Carol Ann Abbatello

A woman of boundless love and wisdom, Carol’s life was a testament to the power of teaching, community, and family. For over 40 years, Carol dedicated herself to the children of Connecticut, working as both a teacher and a volunteer. She played an integral role in starting preschool programs and teaching in Clinton, New Haven, Guilford, and Old Saybrook, Connecticut, helping to lay the foundation for countless children’s early education. Carol’s ability to connect with her students and her passion for their growth left a lasting impact, and she was beloved by all who had the privilege of learning from her.

After retiring, Carol fully embraced the role of grandmother. Her grandchildren, whom she adored, were the light of her life. Carol found immense joy in spending time with them—whether it was reading stories, baking treats, or simply sharing laughter in the warmth of her home. Carol’s love for her family was unshakable, and she was always there to offer a comforting word, a guiding hand, or a heartfelt piece of advice. Beyond her family, Carol was a true friend.

She had a zest for life, enjoying late-night conversations over pie and wine with close friends, shopping trips filled with laughter, and countless hours spent helping children in need. Even after retirement, Carol’s love for teaching never waned. She continued to tutor children, offering her guidance and support whenever she saw a need. Carol’s legacy extends far beyond the classrooms she helped shape.

Carol is predeceased by her parents, Anna (Papa) Scara and Gene Scara.

She is survived by her two sons, Christopher Abbatello and Jeff Abbatello, her daughter-in-law’s Christy and Beth, and her grandchildren, Julie, Gianna, Victoria, Michael, and Marc. Carol also leaves behind many nieces, nephews, and a family of adopted “grandchildren” who were lucky to experience her love and care. Her friends, too, will always remember her for her warmth, humor, and the many ways she made them feel special and valued. Carol’s life was one of service, joy, and connection.

She will be deeply missed, but her impact on those she loved and the countless lives she touched will never be forgotten.

There will be a graveside service on April 11, 2025 at 11am at St. Lawrence Cemetery 280 Derby Ave, West Haven, CT.

A celebration of Carol’s life will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Clinton Education Foundation through their website or at Clinton Education Foundation, PO Box 684 Clinton, CT 06413 in Carol’s honor, as a reflection of her lifelong commitment to children and learning.