom, with their NY experience, kicked our butts! Amy was a great friend at work, always checking in on me to see how I was doing. When she heard I never registered for wedding china, she went out and bought me a set because "every couple should have wedding china". I will miss them both so much, and feel better knowing that they are together now.

"And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.”
Revelation 21:4
Will not say goodbye,  I will meet you someday in heaven.  You may rest in peace dear cousin

My heart is saddened to hear of the passing of Tom and Amy.  They were both lovely and kindhearted people.  I will miss them terribly. 

I am saddened to hear of the passing of Tom and Amy. They were warm and caring people and a wonderful couple.  They will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Antonious, Nour and the entire family.

I am so saddened to hear of Tom’s passing. I so enjoyed the dinners we had together and how he made us all laugh. I am so fortunate to have known this wonderful, caring man.  Rest In Peace, Tom. 
Lynn Carno

Was so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. He was such a nice person and it was a pleasure serving with him on ElPasado's board. Rest in peace Tom.

Tom was my next door neighbor and “go to” tech guy!  I appreciated that he was always willing to share his expertise-often with his unique sense of humor!  He was a great man and a terrific neighbor. He will be missed. 

Tom was a great guy with a lot of knowledge. It was pleasure knowing him and working with him as a fellow board member. He will surely be missed. 

I thought the world of Tom! What a quirky personality he had. He would make everyone laugh. Tom will be so missed!! May you Rest In Peace!! God’s speed!

It is so sad and shocking to hear of Tom's passing. He was a smart, funny and dear man who will be so missed. My thoughts and prayers to you all at this awful time.
Phylis Schachter

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Thomas Suchy and Amal Antonious

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